Is kissing just sucking one's lips?

[Anonymous]

when you kiss, do you just suck your bf/gf lips? or is it more like kissing your hand?

[Anonymous]

I see people mentioning tongues. That's not actually kissing. Kissing is basically softly pecking at each other's lips in a passionate manner. It's just touching each other's lips really. Not sucking.

You can use your tongues, but that's called french or tongue kissing. That's not automatically kissing.

[PiuBelloAmante]

Ehhhh, you are one of those people...
i kissed a girls lips once, and she began sucking, i was like wtf!

no its nothing like that lol, i can't explain it, a kiss is a kiss...

[ninetynine]

Kissing is more like slightly spreading open your lips, placing them softly on the other person's mouth, and actively working in sync with the other person's movements to get into a good rhythm. Once you get more into it, some tongue and other techniques can be added.

You can practice on your hand.

[kaylaS91]

Nope. Sucking on someone's lips will make you a horrible kisser. There's generally no sucking involved. Mostly just sort of.. touching tongue's, maybe sucking on their tongue a bit periodically? Not much though. Definitely no sucking on lips.

[psychomonkey]

Have you kissed before?