myTakes: Relationships

Hi baby, I know I haven't called you that in 8 months. I know we haven't spoken, and I know that you probably want absolutely nothing to do with me, but there's one thing I NEED to tell you: I am utterly, hopelessly,...

So growing up I think we all create lists of things that make up your " dream " partner. Whether it's in-depth, written down, or just quick thoughts we have if anyone ever asks us what we look for in a person. I suppose...

There are some people who judge and it really annoys me. Who are you to judge, anyways? 1. The people who judge your crush Her: " Eww you like him. Gross, he is boring, mean and ugly." WTF, who are you to judge. How rude...

So this should already be obvious to most people, but looking at my own relationship, it seems not everyone gets this idea. Me and my boyfriend first met when he was 12 and I was 14, but only recently got to know each...

Or why it's bad to romanticize potential or current partners. When I was younger (and more naive), I used to think that I wanted a man who placed me on a pedestal: someone who thought I was perfect and wonderful and could...

1. Girls want to make sure that they find the right type of guy, and I'm sure it's nearly impossible to find the perfect guy, but the kind of guy who isn't a fuck-boy or someone who isn't looking for a free-ride (someone...

1) Pick the girl! Any girl you find attractive! 2) Find out what time you normally see her and where! Maybe, you bump into the pretty red head girl everyday at 2pm at school. 3) Take mental notes how she walks. Is she...

BATTLEROYALE# Why am I single? That's a question I ask myself everyday. In middle school I was typically a very sad, lonely teenager who had no friends and all. The kids in my class disliked me because I was the ugly...

Hey guys, it's Cadie and this is my take on dating my best friend! The story: We were best friends since day 1 one middle school. He offered me food and I immediately knew he was a keeper (ya know as a friend). Most...

Why I don’t need boyfriend? #BATTLEROYALE I adore who I am “wart and all.” I don’t need someone to tell me I am “Amazing.” I don’t plan on having kids. I feel comfortable with myself like a warm jacket. I can pay my...

He should know that........................ 1. I'll believe him because he believes in me 2. I'll listen to him because he listens to me 3. I'll encourage him because he encourages me 4. I'll support him (mentally,...

I just wanna write this take to give some tips that a guy is toying with you and your feelings, and simply doesn't love you. I just wanted to share my past experience here so some of you guys can avoid the same sh*t....

Since this is a "Personal” MyTake this is also a “who cares” kind of MyTake but I wanted to share it anyways. Isn’t it what a MyTake is for at the end of the day? I know that many will probably cringe reading this, but I...

Each of us has probably been in a place where you feel like you have to make a choice whether a person is worth your time or not. It is difficult and feelings often make us see the reality with blurry sight. You may...

There's a common stereotype that all or most women prefer bad guys or the assholes out there. They also say "Nice guys finish last." From my experience this is not true in any way, shape or form. 1. I know they'll always...

Disclaimer not every quality is limited to men. However if you want to be more attractive in a feminine woman's eyes... 1. Determination I love love love when a man is determined to reach his goals in life. I love when...

This myTake is about having a long-term partner. The real question is "Do you deserve one?" 1. You're insecure Your insecurity would negatively affect this poor person, which is why nobody likes to be with an insecure...

Here's what a guy should have to be a basic ideal partner! 1) He Hot 2) He sweet and caring 3) He interested in only you 4) He wants to try new things 5) He both Outgoing and reserved 6) His beliefs do not go against...

Recently I met someone and it is still early. But this is stuff I simply had to share. Things I had forgotten in life which this guy has now reminded me of... The reasons to love life... 1) I have a partner in crime This...

There may be a time in your life when you realize that you are falling for someone. This person may seem completely normal on the outside, but they are fighting a battle on the inside, and this battle takes place in their...