I didn't read all of that, but I caught the part about making women feel emotion (whether good or bad) and I've been saying that for so long. I totally agree.
Lol😂 I was just sayin because it sounds like some really immature stuff you think all women do. Believe it or not some of us aren't pouty children who throw hissy fits, or at least I'm not. You should date more mature women.
Lol toriii iv come across this a lot of women have done this a few times in public and its always school girls. Im glad i passed the test, my friends lost their shit and wanted to knock them out lol.
Sooo lengthy but worth reading. Start making YT videos.
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What if you're already in a relationship but you gave into the tests early on and now she's constantly disrespecting you? Is there a way to turn it around, or would it be too late?
Realistically the chances of her respecting you again are low if she blatantly disrespects you. You need to put your foot down today and tel her you don't fee you're being respected by her. Avoid the emotional shit and stay on point. The best negotiating stance in a relationship is the ability to walk away and mean it. If you don't like what she is saying then leave her ass. Come on strong and let her know you aren't settling for anything less than what you want anymore.
So what I'm getting from this is that real dominance has to come from an early start and is earned over time. You can't just reverse a pussy first impression. You I have that right?
what i mean is that there are some girls in this world who are more rational. they have firm beliefs and don't need to beat around the bush, just like guys do. they don't believe in playing mind games, and i have never actually heard of these "sh*t tests" until i got on this website. i personally feel that if a girl has to do this, then she really has no ground to stand on. being manipulative usually means you are insecure.
Well manipulative is a word often used when describing dating in a strategic approach. The thing is that is has no malicious intent behind it's reasoning. I'd say that women sort of do these things subconsciously if not intentionally. If what you what you are saying carries consistency, then people would write a dissertation on their good/bad traits as dating partners followed up with a persuasive essay. Dating is much more complex than that, for the sole fact that dating is solely dependent on emotion. Emotion is not black and white. That's not insecurity, that's just being human. In my experience almost all women do this intentionally in the initial stages of dating. Nothing is absolute, but I feel it's a safe assumption to say that this applies to most women.
Exactly! It's almost akin to deflecting attention away from her own imperfections. I've got 2 words to say about that, GROW UP! Learned a long time ago that me nor anyone else is perfect & everyone w/o exception suffers from a common ailment. It's called the "human condition." Truthfully, I wouldn't want to live in a world where everyone is perfect. It would be boring, predictable, no surprises & nothing new to learn.
There are many, people. I'm sure we've all run a cross a few who still try to come across as perfect. If something went awry, it was someone else's fault. That was passable, even sometimes "cute" when we were in elementary school, but there are still many, both m&f who have not outgrown that behavior and as a chronological adults, now go to great lengths w/their game playing, deflecting, etc.. Bottom line is they have a hard time accepting responsibility & have rarely if ever taken an honest look at themselves in the mirror. Part of me actually feels sorry for them.
I wouldn't bet the girl was interested though. Those planned insult like things when they wait for a response... some are bitches and just get high off it lol.
Because I'm confident? Lol. I'm not going to drink some humble soup to the point where it contradicts my message. You obviously know my old account. If you bothered to pay attention to my takes, or what I have to say on them, then you'd know that I actually enjoy talking about various different subjects, most of which being political. You learn a lot when debating. The opposed tend to challenge the way you think and it can actually give you an enlightening perspective on things that you might of saw differently before.
This is a dating advice site and dating is interesting. This is my perspective on things. If you want to dismiss it as some self serving propaganda, then you are more than welcome to. If you would like to add something constructive that carries any relevance to what I've written, then I'd be glad to hear it.
That's delusion unless you are a dating women who has a double digit IQ. No strong woman would ever submit to you without her know how strong you are, just as no strong man would submit to a woman without know how strong she was. If you are just claiming alpha and dominating weak women then you aren't alpha at all. It conveys that you can only dominant the weak.
i dominate noone. but i'm dominated by noone as well. not many men can do that. even alpha wannabes like you that bark lot and loud, are just pussyslave boys in the end... .
That doesn't even mean anything. That's just open-ended fallacy that you are spewing out at me. You're actually intimidated by me, and the logic behind why I say that is because you are replicating of what I precisely described when I mentioned.
