My boyfriend gave me DEAD ROSES? What does this mean?

[Anonymous]

The only thing I can think about is death. The options below are my ideas about what this could possibly mean? whats your opinion?

It means the relationship is dead

You're boyfriend is dead inside

Maybe he thinks depressed?

Your boyfriend is a freak

[Paris13]

His sick joke and Bad "Black" humor is far from funny. However, only you yourself know better than anyone here what is going on, if there has been toil and trouble in Denmark with your relationship and even a hint of a hymn and haw of wanting to break free of you before the bewitching Halloween day approaches.
Give this some thought. If everything has been fine or even if you both had just had a spat, maybe this too could be the cause. Other than that if you can't think of a thing as to why he pulled this little trick or treat early, then he is just playing with fire and needs to seriously get a grip on himself and life... he could be going through some mental issues that you are just finding out about.
Good luck. xx

[hanscuit]

i selected C because im not sure I've never heard of such a thing. I personally dont like flowers like that.. but he mightve purchased them last minute and they were old but he wanted to still give you sometihng? Maybe he bought them days ago and gave them too you after they sat and died? He maybe is unhappy with the relationship? And it could just be that he is considered odd or thats his way of expressing something? Im sorry i really dont know i also could infer that maybe he thought it was funny (sometimes people have bad humor) first time I've ever heard of that. Im sorry he did that, ask him about it. Hope i helped.

[Asker]

Thank you for your answer. He definitely wanted to send me a message by giving the dead flowers to me. I texted him "what does this mean" he's like I want you to figure it out, and come back to me with an answer. That's why I wanted to post it here to get another perspective

[hanscuit]

Yeah i think he's trying to say he is finished and the relationship is over. Just tell him its over, that was a a-hole move. Get someone better, what he did was pretty ugly..

[LilyOfTheValley22]

Is he emo or goth or something? It's weird, seriously.

[Asker]

Yeah he's into emo music

[LilyOfTheValley22]

Then maybe he's into things like that and thought you would like them.

[Hans222]

Perhaps they just urgently needed to be put in water - he may have baught them a bit too early?
There could be a logical explanation. Just tell him carefully that you put them in water right away since they looked in need. See what he answers :-)

[Asker]

I tried to put them in water but it didn't work :(

[Hans222]

Poor girl... well don't break your mind over it, ask him. It may be an accident and in this contect, wrong conclusions may be very tricky :-)

[Asker]

I should text him again see what he says

[Hans222]

Do it! Even if it's bad news you'll know what's happening. If he's been clumsy but loves you than that will be a better feeling than knowing it was a provocation :-(

[SomeoneImportant]

It means he's planning on killing you, like a subtle message you see in horror movies. He's probably plotting right now.

Or he's just cheap and lazy, so he grabbed some dead roses lol.

[Asker]

Now that I think about it, he did have an attempted murder charge in 2009... O. o

[ThatBritishLad]

Means he's made a pact with the Dark Brotherhood.
Glory to the Nightmother, and Nocturnal.
https://i.imgur.com/p2HuiJm.jpg

[ItzDizzY]

Hail Sithis!

[QueenofSilentFoxes]

I LOVE YOU!! <3

[ilovesexyfeet]

He is obviously not the most romantic of guys and probably picked them up cheap or from somebody's grave side. I hope u threw them back at him.

[nedet23]

maybe his love for you has died probably not what you wanted to hear sorry

[aficionado]

He probably wants to convey a message. Better ask him what its about.

[HadesHatesMe]

Like he forgot to put them in water dead or dropping, black, dead?

[Asker]

Dropping black dead flowers I want to cry

[HadesHatesMe]

I don't blame you. For someone to go through so much work for a break up, I'm sorry but it's over.

[HadesHatesMe]

Unless he's just that sick minded

[Asker]

I agree He is twisted like who thinks of ideas like this?

[HadesHatesMe]

I mean I'm seriously Emo and I wouldn't even do something like that.

[Asker]

Maybe my boyfriend is a psychopath? After reading all the responses I think he is

[HadesHatesMe]

I don't know, keep an eye on him.

[OnceUponADream143]

I'm sure it's A. But, you should ask him what he meant by that.

[Anonymous]

Properly dead? Did he give them to you in person? Surely you mentioned it to him?

It seems quite odd.

[Asker]

Yes it was properly dead. :( and I was going to meet up for coffee he's like "here you go " I totally wasn't expecting it

[Opinion Owner]

You didn't mention to him that they looked dead?

[Asker]

Yes, I was like babe those flowers are fed and he's like "you should know what it means" and I'm like... "What?"

[Opinion Owner]

Has he been weird in other ways? How long ago was this, have you heard from him since?

[Asker]

Yeah he's always talking about death and showing me gore photos and I'm like stop it's scaring me he's like I find it fascinating, he wants me to see him tomoro

[TheINTJ]

I'd actually find it fascinating too. :))

[Shyguy_1988]

I have no idea but this gave me a visual that just made me laugh! :D

[Asker]

-.- really? :/

[Shyguy_1988]

Lol, sorry I have a morbid sense of humor sometimes and that just made me laugh picturing that. Sorry!

[Asker]

Alright..

[Shyguy_1988]

I'm really sorry, talk to him about it, not a bunch of random people on the internet. In a relationship communication is key if you want it to last. Express your feedings towards him.

[DoctorFeelgood]

It means he either uses a very unreliable florist or the romance dance is over.

[GalaxyHotChoc]

Lol he probably just picked up a cheap bunch. Either that it he's using as a metaphor to say you're relationship is dead.

[GalaxyHotChoc]

**or

[Anonymous]

Aren't all flowers once you cut dead? It's a cultural norm to give your beloved dead flowers...

[bubble_tea]

they are alive until they're wilted.

[Opinion Owner]

Either way. Weirdness for your thoughts haha

[bubbletrouble]

I guess he didn't know that flowers with life in them mattered

[teky21]

maybe, ask your boyfriend about the dead roses.
your boyfriend loves you to death

[LastGirlScout]

How did you not ask when he gave them to you?

[L_gant]

Is he like a poetic dude or something?

[bubble_tea]

I would interpret is as A..

[Princessofpersia]

Girl run and don't look back

[Asker]

My boyfriend is a freak isn't he?

[Princessofpersia]

Nah he was prolly just trying to be funny

[Asker]

He was being serious I'm like "what is this a joke?" He's like does it look like I'm joking?

when he gave it to me didn't even smile.

[Princessofpersia]

What a freak ok time to leave

[jmmmfi]

That's a little weird

[Anonymous]

You should murder him...

[T-shirtsandkneehighs]

Gothic or something

[Asker]

Yeah he could be Into goth

[Anonymous]

He is dumping you