Questions

Do most relationships have that or can it jump straight into deep connections, compatible goals, genuine affection, loyalty, respect and deep love, not just admiration and feeling the highs.

Do you really need to be infatuated to have a successful long-term relationship or it leading to marriage? Or can you just love them a lot, without that first stage? Is infatuation important? I heard that can actually blind you and not let you make better judgements of that person since you're thinking they're perfect and they're not.

My bfs parents bought a tropical vacation home out of the country ( in the USA) and my boyfriend and his dad were both telling me to get a passport and I did.

My bfs mom originally told me and my boyfriend that I could come down South with them next year in the fall but now my bfs mom told my boyfriend she doesn’t allow me to come because we’re not married and I’m not her daughter in law. My boyfriend got pissed and told her that it’s serious between me and him and that we’re together for 3 years already and she said that’s their rules and their house.

why did his mom change her mind about me coming togther with my boyfriend if she likes me so much?

( she’s always hugging me and she bought me a very generous bday gift as well and she always feeds me. I also always come to his family get togethers and always have bought gifts for my bfs nieces and nephews as well).