I feeel am not worth women. Won't it be a lifelong torture for a woman?

[Anonymous]

i am really very hairy guy, ofcourse i do know that lots of body hair everywhere is gross, dirty and disgusting. I do realise it and hence i feel i should never marry / date women. No woman is so bad to deserve this gross hairy male in her life.
even if i do wax / shave its all very temporary and it gets prickly itchy after sometime. nowhere as good as natural less hairs.
So, i feeel am not worth women. I should not marry / date a woman and give her a lifelong pain.

[Scrambled]

Dude, I'm almost as hairy as you. But look at my pic... smooth. Women spend a lot of time and money on their beauty to attract guys, guys can do the same. You and me just have to spend a bit more effort on our body than a non hairy guy. But the cool thing is, after a while it becomes second nature and I also am so good at manscaping that all my non hairy friends are having shit wake up calls as they age with hair coming along, while I'm used to managing it. I also have sensitive skin, so what I do is this: get a good face trimmer. Shave your chest with that on no clip. Cause it's facial, it's easy on the chest skin. Then just get one of those lady shavers with the soap head. Then every second day or so shave your chest with that. Women always shave their legs in the bath or shower, it helps the skin. Then if you need to, get an aftershave for sensitive skin and put it on your chest. But I don't even need to use that as the shaving in the shower with a soap razer helps my skin. I have my back waxed. After a while the hair gets thinner and less. it really does boost my confidence once I am shaven and I do it constantly I the shower. Just had a quick one now actually.

[Asker]

wow dude.. nice to know there ARE men who do grow as much hair as that... may i ask was it your own insecurity / hatred about hairs or was it for women that you choose to keep yourself smooth?
How long have you been doing this grooming? Doesn't it itch / get prickly?

[TheDevilInside]

THIS.

[Asker]

@TheDevilInside what do you mean to say?

[Scrambled]

Hey man, yeah it was my insecurities. I remember one day at the beach, this dude and his hot girlfriend told me I'm the hairiest fucker he knows. I felt like shit. So one day while I was shaving my hair, i decided to take this clippers to my chest, and at first it was weird, but I just shaved my hair off. I actually looked normal. That was the start of my new motto and I borrowed this from Marilyn Monroe: "there is no such thing as an ugly girl, just a lazy one" it can be applied to men. then it hit me, beauty does take effort, some more than others and women go through it a lot. They shave their legs and go for waxes constantly, so I thought I'm doing the same thing. And dude, I get plenty women attention lately. Gym, a positive attitude and a shaved chest:) actually once you shave with the razor, it's not prickly. It starts growing after 2 days or so and gets prickly, but that means you need to shave. The prickle is awesome because once you shave, to stop the prickle, you need to..,

[Scrambled]

.., keep it smooth. I tried hair cream removal but it's a mission. The best is just a facial shaver and then a normal routinely 5 minute body shave in the shower every few days or so. Like I said, once you get in the routine it becomes habit. Just like girls and their beauty treatment. It's even a fun thing with my girl, we have the same beauty products. And we both rag each other for being in the bathroom for a long time lol

[lil_girl]

Guys, are you crazy? I'm here just because I'm looking for pics of sexy, hairy men. I love it! Can you imagine how incredibly exciting it is to feel your hairy chests on our smooth skin? Don't shave it, just find the girl who is as crazy about hairy chest as me :)

[lil_girl]

Scrambled I hope he came back home with a broken nose? I'd be absolutely proud if I could show on the beach with a hairy man. I'd be soooo conceited and I'd look down on everybody there with such a cheeky, arrogant smile on my face. Awww!

[Octavius]

There are some women that are really into that. Go find them.

[Anonymous]

Wow that is a lot of hair..
But if anything
If I was a girl dating/marrying you
I would probably be more concerned about causing you pain then the other way around...

Seems way to easy to pull or snag something during simple things like sex

I'd be overly conscious

[Asker]

sorry? you'd be concerned about causing me pain? Overly conscious? how come can you cause pain during "somple things like sex"?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes seriously..
And overly conscious because I'd be so worried

I was imagining a scenario where the girl was on top, if she just postioned her hands awkwardly like make on your chest, pressure applied assuming
Wouldn't that hurt

Or if she's the type of person who digs her nails in "which may hurt regardless" but even more if she has something the interferes with the clawing

What nationality are you by the way
Just curious?

