I just got rejected because I'm not tall enough wtf?

[Anonymous]

I'm like 5'5 and she's 5'1

"if you were taller I would definitely go out with you :/"

wtf it's not my fault my mom is 4'11 and my dad is 5'3 this is bullshit

i feel like shit now and now I'm wondering if I should save up to do that leg surgery

[Eric644]

dude, don't worry about it. it's her loss. she is like 5'1, if she demands her men to be tall, she's the one that will lose out and will most likely end up lonely. Or she will go through a bunch of guys that will treat her like shit and then will come running to you when she is older and not so pretty anymore (its happened to me and im only 26) at that point you can reject her. Also a similar thing happened to me, this girl that was like 5 ft rejected me because im 5'7 and she only wanted guys that were like 6ft+, anyway i started dating me ex, who was much prettier than her and was like 5'11 and she got very jealous of us, when i broke up with my ex (she moved to another town and we agreed it wouldn't work), miss 5ft came to me and asked me out, i was no longer attracted to her and I rejected her, she just looked like a deer in headlights and walked away humiliated. Don't worry about it man. You'll find a girl that will overlook your height and will be attracted to you.

[Eric644]

deer caught in headlights lol

[heavensgift2girls]

It doesn't matter if it is your fault. Everyone is entitled to like what they like, and we all discriminate based on those preferences. The fact is that same girl isn't going to meet the standards of certain guys she likes, and she will just need to accept it. Although in all fairness few people handle rejection well, so the day may come when she is having a similar discussion about a guy not wanting to date her over a trait she can't help.

Getting angry and blaming other for being shallow, will just poison your mind. Women reject guys all the time. At least this woman was honest with you and told you the truth. Very few people have the courage to be that honest. You were not in line with her personal preference. That's all it means.

[Asker]

I'm not mad I feel like SHIT I hate being South American and having these genes

[Eric644]

and when she complains, I hope she has a sensible friend that says "remember when you rejected that decent looking guy because he was too short for you" and she will be like "oh, I guess i am a hypocirte"

[Prettygurl12]

I would imagine that must suck.

Unfortunately, it's a pretty common thing.

Tall guys will almost always be more attractive than shorter guys.

Except in the case of Sam and Dean Winchester in which case Dean is just the better looking one.

I would advise not doing the leg surgery. Makes your legs look weird, isn't 100% safe, and is just generally a bad idea.

[Asker]

so basically I'm screwed lol wow

[MimTcgraw]

leg surgery? was that a joke? I know Women do weird stuff like get ass implants but I've never heard of dudes doing some crazy shit like leg surgery

[Asker]

that's because it's like 80k

[Animalshadow]

That's just shallow. But some girls think height is a "must" trait that guys to have. Because her dad, brothers, cousins, etc every single men in her life are tall that she cannot think of short guys as "men"

Thats what my friend told me lol
Just move on and find another girl who doesn't care about the height

[Aluap]

Hang by your hands on a chin up bar for 10-20 min every day. Not only will this decompress your spin but after about 1 month you'll be taller. Also do lots of swimming that also helps. But DONT get a surgery. she's stupid. Size doesn't matter. But either way good luck.

[Anonymous]

Everyone has a trait that some people don't find attractive. I have an an angular face, so I feel your pain abou having a trait you can't change. But there will be people who dig you. Write this girl off, lick your wounds and move on to greener pastures. Good luck!

[Todiebyyourside]

It's one girl dude and generally women like taller men and by that I mean 6'0 and upwards because these men make them feel more secure, more like women, blah, blah, blah because you know women are deeply insecure and of course it's something to do with their biological shit that I don't understand.

Fuck this girl man, if she's going to judge you on your height then she's not the girl for you. There will be women who like you for you and your height won't matter. The worst thing you can do is start being bitter and making your height an issue because that really will put a lot more women off.

