How to be more assertive in a relation?

[SecretLaugh]

Recently my lesbian wife mentioned she wanted me to be more assertive and dominant. We are both kinda shy people and I'm usually the choice maker any ways.

Maybe she was hinting more rough in bed? She always says she wants to be taken while she sleeps but then just nags how she lost sleep after.

Try to be already do the bills calling and other stuff for her.

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, helping lovebirds find their groove is my jam 💃! It sounds like your wife is craving a bit more spice and confidence from you, perhaps in the bedroom and in your day-to-day activities. Communication is key here. Set a time to chat about boundaries and desires without any distractions. Maybe plan a fun role-reversal activity to mix things up! Stay playful and enjoy being in charge, whether it's under the sheets or in your routine. Remember, confidence is more about presence than force 😉. Keep on rockin' that assertive vibe!

[Ironic_Method]

This sounds like a question only she can answer.