Pros and Cons of Showering together?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have never showered together before and We recently talked about doing it. What is your opinion on it? Pros? Cons? Fun? Annoying? Neither of us are are very coordinated on slippery surfaces, so I don't think we're gonna try shower sex. I just don't know what to expect. I've always used showers for my alone time to think and process. But showering with him sounds hot!

[snowangle]

I shower with my boyfriend all the time! :) Here's what I got.

Pros:
Naked time!
Someone to wash your back for you.
Fun and intimate.
Saves water and time. Unless you guys stay in there for an hour. Which can happen. :)
You're both naked and wet.

Cons:
Self conscious about how much hair falls out of my head in the shower.
Can't both be under the water at once.
You have no way of hearing your roommate come home from work early...

Anyway! The pros far outweigh the cons, haha. Would recommend.

[helloeveryone123213]

Hi I have a problem. So me and my boyfriend want to take a shower together. He has seen my boobs before and touched them only once. I have touched his penis only once and it wasn't during sex. He never had it. I am worried about him making fun of my vagina because my last boyfriend made fun of my vagina when I was showering with him. He said it looked stupid. Since then, no one has seen my vagina and it happened over a year ago. The only person who has seen it was my bestie and I see her when we help each other with our periods. Please help? I am worried he will make fun of it. Also, when was the first time a guy saw your breast and vagina. Thanks!

[snowangle]

@helloeveryone123213 Your ex is a dick. Even if your vagina doesn't look like a porn star's (which is unrealistic anyway) he had no reason to say something so insensitive.

I get feeling self conscious though. It's the most intimate part of your body. Hey, I have a big fat mole right inside my labia and, while I've never had a guy mention it to me, I do feel weird about it. Just try to relax and remember that this guy is different from your ex. You know him; hopefully he's a decent person. The VAST majority of guys aren't picking apart your flaws when you're naked together. They're just happy to be there with you! Just have a good time together and if he says something stupid about your vagina, kick him out. You don't need that kind of negativity.

[helloeveryone123213]

Thank you so much! My new boyfriend doesn't mainly talk about my vagina. He always mentions my boobs. He says that they are hot. If anything, the penis is much more out in the open then the vagina. When I shower with him, should I try to turn the attention to my boobs and his penis so he doesn't look, or should I not mention it at all? Does your boyfriend focus on breasts or more down there during a shower? Should I go into his room right now and show him it to see if he is ok with it? Thanks!

[snowangle]

@helloeveryone123213 Nah just any natural. If you act weird about your vagina, that night prompt him to act weird about it.

[helloeveryone123213]

HEY!!! I just finished taking a shower with my boyfriend for the first time. It was absolutely amazing. I told him the story of my ex and he said that my ex was stupid and nobody should make fun of my vagina. He washed my butt and kept putting his hand onto off and under my boobs. And rubbing them on them. I felt his penis. Having the tip of his penis rub against me felt like I was on top of the world. It was weird. All we focuses on were each others private parts.

[Sara413]

My BF and I shower together regularly. It's fun :) We don't really *do* anything in the shower though, except make out a bit. A couple times I've finished him off after we'd had sex outside the shower, but mostly we just actually get clean and chit chat while we're doing it lol

I have had shower sex and it's honestly not that awesome - too complicated. I was afraid of slipping the whole time, and also stuff pokes you and you can't really get into any good positions.

[OzFarmer]

Its fun provided neither of you are at all shy, i mean afterall you are both in there to wash everywhere. Are you both comfortable with the other seeing you wash everywhere? If so then put it on the to do list, the best pre trial to showering together is spending time together nude around each other and i don't mean in bed, i mean uncovered nude..
After you are comfortable being naked round each other showering is just another step and washing each other leads to all sorts of interesting fun.. good clean fun.. lol

[Asker]

Very comfortable being naked together, so I'm not worried about that! But the shower is small and shower time is usually "me time" so I'm hoping that I'll actually enjoy showering with him. I've had people that tell me that they either love it or hate it. And only men have told me that they enjoy shower sex haha

[kheserthorpe]

My partner and I used to do this, before we had kids, now she won't.

I really liked it. It starts off sensual, you're naked, it's hot, but we'd clean each other, and then sure, things tend to happen.

Pros pros pros!

[FriendlySteve]

It is very nice to shower togethen and it saves hot water as well.

But to enjoy it most you need to get wet and then turn off the water and then put shampoo all over your bodies to make them slippery and spend a few minutes cuddling each other to enjoy the lovely slippery feeling it gives you!

[Anonymous]

My longest ex and I showered together all the time. At first we’d have sex all the time but I’m tall and she’s short. After that got a little old I’d just let her wash her hair and be under the water while I’d jerk off and cum on her back and watch it just wash down her butt crack. Pretty fucking hot to me.

[Anonymous]

Big Pro - The cleanest Oral you can experience giving or receiving.

Con - Perhaps personal, but you do not come out feeling as clean as you do alone. I guess this does not apply to all.

[Anonymous]

Pros - you're naked and wet together, in a confined space
Cons -

[xman1425]

We do this all the time and most of the time we end up having sex... So there are no cons!

[Anonymous]

All pros... no cons.