"Often in the heat of a debate, the losing opponent will resort to emotional manipulation with intent to gain upper ground. It sounds extremely narcissistic and anti-social, but for the most part, it's naturally done subconsciously. There isn't malicious intent behind why people do this, as it's a habitual defense mechanism. "
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If you have something constructive to say that carries relevance to what I've written here, then by all mean I'd love to hear it. If you want to throw non-nonsensical jabs at me then I'll move on.
u r just projecting on me. nothing about you can intimidate me you nutjob. as for constructive stuff, well i already said it. if you play their games you are their bitch. that good enough of advise on its own.
He's absolutely right! Real men refuse to take the shit test. Why would any guy in his right mind want to be in a relationship with a strong, overbearing, confrontational castrating bitch in the first place. Being alpha also means being strong enough to walk away from a bad situation
Just stop. There's no "upper hand" in a relationship, let alone is it the that has it. A relationship is about mutual respect. If that's too hard for you to understand, then you might be better off single.
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I didn't read all of that, but I caught the part about making women feel emotion (whether good or bad) and I've been saying that for so long. I totally agree.
From the way you talk it sounds like you only date 4 year olds. Are you a pedo?
2 or GTFO.
So You only date 2 year olds?
Fuck that shit. I only date fetuses
Lol😂 I was just sayin because it sounds like some really immature stuff you think all women do. Believe it or not some of us aren't pouty children who throw hissy fits, or at least I'm not. You should date more mature women.
Lol toriii iv come across this a lot of women have done this a few times in public and its always school girls. Im glad i passed the test, my friends lost their shit and wanted to knock them out lol.
@chico_brah Your ignorant mindset is exactly why you'll remain a virgin for life.
Sooo lengthy but worth reading. Start making YT videos.
What if you're already in a relationship but you gave into the tests early on and now she's constantly disrespecting you? Is there a way to turn it around, or would it be too late?
Realistically the chances of her respecting you again are low if she blatantly disrespects you. You need to put your foot down today and tel her you don't fee you're being respected by her. Avoid the emotional shit and stay on point. The best negotiating stance in a relationship is the ability to walk away and mean it. If you don't like what she is saying then leave her ass. Come on strong and let her know you aren't settling for anything less than what you want anymore.
You've already been castrated. Get out ASAP!
So what I'm getting from this is that real dominance has to come from an early start and is earned over time. You can't just reverse a pussy first impression. You I have that right?
I'm afraid so. If it hasn't changed by now then it will only get worse. Just check out the national divorce rate...
Wait why are we 'putting people in their place' anyway
If you don't assert yourself in the right direction, then people will step on you.
But women don't need to be put in their place
Who's gonna make my sandwiches then? Me?
You need to establish boundaries set the tone with people in general. Did you actually read the take?
Yes.
@HookedOnSalt funny aren't ya
@HookedOnSalt pay the bills, sandwich's done :)
@FemaleAssassin I was kidding originally but idm a step in the traditional direction
@HookedOnSalt good for u.
@HookedOnSalt no it's because you're incapable of doing something as simple as making a sandwich
you know this isn't entirely accurate right? there are some women in this world who think a lot more like men do.
I don't know what that really means. Sounds really open ended tbh. You're more than welcome to elaborate.
what i mean is that there are some girls in this world who are more rational. they have firm beliefs and don't need to beat around the bush, just like guys do. they don't believe in playing mind games, and i have never actually heard of these "sh*t tests" until i got on this website. i personally feel that if a girl has to do this, then she really has no ground to stand on. being manipulative usually means you are insecure.
Well manipulative is a word often used when describing dating in a strategic approach. The thing is that is has no malicious intent behind it's reasoning. I'd say that women sort of do these things subconsciously if not intentionally. If what you what you are saying carries consistency, then people would write a dissertation on their good/bad traits as dating partners followed up with a persuasive essay. Dating is much more complex than that, for the sole fact that dating is solely dependent on emotion. Emotion is not black and white. That's not insecurity, that's just being human. In my experience almost all women do this intentionally in the initial stages of dating. Nothing is absolute, but I feel it's a safe assumption to say that this applies to most women.
Exactly! It's almost akin to deflecting attention away from her own imperfections. I've got 2 words to say about that, GROW UP! Learned a long time ago that me nor anyone else is perfect & everyone w/o exception suffers from a common ailment. It's called the "human condition." Truthfully, I wouldn't want to live in a world where everyone is perfect. It would be boring, predictable, no surprises & nothing new to learn.
