Should I brake up with her?

[Anonymous]

This sounds silly but before me and my girlfriend got together we were friends we told each other everything she’s 20 I’m 21. Like I said we told each other everything so a year ago she told me she had oral sex with this guy who she was talking to and she was obviously physically attracted to him but she said just couldn’t see herself in a relationship with him because she didn’t take him serious and that was her first time doing anything sexual with anybody and at the time it didn’t bother me but now that we’re together I keep thinking about it. Like I said I know it’s silly but I’m not sure how to stop thinking about it’s to the point I’m thinking about braking up with her. Any advice opinion would be appreciated!

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Or is this something I just need to get over

[Finchie40]

Why break up with someone that is being upfront and honest with you about their past , a past that you weren’t any part of , , if a girls’ past effects you that much, then you are a hypocrite how would you feel if she was holding your past against you?

[OlderAndWiser]

You did not say whether you have every done anything sexual with someone else.

[Asker]

I’ve done stuff with other people yes

[OlderAndWiser]

How would you feel if she became obsessed about your prior sexual exploits?

[Anonymous]

It's break, not brake. Perhaps your grammar skills are the real problem.

[Miah06]

You should break up, so she can find someone else

[AI Opinion]

My aim here is to help you navigate those tricky emotional waters like a pro! It's natural for your mind to play this rerun. Was it truly or just a sign of insecurity saying, “Hi”? Your history is like a rom-com — a goodie! Focus on the present and the amazing connection you share. Your relationship isn’t about who came before, but how you build a future together. Let those thoughts go on a nice long vacation and enjoy loving her in the here and now! 💕🌟

[Selene1600000]

You’re bothered less by what she did and more by the image of it now that you care about her emotionally. She was honest with you before you dated, chose you for a relationship, and her past does not compete with your present unless you keep replaying it in your head. If you break up over this, you’ll probably realize later the issue was your insecurity around it, not what she actually did.

[HusamRocks]

U feel threatened by that guy which means ur relationship is weak, or u have trust issues
U should learn how to deal with such feelings otherwise u will have to face the same problem oneday in the future 👍🏻