Male to Female Tip/Suggestion

[Anonymous]

I was going to say this is for Girls but I guess it can be for guys as well.

Anyways I just got out a 8 years relationship. For some reason I have noticed not only with my ex but from hearing other experiences that most females would drop hints or right out expect you to understand or spot out why they're really mad, upset or your mistakes. Yea I agree some of them are obvious beforehand, can be after your hint or not at all. I can't speak for every guy but for me and some of my male friends that I have spoken to, have all agreed that we don't think that way. For me personally my mind set would be that my girlfriend knows I love her so if she had a problem or notice something I did wrong why not just tell me so we can talk about it and trust that I want to fix it because I love her and I want us to work. But instead girls rather u figure it out like we're some mind readers and yes some of us guys are simple and will not pick up on your hints. When girls do that some guys just get turned off by that and will eventually just wait and until the girl comes around whether it get solves or not because they'really tired of that game. I always wonder why girls did that. If you want to test if your man cares enough about you just tell him the problem and his response/actions he takes after will tell you all you want to know.

If you be straight forward with your boyfriend not only could you potentially save time but he just may appreciate you being straight forward instead of making him guess what's got you in a bad mood.

By the way I'm not talking about situations where the guy knew what he did wrong and decides to play stupid.

Then again some of them don't want to hear either way cause u may throw to much problems at them at once

Please share your opinions below...would love to hear!

[Guy13]

Honestly, I think guys do this. I'm not a communicator and go all day without saying much at all... certainly not personal items.

[Weirdstuff]

Guys do that too ya'know... My ex often forced me to "play" the "guessing" game, I had to drag it out of him each and every goddamn time. But yeah, I agree that you shouldn't play silly guessing games with your partner. As long as you haven't literally said what's on your mind, don't expect people to know about the issue. Doing this will prevent a lot of fights (well, that is if you're dating someone who can handle some critique...)