There are many, people. I'm sure we've all run a cross a few who still try to come across as perfect. If something went awry, it was someone else's fault. That was passable, even sometimes "cute" when we were in elementary school, but there are still many, both m&f who have not outgrown that behavior and as a chronological adults, now go to great lengths w/their game playing, deflecting, etc.. Bottom line is they have a hard time accepting responsibility & have rarely if ever taken an honest look at themselves in the mirror. Part of me actually feels sorry for them.
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I've been tested like that and wondered why she was randomly being a bitch, by the time I realized my ships had sailed.
Lol yep, wish I would of known this in high school.
I wouldn't bet the girl was interested though. Those planned insult like things when they wait for a response... some are bitches and just get high off it lol.
Ah fuck it, i'm just me! She can take me or leave me. Plenty of lady-fish in the sea. ;-)
A woman's place is right in front of me, as a human shield in an active shooter scenario. I don't really have to respect myself for that.
If we could combine the kitchen and laundry room, women would only need to stay in one place.
Good take fearless! All you really need is love.
#spreadthelove
Great shit
Been a good while since I read a good take
I get the sneaking suspicion this is some self-serving propaganda lol
Because I'm confident? Lol. I'm not going to drink some humble soup to the point where it contradicts my message. You obviously know my old account. If you bothered to pay attention to my takes, or what I have to say on them, then you'd know that I actually enjoy talking about various different subjects, most of which being political. You learn a lot when debating. The opposed tend to challenge the way you think and it can actually give you an enlightening perspective on things that you might of saw differently before.
This is a dating advice site and dating is interesting. This is my perspective on things. If you want to dismiss it as some self serving propaganda, then you are more than welcome to. If you would like to add something constructive that carries any relevance to what I've written, then I'd be glad to hear it.
I'm not afraid to vocalize my opinion with a date but what about other tests like testing to see how clingy/needy or interested you are?
i test women, i dont let women test me. i'll never be a part of their games. i'm the true alpha. even if i end up just loving mu hand... .
That's delusion unless you are a dating women who has a double digit IQ. No strong woman would ever submit to you without her know how strong you are, just as no strong man would submit to a woman without know how strong she was. If you are just claiming alpha and dominating weak women then you aren't alpha at all. It conveys that you can only dominant the weak.
i dominate noone. but i'm dominated by noone as well. not many men can do that. even alpha wannabes like you that bark lot and loud, are just pussyslave boys in the end... .
That doesn't even mean anything. That's just open-ended fallacy that you are spewing out at me. You're actually intimidated by me, and the logic behind why I say that is because you are replicating of what I precisely described when I mentioned.
"Often in the heat of a debate, the losing opponent will resort to emotional manipulation with intent to gain upper ground. It sounds extremely narcissistic and anti-social, but for the most part, it's naturally done subconsciously. There isn't malicious intent behind why people do this, as it's a habitual defense mechanism. "
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If you have something constructive to say that carries relevance to what I've written here, then by all mean I'd love to hear it. If you want to throw non-nonsensical jabs at me then I'll move on.
u r just projecting on me. nothing about you can intimidate me you nutjob. as for constructive stuff, well i already said it. if you play their games you are their bitch. that good enough of advise on its own.
Very well lol.
He's absolutely right! Real men refuse to take the shit test. Why would any guy in his right mind want to be in a relationship with a strong, overbearing, confrontational castrating bitch in the first place. Being alpha also means being strong enough to walk away from a bad situation
Just stop. There's no "upper hand" in a relationship, let alone is it the that has it. A relationship is about mutual respect. If that's too hard for you to understand, then you might be better off single.
When we're you in the Corps? What was your MOS?
I enlisted out of high school in 2011. Originally 2nd LAR 0313 then moved airwing. Wbu?
Oh I was never in any service. I have had a number of friends and family in the Corps though.
We're you an LAV-25 crewman?
And thanks for your service.
Thank you.
You're welcome.
So what did you do in light armor? Were you a crewman?
How specifically are they going to test you at the beginning? Can you give examples?
Everything is point on, 1000% true bravo.
You write some good shizzle when you try 👍👍👍
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