[Watermelonoma]

yeah thats a pretty common thing. I just finished writing a myTake about how much of an effect your income as a man has on making a woman forget about your physical shortcomings. According to the data, a guy who is around 5'5 - 5'6 needs to make around $237,500 dollars on average per year in order to gain the same level of attraction that a 5'11 man would have, with most other things being equal

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a23612-overcoming-the-odds-how-a-man-s-income-can-counteract-womens-racial

[talldude]

dude look i am 6'4" and guess what? i got rejected days ago so stop whining about height everybody gets rejected heck even brad pitt got rejected when he was a youngster and before he was famous big deal so what that you're not tall enough fuck what she thinks bro you will find the one so what if i am not good looking enough for my crush fuck that too because one day the perfect girl will step into my life and make me the happiest man alive stay strong bro and believe in yourself

[Asker]

dude it made me feel like shit like even her rejecting me because of my pointy nose would've hurt less

[talldude]

stop giving a single fuck about hwat you look like actually social status, charisma wealth and career matter heck lot more so work on those and you will be a chick magnet (ps: i feel your pain bro rejection hurts but trust you'll get over it her loss anyway stay strong)

[Eric644]

fitness counts too, focus on getting that slender muscular build like Zach effron and many girls will overlook your height

[Hope_This_Helps]

Wtf. I really think that if you're in the "ask out" stage and she flat out rejects you because of height, that's ridiculous. With all the other contributing factors to the attractiveness of one person to another, I feel that shouldn't be the deciding factor.

[Asker]

me neither, it would've hurt less if she rejected me because I'm too skinny or a big nose or whatever but because I'm short? I can't change that without a lot of money

[Eric644]

agree, height has no effect on how attractive a man is, there are men who are short that look tall due to having a slender build

[WiseTruth]

Dude I am 6 feet tall, dark and handsome and had to watch my friend who is the same height as you sweep off the most gorgeous girls and me being rejected in a bad phase of my life. Looks is not as important in men as it is your behaviour. Girls would make up some bs sometimes especially if she is insecure or superficial till she cries herself dry. Become a master of your inner giant and you will soon realise that you height may be a factor but it is not as a big factor as your inner game

[Jxpxtxr]

Welcome to the club lol,
I also got rejected because I'm too tall ;P

[Asker]

long legs are sexy though

[Jxpxtxr]

Obviously not for everyone :/

[Eric644]

why on earth would any guy do that, don't worry about it guys don't care so much about height as much as women, you'll find a good guy, no matter his height :)

[Jxpxtxr]

@Eric644 Lol I actually found a better girl now :D (I'm bisexual)

[Eric644]

bisexual hmmm :) lol jk, yeah many girls don't care ether ;) .

[ShayanMortazavi1]

She's just shallow. I'm short too (5'7) and I see it as an advantage. It automatically weeds out the shallow girls which is good. Shallow girls are the ones who will easily leave you or cheat on you for hotter guys. You know, Daniel Radcliffe (Harry Potter) is also 5'5.

[Asker]

if I was 5'7 I would be happy

I really hope I can reach at least 5'6

cheers man

[ShayanMortazavi1]

Lol is it possible if I can get MHO man?

[TheSpartan]

You're borderline short. Leg lengthening might be worth it for you, though. Leglengtheningforums. com is a good resource. Avoid makemetaller. com, though. It's not easy, as anyone who's received the surgery will tell you, but an extra three inches of height on your part would probably get rid of your height dysphoria completely.

[Asker]

Can you explain what you mean by borderline?

[TheSpartan]

The maximum height to be considered of short stature is 5'5.

[Asker]

Hmm interesting. I stopped caring about height along time ago (5th grade) but this rejection has got me thinking

[TheSpartan]

Oh, and ignore @prettygurl12. She is probably the dumbest person on this site.

[Eric644]

yeah, she s very heightist, prettygirl12 is one of those short girls that will reject you because you aren't 6ft

[FalloutGirl101]

That's a pretty shallow reason for her to say no about dating you.. but that's also her decision and loss. And don't get surgery, short guys are awesome!

[Asker]

it seems to me that short guys are treated like shit, I didn't believe it at first now I do

[ShaunaM95]

Don't worry about it. You'll find someone who doesn't care about your height soon enough. You're probably better off without her anyway if that's her reasoning for not going out with you.

