Guys, when you found out that the lady you're dating is a transwoman, what will you do?

[Anonymous]

[Lliam]

A trans is not a lady. That's akin to calling him a woman. He's neither.

I would be totally grossed out to the point of wanting to vomit. And majorly pissed off at being deceived by a man posing as a woman. I would react violently (without physical attack) and kick the person out, no matter where we were.

If they had been honest the very first time we met, I would have politely declined to date them.

[Lliam]

Thank you for the MHO. :-). 💟

[FunkyMonkee]

Stop dating her but stay friends with her, if she'll allow it. Not out of any kind of hatred but, because it'd be pointless to continue. Eventually, even though I doubt it's ever gonna happen, I'd like to have kids so, it'd be a waste of my time and emotions (and hers) to get romantically involved with ANYONE that can't or won't give me kids, some day!

[Asker]

So you're saying that if you found out that the woman you are dating is not able to bear a child, you will also dump her?

[FunkyMonkee]

I would break up with her, why?

[Asker]

Because you said ,"it'd be a waste of my time and emotions (and hers) to get romantically involved with ANYONE that can't or won't give me kids, some day!"

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah, it would. I've already wasted 10 years of my life on one before finding out, I don't need to waste another 10.

[Asker]

So do you think if a lady is dating a guy who is not fertile, she should dump him as well?

[FunkyMonkee]

As long as she's hoping for kids and he can't give her any. Obviously,, some people don't feel that way or, at least they completely respect and live by their wedding vows. My aunt married a guy that was shooting blanks and she wanted kids in the worst way but. never had any but, she stayed with him `til the day he died! They were both in their 80's when they died.

[Asker]

So why is it that if the guy can't have kids, the lady stays but if the lady can't have kids the guy dumps her and thinks that it's a waste of time even to be with her?
Not fair don't you think?

[FunkyMonkee]

It LARGELY depends on who you're talking to. Are you a trans chick trying to get a date/

[Berethor]

Get a good lawyer, transwoman are men, and they should not be hidding being a trans.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay_panic_defense

[newNapoleon123]

I will stay away from him immediately. I am an Italian nationalist and a right-winger.

[QuietRunner]

all done