I keep dreaming about my guy friend every night. Why?

[Anonymous]

I thought that the friendship is totally platonicefrom my side but I am dreamin about him every night since last 10 months. Sometimes we are extremely close. Sometimes we are living in together. Sometimes I am desperately searching for him in the Church. what's up?

[zorro8888]

It could be that you love his personality and see him a great potential match attraction isn't always physical. For example you some girls are turned on by guys who show great father like qualities (great with kids)

[Asker]

I LOVE his personality and he is good looking, too. And yeah, I know he would be a great lover, husband and father.

[zorro8888]

Yeah that alone could make you see him as a potential mate. If you've been seeing him as a friend all this time this could be your mind subconsciously making you realize what's been in front of you all along lol

[Asker]

It can be possible. Once I told him to date a girl, and didn't feel anything while telling him so but on that day I dreamed about him liking a girl and I was extremely jealous in dream. Lol xD

[zorro8888]

Haha you want to see him as a friend but you can't stop the feeling from coming XD
Start flirting with him see where it goes lol, most successful relationship start with a good friendship since you guys know each other so well :)

[Asker]

Eh.. we already flirt. A LOT. But this is how it has always been since we become friends.

[zorro8888]

I don't with girls I don't like so he might feel the same way. Tell him you like him or ask him out either way make a move and stop putting him with other girls xD

[Asker]

Lol okay... I would try to, but honestly there's too much stress in my life already so dating brings additional stress :|

[zorro8888]

Thanks for MH!

[Asker]

You are welcome :)

[misscoffeehead]

Do you like him? If you didn't know that, well your in a pickle.. Maybe your dreams are reflecting of what you really want to happen between the two of you in real life..

[Asker]

Actually, I love spending time with him but I am not sure about HIS feelings, so I never thought we could be together or something.

[misscoffeehead]

Have you ever asked? Lol

[Asker]

Noooo : He talks to many girls and many like him so I always cheered for him to have a girl and date.

[misscoffeehead]

Isn't it hurting you if your being his wing woman.. Why would you want to do that?

[Asker]

I don't feel jealous while I tell him so but when other girls try to flirt with him I get a litlle jealous. Once I told him to date a girl and didn't feel anythibg but on the same night, I dreamed about him liking a girl in my dream and was extremely jealous in dream. So... it's confusing.

[misscoffeehead]

Well I think it's safe to say.. Time to stop playing match maker and match yourself with him

[Asker]

Dating hardly works during my age, and most of the time, it ruins friendship, too.

[misscoffeehead]

Long lasting relationships start from friendships. I don't know.. Don't think negative.. Be positive about it..

[Asker]

I am scared of relationships. They are too much work. I don't know. I am happy alone, it seems :|

[misscoffeehead]

Sounds like your not ready.. Hmm in that case.. Hold out for a while..

[Asker]

Yeah. That's why I am wakting for a while. There are too much stress in my life due to work related issues so I am letting myself calm down for a while.

[zombiebabe]

oh dudette ! dreaming about him every night is hawt!!
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[Asker]

This made me crack up :P

[zombiebabe]

LOL!

[abundantlyrich]

He's pining for u.

[Asker]

It seems other way round lol

[abundantlyrich]

Oh finally u let the cat out of the bag. But he is probably also returning the feelings subconsciously. And he appeared many times it seems. Too shy to make the move?

[Asker]

I don't know. I am just not mentally ready to confess and make our friendship anything more. It's scary.

[abundantlyrich]

You dreamt the future with him. :)

[Asker]

Lol... weirdly, this thought makes me happy! :P

[abundantlyrich]

Take the right course of action, that probability might end up be what you will be getting.

talk to him!!

[Asker]

Thanks. It has built up my confidence a bit :P