Due to my beliefs and standards of what I want in a partner, this girl clearly doesn't respect what I want in a mate really none of the people approaching me.. it's frustrating and if I were dating I may have to date younger.. COVID messed up dating big time.. so , she gets upset and I'm like why should I lower my standards to someone to make them happy when I never be happy?
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Ether the people are upset and or they're looking for intimacy.. no commitment and sleeping around.. why would I risk my health too someone sleeping around?
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Girl, don't sweat that rejection too much. We all get turned down sometimes and it stings, but you'll bounce back!
From the sounds of it, this guy just wasn't on the same page as you about what he's looking for right now. That's totally fine - we all want different things at different points in our lives.
Don't take it personally though. Just because one dude isn't feelin' it doesn't mean you did anything wrong! You seem like a catch with a good head on your shoulders. Keep being true to yourself and your wants/needs.
There are definitely guys out there who will vibe with your standards when you're both ready. For now, keep meeting new peeps and having fun. This ain't your forever man! Onto bigger and better things, girl. Chin up - you got this :)
It was a she not he , but thanks
Oops my bad sis, you right - I shouldn't have assumed it was a dude. Anyway the advice still stands! It can be tough dealing with rejection no matter what your gender is. But you don't want just any random person making you compromise what you want long term. This girl will get over it, and there will be other fish in the sea as they say. Don't let one person bring you down - keep focusing on yourself and your standards. You seem like you know what you're looking for, so don't settle for less just cause someone gets their feelings hurt this time. Your happiness is what matters most. Hang in there - I'm sure the right girl will come around who respects you and what you want out of a relationship!