My friends little sister has a crush on me, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Ok, so a couple weeks ago i went over to my friends house to watch a movie. After we were done with the movie his little sister came and asked who i was. I then introduced myself and we talked for a bit. After, i went over to my friends room to play some video games and then i had to leave. My friends little sister constantly looked in the room and left. When i was packing my things up to leave she was outside the door of the room and kept looking at me. When i was done packing she quickly ran upstairs with her friend. After that i left and said my goodbyes. Now, yesterday i went over to my friends house again since the last time. This time however i was holding a tournament at my friends house. She was lying on one of the couches and when she saw me she immediately said my name and greeted me. I responded back and talked for a bit. After she moved to another couch and she took her phone out. I am almost certain that she was taking pictures of me/recording video. I was wearing shades and while i was walking to the bathroom she was turning her phone in my direction. She kept pointing her phone wherever i went throughout the day. She then left somewhere and didn't see her again. After the tournament was done, i found her instagram and was surprised! On her description she had my name in capital letters followed by two hearts. I am pretty sure she likes me however there is something that i am debating. I am 16 and she is 13. I find her cute but what should i do?

[existing_not_living]

Nope, let it be. She's way too young. Go for a girl in high school. Not a 7th or 8th grader. She's too immature. I mean, she's taking a bunch of pictures/recording you and making it pretty obvious she is and instead of telling you how she feels she posts it on Instagram. Her maturity level is questionable for having a relationship with her at your age. I would avoid it at all costs. Also, she's you friends little sister. If things go bad between you and her, are you willing to risk your friendship with him?

[CFaith111]

She has a little crush on you. That's all it is. I'd ignore it. She may be cute but you being 16 and her being 13 is inappropriate in my opinion. She's just too young and immature. Her actions are showing you that. Also, if anything were to happen between you two, it's highly unlikely it'd be for long and that can lead to potential awkwardness between you and your friend and the loss of a friendship. Girls have a lot of little crushes all the time. It'll pass. Just try not to play into it lol

[xkellier94x]

Just be nice to her but dont persue it. It's just an early teenage crush for her. She could be crushing on someone else again school starts back up. She's only in her early puberty years too. It's probably just a rush of hormones for her. She's only 13

[Asker]

Thanks for the heads up. However, what should i do if she makes a move and she wants to go out. How do i tell her that it isn't going to work out without hurting her feelings?

[xkellier94x]

Just let her down gently and explain the age gap. She's a little young and tell her you don't want to lose her brother as a friend either. She'll probably be a little upset but she will get over it.

[Asker]

Alright! Thank you very much for the help!

[xkellier94x]

No problem. Hope it works out for you.

[aoifeislovable]

Well I'm guessing her brother wouldn't be impressed if you did stuff with his little sister... I'd say just do what your doing... be nice but don't pay any attention other than that

[Anonymous]

i have had felt this way before however girls usually mature slower than boys and it may seem weird that you would have a 13 year old girlfriend but if you like her a lot and she you then go for it just don't try anything sexual cause that would be weird...

[Happy1000000]

She is 13 man thats called jail. If you take advantage of her thats pretty low.

Most men have had a girl with a cruch on them at some point. Its not a big deal.

What you do about it: nothing as it will pass, except acting as a good role model.

[Mustachekitteh]

Don't act on it at all and just ignore her. She's only 13 and your only 16. Better to ignore and find other chicks around your age. Better to date anyone younger than you when y'all are both in your 20's and up.

[Mustachekitteh]

What tournament was it?

[9mfeo]

Leave her alone because she's still a child and the gap in physical and emotional maturity will be too great right now.

[Anonymous]

Do what your heart tells you. Just don't have sex !

[blondfrog]

How old is she? I'd say bang her lol :P

[Mustachekitteh]

Dummy head did you not read? :P :D He said she's 13.

[blondfrog]

@Mustachekitteh lol I didn't feel like reading the novel

[shay47]

Date her! Dare her!