Girlfriend always "likes" pictures on instagram of guys who are huge with muscles. Does this mean anything?

[Anonymous]

And the one dude always likes her pictures too. I'm pretty athletic myself. I have a six pack and I'm cut.

I'm not naive, as I also "like" pictures of girls who look good. But I don't want to be with them... I like my girlfriend.

Is this the same way with girls? I guess I'm being insecure, but will you just "like" pictures because they look good and nothing more than that?

[women-venusmen-mars]

i think it means nothing she just likes and appreciates guys who workout... if your cut yourself you have nothing to worry about.
Also liking their pics might be her way of getting them to like her pics to get more likes... sounds kind of stupid but people do that L4L a lot lol.
The reason why she would post provocative pictures is for attention or reaasurance that she looks good it might not be anything to do with wanting other guys. If you have a problem with her posting pictures like this i suggest you talk to her about it, tell her why not send the pictures to you for your eyes only rather than broadcast them for the world to see.
Another reason is to make you jealous cause she maybe feels like she dosnt get enough attention from you.

[Asker]

You might have hit the nail on the head for liking other pics lol

[Asker]

About the wanting reassurance. I asked her about one of those pictures and she said "Why does it matter? I only want to be with you who cares what I post.

[women-venusmen-mars]

just say you would appreciate it if she kept her more provocative pictures for your eyes only but then it does depend on what you would call provocative? You dont want her to think you dont trust her so be careful on that one

[ruthiekinns]

It doesn't mean anything, it's just eye candy for her. She prob checks them out on the street too, but with Instagram you can see when she likes them as opposed to not being able to tell when she likes them on the street in her head. She's with you though, if she didn't want to be she would leave you. Don't confront her over liking Instagram pics because your insecurities will push her away, she will prob never even come across these guys in real life anway

[bubbletrouble]

"I'm not naive, as I also "like" pictures of girls who look good. But I don't want to be with them... I like my girlfriend."

"Is this the same way with girls?"

Absolutely it is. She might have her little fantasies or whatever but most girls aren't going cheat. Women like muscular dudes. She's not going "restrain" herself from looking now that she is a boyfriend. But she will restrain herself from jumping into bed with him.

[unipuppy]

Nope. It doesn't mean anything.

Don't create a double standard. Why is it okay for you to look at and like other girls' pictures, but not okay for her to do the same?

[Asker]

I'm not... I'm wondering if it's the same for her. I said I understood I do it, but it's because I like the picture, not that I want to be with them. Sooooo my question was is it the same for girls? If it is then it's cool

[Jerusha]

That's fine dude.. It doesn't mean she wants them.. It's like when you like a picture of a beautiful vase lol nothing more

[Asker]

Are you sure? I get kinda jealous sometimes. And she sometimes posts provacative pictures of herself

[Anonymous]

maybe she just does it because she gets jealous of you doing it. Just ask her up front and be like i dont want to sound clingy or anything but...
also the way you say 'like' is kinda worrying. Shouldn't you love your girlfriend?

[isaynononono]

yeah, dont worry.