[AzureGirl]

No, she just prefers taller guys. Don't beat yourself up over it.

[Asker]

don't all girls prefer tall guys

[AzureGirl]

Not all.

[vouge]

wtaf... its a good thing that your solid 4 inches taller!! all girls want tall guys! how much tller does she want? it'll look weird if she wants a taller guy than you...

[Asker]

it hurt because I can't change my height without doctors breaking my legs and paying $15,000+

[Joc4Position]

No all girls DON'T want tall guys.

[Joc4Position]

Maybe you'll see that when you're older. I'm sure when I was your age I thought foolish shit too.

[Peter0]

Eh. Move on and find a girl who's less shallow in her tastes in men. There *are* women out there who will date a shorter guy!

[dartmaul15]

dude, don't worry. bitch did yo ua favor and showed her true colors right off the bat. There are good girls out there, so keep on looking

[MimTcgraw]

Dude! There are plenty of short dudes that get laid (like your dad lol)
Here's a tip: Play music! I'm willing to bet that most women would choose a musician over a jock even if they don't know it yet!!

[Applefan1]

Some women are very shallow. She is dumb and not worth your time. Just fine a real woman.

[Vesuvius87]

You ignore her, move on and find someone else that dates for who you are.

[karahiri]

she's a dumbass. i know plenty of dudes your height who are dating awesome people.

[TheOldMan59]

That sucks but I guess she's just more comfortable if she has an excuse to reject you rather than "You're not my type" or "I don't like you.". Try not to let it bother you, I've seen loads of short giys scoring hot girls.

[cinderelli]

no no.. don't do it.. don't feel bad because of some lame ass

[NerdInDenial]

Don't feel bad man. I had a friend who is 5' 6" and he got a girl who is taller.

[Eric644]

yep true, im 5'7 and my ex was 5'11, he shouldn't worry

[Anonymous]

LOL don't worry bro. I'm 5'5 too and girls 5'8 5'10 want me.

[Asker]

really? thank god for hope

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. It's strange because usually it's the taller girls that want me the most. The shorter girls while I have been with one actually are usually the ones who want the really tall guys. In plenty of cases tall girls want short guys and short girls want tall guys. I guess opposites do attract.

[Eric644]

yeah, i agree, i find that the girls that had a problem with me being 5'7 are the ones that were like 5'0 to 5'4 (probably overcompensating for their own shortness) and i found that my height is not really a problem with girls 5'6+

[Opinion Owner]

@Eric644 Right. It's crazy bro. I've had more tall pussy thrown at me than short.

[Eric644]

i don't mind that, even though I like girls of all heights, I tend to like girls over 5'5 better, so if the short ones are heightist i don't care since i'm more attracted to taller girls. Not saying short girls are unattractive, i find them just as attractive, but I lean more towards the tallies

[Opinion Owner]

@Eric644 I don't mind it either. I've banged a girl who was like 5'7 and I'm trying to get with a girl who's 5'10. I'm attracted to girls of all height. Doesn't matter to me, but I get it. I understand the appeal. It's something about a tall girl that just like looks down on you and you look up at her. And her long legs. It's hot. They are like goddesses and especially if they feel empowered by being tall. Again though I'm still attracted to all height. Even "little people"/dwarfs. I understand though. I know that feeling lol.

[Eric644]

yep!!! Something about those legs make me go "DAMMMN"

[Maverickj]

Don't worry, you dodged a bullet.

Find yourself a woman who is less shallow.

[abundantlyrich]

She's hot but you're not

[Asker]

that made like no sense at all

[Eric644]

how can't that be, you don't know him. although he isn't tall, he could still be an attractive man. Not all short men are stumpy and ugly looking (Zach Effron, Nick Jonas, Dave Franco, Taylor Lautner)

[abundantlyrich]

Fuck off n get off my thread. @Eric644

[Anonymous]

It was an excuse, don't take that seriously.

[Asker]

I feel like shit

[Opinion Owner]

I know but again don't take her seriously. She's shallow.

[Dred1614]

She's not worth it. Move on