Do you use condoms with your S/O?

[Anonymous]

And how do I get my boyfriend to wear condoms? We've used condoms only 4 times out of the 10 months we've been together. He really hates condoms.

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+1 y

Funny thing is he'll deny me sex if I grab a condom.

[cth96190]

If he is your significant other you should not need to use condoms. If you are certain that he is not getting anything on the side, get yourselves tested and then exchange test results.
I have not touched a woman for 13 years, but when I did I could not use condoms because they removed so much sensation that I was unable to maintain an erection.
I received more stimulation and pleasure from masturbation. If given a choice today between sex with a condom or masturbation, I would pick masturbation.

[truthbeknown]

My wife is really good with her b/c pills. We do not use condoms, I pull out. I will use one when ever she is on any kind of antibiotic because that messes with b/c effectiveness. I really hate condoms too, I'm sorry not sure what to say. Do you have any friends with a 2 year old he can babysit for the day? He might want to use condoms all the time after that, LOL!

[Anonymous]

yeah i do. because i'm not interested in getting pregnant, and i'm not on birth control. if you're in a serious relationship, and dont mind getting prego then condoms are no issue. but he should at least try them anyway. thats pretty inconsiderate of him. he kinda sounds like a douche

[Alej27]

It is simple... if you are in a commitcommitted relationship and take the pill no need. ... if yo don't feel at ease or there are risks or stress then use condoms... usually no need with bf

[TaureanBull81]

I agree @Alej27 😊

[monmon32]

Personally i dont like them because they make it so much more painful. But i wholeheartedly agree woth the use if u can stand them. They are important

[Anonymous]

I don’t have sex with condoms because it’s just not even close to being as good.

Physically, it’s better without because condoms would affect my erections, feel rubbery and weird, and smell horrible. They also look really, really weird!

Mentally it’s better because without a condom there isn’t a physical barrier between my partners vagina (fuck buddy or GF) and my cock, and that’s important to me. It also allows for more spontaneity 😉

[Anonymous]

Simple. You absolutely, no exceptions, refuse to have sex with him if he doesn't wear them.

[Opinion Owner]

"Funny thing is he'll deny me sex if I grab a condom"

Tell him you aren't ok with it, and if he insists, it's time for him to find a new girlfriend since you're sexually incompatible and he is completely inconsiderate of your happiness and well-being. He going to pay for the kid if you get pregnant? Pay your medical bills if there are complications?

Seriously, he puts it on or you show him the door.

[dazedandconfused22]

This.

[Klaatu51]

i believe that condoms must be ALWAYS used in sex

[SnowHearth]

I never used with my ex

[bubble_tea]

yes we do, always!

[bubble_tea]

pretty easy... you tell him 'either condom or no sex'.

[TaureanBull81]

I don't wear them.

[HoodedCrow]

Yeah, we use them.

[Anonymous]

No. I'm on the pill

[Iron_Man]

What does so mean?

[xHeyUx]

Significant Other

[Iron_Man]

ok thanks