My boyfriend would rather be on his xbox than be with me. why?

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my boyfriend plays xbox from the time he wakes up from the time he goes to sleep. He wakes up at like 3 in the afternoon and goes to bed around 4 the next morning. and all he does is play xbox! he won't go to bed with me sometimes and even when he does he is so irritable. and he will hang out with me but he wants to have sex all the time, its never us going on a date somewhere or just hanging out. we fight almost everyday about him caring about his xbox more than us. and he gets mad at me-ready for this?- for liking one direction. and he will apologize for getting so mad and blames his addiction. I just dont understand why he would rather be on his xbox more than being with his girlfriend. He always makes me empty promises because he knows how i feel so he will say we will go on a date but he never takes me cus when i ask he says something like "babe i wanna play this game first we will go in a few hours" but a few hours always turn into no hours and we dont go. How can i get him to understand that i just want him to care more and how can i get him to get off easier?
My boyfriend would rather be on his xbox than be with me. why?
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