[Asker]

lol... overly concerned without any reason! do you feel this is normal for a guy to have such hair? And the MOST important thing will you / a woman ever in her wildest dreams be willing to date/marry / have sex with such hairy guy EVER?

[Hensonia]

Some women like that ! Don't change who you are by laser removing it unless that's what you want to do. Don't deprive yourself of love and the woman who would want you, of her being in love with you 😻 look for her and be you. Good luck 💙

[Asker]

hey thats nice to hear what you say... I don't know i do feel a bit weird and wish i was normal like other men.. and many a times i wish i was naturally as less hairy/smooth as women are!!! :-/
i try to accept my hairs but fail to do so... i actually feel a woman would only tolerate my hairiness for sake of love/money etc.

[Hensonia]

I know that it is probably hard knowing everyone doesn't have the " problem " you have but I think to really accept it you will either have to think of it as less a problem and more a blessing, with time, or change it. That could be the only two outcomes that could make you truly happy. Your nervousness about thinking a woman would suffer or tolerate you might only go away with time. remember, different isn't always a bad thing. But I do understand many people would rather be similar to the crowd than different. I just feel sad that you really think so poorly of a woman's view about yourself :(

[Asker]

you got it right , i view it as a HUGE aesthetic "problem" and sometimes a general problem as well like if i need some medical treatment / diagnosis... ultrasound / operation/ ECG it would hinder the medical experts... :-/
and yeah i feel like a beast esp when compared to other normal men and almost bald bodied women :-(

[Sakiyul]

Some women like hair..
I mean you can shave when you need to girls do it..
Some girls like have huge preparation period where they prepare themselves for sex waxing etc you can do that.

[Anonymous]

Different women have different preferences. I'd ay 60% like some hair, 20% no hair, and 20% like a hairy man as pictured.

[Asker]

20 percent do like that much? might be am dry on luck.. never happened to meet such in my real life though.

[Opinion Owner]

There are many fish in the pond, and the bait you're using does not attract the majority. However, when the right fish see's that bait the wait will be worth it.

[Touglyforfemales]

Holy crap Big Foots Real.

[Asker]

aww... dude... don't be like that.. it hurts.

[Touglyforfemales]

I'm messing with you ;)

[Touglyforfemales]

Look at my username you think women find me attractive?

[Asker]

aww dude... its cool anyway...

[Touglyforfemales]

Thanks no hard feelings.

[Asker]

its okay man... but i am very very insecure about this thing and its very sensitive and bitter part of my life. i hope you do understand. I feel you are lucky to have little to no hair on body naturally. Be Blessed.

[Touglyforfemales]

Well I'm not hairless but not hairy either.

[Asker]

lol.. i meant normal hairy.. the perfect blend of hairs n hairless...

[Touglyforfemales]

I'm half Portuguese a lot of us are hairy lol.

[Asker]

o ya? as hairy as the pic above?

[Touglyforfemales]

I have some hairy on my chest but not that hairy, I
did know a guy in HS who had tons of body hairy
like you do.

[Asker]

wow , was THAT guy insecure? was he teased by guys as well as girls?
Did he had any woman around him

[Touglyforfemales]

Actually if I remember he got along with a lot of people
including girls.

[Asker]

wow... he was comfortable with his hair? thats awesome...
and was he teased?

[Touglyforfemales]

He didn't seem to care well to be honest I was
only in one class with him. So I can't tell
you rather or not he got teased outside of
class.

[Creole_Flavor]

I love hair lol

[Asker]

hhaa... o ya?
Even as hairy as the picture depicted above? :-/

[Creole_Flavor]

He could use some grooming but its fine

[Asker]

aww.. lols.. means even for a girl who says she likes hairs.. this much is a bit too much! :-/

[Creole_Flavor]

I just need to be able to get to the nipples

[Asker]

nipples are visible anyway!! lols
would you prefer him to be waxed?

[Creole_Flavor]

Not entirely a little hair would be nice

[zombiebabe]

damn! have you thought about laser hair removal?

[Asker]

"damn".. lol... abnormal and scary! :-/

[zombiebabe]

not scary but its a lot...

[Asker]

abnormal?

[zombiebabe]

not abnormal... but i think some women might like it

[micheal727jovanie]

There always laser hair removal

[Asker]

why would a woman choose such abnormal guy like me and then waste time n money on laser/.

[micheal727jovanie]

Shit I seen woman with hairy ass guys

[Asker]

lols... for real? wow

[micheal727jovanie]

Hell yeah I'm like "ugh you left you left your freedom for that?"