What do you like and dislike about a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Personally I base liking someone on their personality, how they are with family, how they are with my friends and his friends. I just want to know what others like and stuff.

[theintrovert]

I base my girlfriends on 5 scales of 20 because I'm a weirdo smart guy and I want to make my decisions choices I will never regret in the future. I make sure the girl scores at least a 14 as average or makes up for it in something else.
Honestly I love being in a relationship because it takes away that feeling of being alone. Doing all the cute stuff like kissing , holding hands, cuddling, being cutesy and knowing she wants me and I want her. I like that she's there for me when I need someone. She is sympathetic and actually cares about my issues.

I don't like relationships because they are scary ( This is the person you will either break up with or marry in the future) and when you say something stupid you can't look passed it by being flirty you generally have to make it up. In relationship you have to be committed 24/7 there is no room for messing around with others. Another down side you both need to show someone a side of you that is vulnerable and could be broken.

[Asker]

How exactly does your scale work? How would you describe a perfect 20?

[theintrovert]

PERSONALITY : How does she act or behave. If she's mean and rude I don't find that attractive , but I want a girl who will challenge me and I can clique like jason and ellie from the awkward moment in the bar scene.

[theintrovert]

LOOKS I have to be attracted to her and this one I dont really care as much because it might sound cliche but all girls are attractive to someone and girls are usually cute to me in some way.

[theintrovert]

INTELLIGENCE : I knew this one girl who was gorgeous and could get any guy she wanted if she tried the only thing was she couldn't hold a conversation after everything was said and done. She would go a whole hour of texting using no more than 3 words max to reply. I'm a pretty smart guy so I need a girl who can hold a convo because I'm kinda sapiosexual , so her brains have to turn me on.

[theintrovert]

TRACK RECORD: Does she have a history of breaking hearts or having multiple guys at the same time. The current Girl who has my hear had sex with 1 guy and gal. Never cheated. and didn't date that many people. She has just as much experience dating as I do.

[theintrovert]

HER STANDARDS: Does she know what she wants. Some girls act helpless towards sometimes to try to make me feel like superman/prince charming dude and i hate it. She can't settle If she is too easy for me to get then others guys can get her from me and that's terrible.

[Asker]

Okay, I can see how that works now. It makes a lot more sense now that explained it.

[theintrovert]

A perfect 20 is impossible it's a standard no girl can achieve until i decide to put a ring on it except intelligence she could extremely self aware and intelligence beyond the levels I think on. Every Girl starts with 10 and when I get to know her she will either go up or down. My scale is completely personalized and based on me so I can add up to 100 any girl I date or like has at least 69 because that's just how it is and it's boarder line passing a class with a C-.

[theintrovert]

Your welcome.

[Snowe]

I love all the cute things, you know? Holding hands, cuddling, kissing, and obviously sex :) BUT relationships usually take away my freedom! I'm a big gamer, and most women don't understand why guys like video games lol. It's like an escape; A second life, if you will. Sounds cheesy, but it's so true!

[TomboyGGG]

i like the feelin u get whenever u remember that someone loves u for who u are and that always makes me happy. I also love the convos we give each other the stares smiles etc.

I hate the arguments, trust issues, them forcing to do something u dont want to do etc.

[citroen]

I agree with you, but i also base liking someone if they value other peoples opinons and listen to what others have to say, how trustworthy they are, how reliable they are, i dont like arrogant people , the list is endless haha

[Asker]

Same!

[kangy]

Likes:
- companionship
- Cuddling and Kissing and hugz :PPPP
- a shoulder to lean on
- Someone to share my life with

Dislikes:
- May lose myself in it
- Become vulnerable

[Rallyvyas]

Depends on people to people. In my case he should be caring, loving, smart, decent and loyal. How he behaves with your family and friends will depend on how good friends of his liking you have and how your family and friends treat him. So always think of both sides before concluding on something.

[dannyboy3000]

I don't like the constant contact that ex-girlfriends have wanted but I love the fact that there is a girl who is in love with me, cares about me, listens to me etc.

[Ihav2fart]

I like the caring, and intimacy part of a relationship.
I dislike losing my freedom.

[geraya-sansey]

i like Openness (Frank), honesty, to understand each others situations and not have bad thoughts about each other without reason

[Trickehh]

I love the perks of a relationship. The intimacy, the fact that there's someone always talking to you and caring about you and much more.

I don't like the fights.

[Anonymous]

If that were true, you could technically date anyone. It comes down to who you're physically attracted to. Men do it, so do women

[citroen]

I have found some men really good looking , but i have rejected them because of their personality,

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, well, I think you know what I meant, just because you find them physically attractive, doesn't mean you like their personality. That's usually just lust

[Opinion Owner]

Point is, if you don't have both, you won't get a mate

[Opinion Owner]

With animals, it's different. They don't need to be "outgoing" or whatever the fuck women like in men. All they need to do is show how strong they are

[Opinion Owner]

Strong male=strong offspring

[Klaatu51]

i dislike BEING in a relationship first of all

[Asker]

Why?

[Klaatu51]

is it nice to have someone above your head always?

[Xylem]

Lie and overprotection.