Questions

A supermarket in Finland has pink baskets that you can use to signal your signal and would like to be approached. I think this is a better idea than our wander around with a cucumber, tun of cat food, and meal for one in our basket technique.

But should all supermarkets bring out pink baskets to help shoppers find love?

I was at a new place for dinner. It wasn't particularly packed when I went in, but since I was on my own they seated me at the counter with four other people. I was waiting for my order but one (much older) guy was standing too close and stayed there, crowding me, tapping the back of my chair every time he made a point to the gal he was speaking with. His (even older) friend arrives and starts doing the same thing till I turned and glared at them.

I didn't say a word. They didn't apologize. But they stopped annoying me.

The guy sitting next to me started telling me "you could have hit up both those guys tonight" which I thought was gross, but he kept teasing me about it as we had our dinner. Smh. He insisted that a guy doesn't make ANY sort of nonverbal gesture like that unless he's purposely aiming to get the woman's attention... But I argued that it was just two guys with poor manners who were oblivious to the fact that I was sitting in that chair... just a sign of the times as far as how rude and self-centered people are today.

Which assessment do you think is correct? The guys were horndogs trying to get my attention or they were both just obliviously rude?