Questions

Its not about how you look
Its not about how much money you have

Someone seeking your attention is not about anything other than how valued your attention is

He's in his 20s, introverted, has been checked out at least 5 times, hasn't actually dated, but has had at least 2 girls that knew him like that, that have had a crush on him, he got hit on by another guy, two women that were strangers told another guy that they were trying to holla at him, he was told that he can find a better looking woman, when someone claimed that he had a crush on them, that he should try to get one of the "cute" girls, that worked at a certain restaurant, some women seem to watch him very closely on social media, when he does go out, generally women make eye contact and smile at him, but some don't even make eye contact with him. He's been rejected a couple of times, but the last time was 8 years ago. Hasn't asked anyone out since then.