Got rejected for being short? How to get over it?

[Anonymous]

So today I got rejected by my crush for being short... I'm 5'7ft and she's like only 5'2-5'3ft at max.
How can I get over the fact she called me short? I don't know if I even have a chance with girls anymore...

[Anonymous]

Forget 'having crushes'.

Most girls won't like you. Just like most girls won't like me. Girls are a little more varied in their tastes then guys are.

I'm tall. Girls who like tall guys, i'd have a chance, you, nope. But you probably have other attributes. If a girl likes big muscles, or good dancing, i'm out. Maybe you're in.

Having a crush is like deciding since you like them, it will be perfect. A great relationship is one where she's as into you as you are her. Stop building up crushes, flirt with more girls, see where there's mutual interest, then ask them out.

[JudgmentDay]

Move on, you don't need her anyway, not that you ever need her in the first place.

What was her expectations? Did she expect you to be 6 ft tall or more in order to qualify to date her and become her boyfriend?

Well I say, fuck it, it's her loss for not giving you a single fucking chance. It sucks, but hey it's the reality of it. Just forget about her and try dating some other lady instead.

[MsShy87]

Aww, I am sorry to hear that you were rejected because of your height. That is a shallow reason to reject someone. This just means that she was not the right girl for you. Don't feel bad or give up. There are plenty of us out there who do not make a big deal about height. I am 5'3" and I think my boyfriend is 5'7". I don't think of him as short because he's taller than me. Men don't need to be 6 ft tall in order to be dateable. There's nothing wrong with you. Keep your head up and keep looking. There's other girls out there who will like you, I'm sure.

[Goldie757]

You should feel relieved, you dodged a bullet there. Who wants to date someone who is a deep as a paddling pool.

If she choses to date a tall guy at the possible cost of kindness, generosity, sense of humour or empathy because she placed looks over personality she is a moron.

Also you're under 18 you are going to grow taller. Don't sweat it, I know women who prefer dating guys your height.

[Goldie757]

Also I'm 5'9" and have dated guys as short as 5'6".

[Shorty1991]

Its just that she has a thing for taller guys. Its just her personal preference. I also like guys taller than me but I wouldn't be that insensitive to turn a guy down just because he's not taller than me. There's plenty of girls that would give you a chance.

[RJGraveyTrain]

My boyfriend is only 5'5"-5'6", and I'm 5'2". Obviously, since he's my boyfriend, I'd say you have a chance with girls. Just not height queens.

[CocoRachelle]

Some people suck. I'm 5'7" as well, and have dated guys shorter than me before. Shortest was 5'4". You just need to find someone that likes you for you. Move on from this one.

[skinningk20]

Actually never got rejected I'm average
All my friends at my church are way taller than me and for a guy it's quite sexy
But it you are than wear high heels if your a girl
If your a guy don't care about what people say be how you were crea

[Jxpxtxr]

I got rejected for being tall, too - but so what?
We just gotta move on and hope it doesn't happen again.

[BertMacklinFBI]

find a girl who doesn't care about height and likes you for you

[akanetuk]

You have to encourage yourself. Don't look at your outwards appearance but your inward attitude

[genericname85]

basically, she´s a superficial bitch. that should help you to get over her. size is not important to a person that likes your personality.

[Words_and_Wisdom]

Wanna get over it? Become a super amazing, kick ass person to the point she'll hate herself for rejecting you.

[Likes2drive]

That's dumb if she is that much shorter, I see your under 18, you might get taller still, I didn't stop till I was 20

[helloitsmethere]

What in the fuck? I'm as short as her and I think a 5'7" guy is tall for me...

[MakeShiftThug]

Pshhh smh. You slipping if you let this fool get to you. Give her this L and bounce!

[carinerose]

Lol she was 5'2", it's not like she was 5'8" or something... smh. You're better off without her.

[JohnMike999]

Get your shit together and play basketball or something

[Keepcalm89]

She's shorter than you bruh! I don't know what she's talking about! She does not make any sense

[Anonymous]

Wow that's really mean but honestly she probably just used your height as an excuse.
Don't worry about it to much. A girl that likes you will like you for who you are. You have so many chances, so don't give up.

[slashman]

Never mind. Find a tall and chubby girl. They are perfect girlfriend materials. Everyone has some problems.

[performerwannabe]

Tell her she's a dwarf and move on.

[Jaded214]

Say "fuck her" and move on.

[Anonymous]

Wow... she's a midget