Girls, Would you let your BF/husband go to a strip club?

[MissNaila]

I don't get why so many girls don't let guy do this, it's not a big deal, they can't have sex in the club or else it will get closed down for illegal activities! And I don't think the club owner will be too happy about that! Anyways, at the end of the night he's coming back to you anyways (with some serious wood if you ask me! ) I let my husband go with his friends from time to time and we rarely fight or have relationship trust issues, ladies you need to let your man breath!

[throwit]

I wouldn't want a girl grinding on my boyfriend at a club, so why would I be okay with a NAKED woman grinding on him? As he pays her for it? As he ENJOYS another woman on him?
He can look at videos and pictures online all he wants, but if he wants to pay for a woman to get naked in front of him and grind on him as he gets hard that is something else entirely.
I wonder how he'd feel if I let some man at a dance club pay me to take me home, get me naked and grind on me until he came in his pants? That's not cheating right? If I want to do that why should he stop me.
Women need to stop being doormats and letting their men get away with anything just so they seem like a "cool girlfriend" or a girlfriend who is "just like one of the guys". Have some self respect.

[MissNaila]

I understand you but you need to understand that at a strip club it's all fun and games, the strippers don't want you man they want their money, it's how they make a living that's all

[throwit]

I do get that it's just a job for them, but if any woman is naked on my man and he's enjoying it and getting hard from it.. That is NOT okay to me. Especially since he went out and is using our money to pay this woman to do it. And I know he wouldn't appreciate me going to a male strip club and having a guy shove his hard on in my face or letting a male stripper bend me over a chair and pretend to fuck me.
I would consider strippers "fun and games" if it were very old seniors playing strippers. That way it's funny and no ones getting turned on from it.

[MissNaila]

"Our money"? You guys share a bank account? That's rule 101 nowadays to avoid! I've seen friends constantly argue with their husband because they have financial issues, get individual accounts

[throwit]

What I mean is, he is paying some other woman to do stuff that I could do to him for free, and we could use that money to go towards bills or small luxuries.
I wouldn't want my husband grabbing a random woman's breast of ass in a club, I wouldn't want him kissing another woman, I don't want him to let women flirt with him, I don't any him to let other women touch him, and I do not want him to pay a woman to take her clothes of and grind and rub on him.

[complicated_soul]

I will strip for him.

He does not need to see other women in that state.

I like a guy who has respect for himself and others... and that includes women.

[MissNaila]

Awesome I strip for my man too 😏

[complicated_soul]

;) :)

[complicated_soul]

Thank you :)

[Anonymous]

I know who he comes home to at night

Possibly a guys night. Not a problem for me either

[Creole_Flavor]

Sure I would I'll go with him if he wants.

[MissNaila]

Yes I go with him too, strippers are so fun!

[Creole_Flavor]

I know they are awesome :)