Why am I now more attracted to Indian women than western women?

[lonelyaussie]

I am an Aussie guy infatuated by Indian women. I have just been divorced from my athletic and attractive Australian woman after 16 years of marriage. The reason for the split was because she caught me surfing Indian sites and could feel that my love for her, and western women in general was fading. This has been going on for the last 3 years and my attraction to Indian women is growing stronger and stronger.

As an arrogant and confident woman, she took offence that I find Indian women more attractive and her response was quite ugly and racist. Things got quite nasty and it proved that she was more absorbed with herself and her looks and less about me which made our separation and divorce the only way to go.

I love the womanly figure of mature Indian women and long to meet and be with one. They appear to be more loving and respect a man more than western women do. Western women only have sex when they want and are quite selfish in the bedroom, where I like to think that Indian women are more into mutual satisfaction and enjoy sex for the love making it Is.

Am I correct with my assumption?

[Anonymous]

Dude, I gotta be honest with you the whole Indian women are more dutiful to their husbands is pure bullshit. There was a survey by Ashley Madison and it said more than 75% of Indian women think that infidelity shouldn't be a crime and they think it's okay. The big secret about India is that a majority of women cheat and use their husband. As someone who lives there, I've seen plenty of such cases myself. You can look into quora, plenty of indian women pretty much boast about their affairs. Feminism is growing here, if you really want to see what's happening in india all you have to do is watch 'lipstick under my burqua' it's a feminist film that's basically shows the life of an average indian women. A really high victiomhood mentality, no morals, and this thirst for pleasure. The first time i met my girlfriend (white american) she was 22 and i was surprised to know that she was a virgin. Here in india people used to say that white women are trash and they sleep around a lot. She wasn't anything like those stereotypes. She was honest, she speaks her mind, independent, great Christian upbringing (she has many family-oriented values), beautiful (well much better looking than your average Indian girl) and most importantly i could actually trust her. While most of the women of my age were working as escorts or sleeping with their bosses for financial gains. The reason why westerns think Indian women are pious and family oriented is because most of these stories are kept as secrets by their families because India is an honour based country and they would rather lie than admit that their daughters are a little slutty.

[Esplorare]

Well there are a lot of beautiful Indian women with stunning jaw structure and gorgeous hair! Indian culture is also so vibrant and engaging. However, Indian women have flaws and shortcomings just like any other woman of any other ethnic background. They're not perfect for you by default just because they happened to be created by Indians.

Sometimes race isn't the main factor and it boils down to basic psychology. The situation with your wife was probably more about her pride feeling hurt and her self-esteem being punctured because she shared at least 16 years of her life with a man who is lusting after other women. I'm sure there were other reasons that your heart wanted something new and different but from her perspective, you deemed her not good enough for the simple fact that she was born with the wrong race/ethnicity. Any woman would find that beyond demeaning and insulting especially coming from a husband who's received over a decade of their life.

You are not correct with your assumption. Not all Indian women are blessed with "womanly figures"; some of them are petite and barely gain weight no matter how much they eat. Some Indian women, like all other women, are going to be cold, bitter, and have disrespect for men depending on how their father treated them or if they have ever been a victim of sexual abuse and/or rape *which isn't uncommon depending on whether they are from India and which part* I can tell you don't intend to, but you are being racially biased and generalizing them based off of their race.

[Esplorare]

Thank you for mho!

[Anonymous]

I'm a semi-traditional Indian girl, but I know the majority of indian girls are very western. i think rather than falling in love with indian women in general, are you falling in love with the culture? Im not sure about being more loving, but yes, in a way men are more respected in the culture. It's always said that women and men are equal, but everyone knows in India that they are not. Women are meant to lean on men, so they respect them. And yes/no for sex, for traditional girls, it's all about pleasing the man, but i think this also goes for western culture also.

[jebu5y]

Because we are beautiful, sexy, loving and affectionate.