Me and my boyfriend haven't kissed yet? Is this bad?

[mimmy]

So me and my boyfriend haven't kissed at all yet, but I really want to kiss him and have told him I want to kiss him, but I don't know how to tell him properly and actually lead it into a kiss? Can someone help?

[In-sight-ful]

I didn't have my first kiss until I was 18 and I definitely had boyfriends before that, take your time. Live life. When I was 13 I broke up with my boyfriend because he tried to kiss me. Lol. There is nothing wrong with not kissing yet. But if you want to kiss him just straight up do it, or after you hang out text him and say I really wanted to kiss you tonight ;) then say oh well maybe next time :*

[tragicallyinlove]

It says your 13, so I'm assuming that's true, but no matter your age a first kiss is nothing that you need to stress or push. Let it come naturally. Don't stress about it, you'll know when the moment arises that it's time.

[mimmy]

Yeah hopefully I will know when the moment is right, thanks for the help tho

[DesiDoo]

I wouldn't be too worried at age 13. Then again I had my first kiss at 14. So I don't know. How long have y'all been dating? He should definitely kiss you before the dating hits 3 months

[mimmy]

We've been dating for two months in a week so not quite 3 months

[DesiDoo]

Yea but its about time one of you make a move. Even if its a simple pec. Maybe start of by kissing his forehead, then his nose, then his cheek, then pause and see if he catches on that you want him to kiss your lips

[mimmy]

That's a good idea

[Tdieseler]

either you do it, or show signs you wana do it. it doesn't get much more complicated than that. I recommend doing it. means you take the initiative... a thinking gal. guys like that. unlike the numerous "drones" we come across.

[Anonymous]

Well... he'll leave you anyways someday it is very sure. You both are too young... it will not last. Better save it for someone with a more serious relationship, maybe save it for marriage if you have the guts.

[mimmy]

So your saying he doesn't love me? And how do you know he will leave me someday what if he never leaves me and we get married?

[Opinion Owner]

How can he love you if he does not even know the true meaning of love? Which can only be understood when one had lots of life experiences, more appreciation of self, hardships, and etc. All of which he have none because he is still so young... as you. Well be at least 20. Such ages who get into relationships never ends well. Both of you still are still not mature enough to know your developed selves plus... there will be LOTS of new people (more attractive, etc) will get into your lives... even before you get 20, tsk. Believe me... it will not end well. I suggest you study hard and learn from your parents as of these years.

[Mesonfielde]

Hmm odd, one of my relationships begun by making out, and the other with me taking the initiative to kiss...

[mimmy]

But I'm scared he might not want to kiss me if I go for the kiss

[Mesonfielde]

To be fair, my first relationship was when I was 17.

[mimmy]

Oh well fair enough, I might wait a bit then

[akanetuk]

Have you asked if he likes kissing, you are only interested in the part that concerns you.

[mimmy]

I've asked him what he feels about kissing and he said he's gonna be super shy coz I would be his first ever kiss, he said sure t me then asking if he wanted me to be his first kiss so he's good with it

[peachblossomluck]

Wait a little while longer. His lips will still be there:) You guys are new in this and young yet.

[mimmy]

Yeah I think I will leave it till later on

[peachblossomluck]

Good:)

[SunnyCaliGirl]

No that is not bad at all, don't feel rushed to do it only when you feel ready and it will be the best kiss ever, knowing that both of you are ready

[mimmy]

Yeah it will be the best kiss ever, my first ever boyfriend kept trying to kiss me on the lips which I didn't feel comfortable with so I dumped him, this was when I was five so I didn't know what I was doing

[SunnyCaliGirl]

haha LOL,

[SunnyCaliGirl]

I wish the best of luck to you

[Katy16]

It's fine, my boyfriend and I waited to kiss for 2 1/2 years lol

[mimmy]

Oh well I might wait then

[Katy16]

It's not for everyone, but personally I'm glad we did ☺

[igfunnyboi]

Just grab his face and kiss him. I saw a girl doing that today 😂😂

[mimmy]

But when and where coz we are never alone

[sexyphil]

Just bloody grab him and do the deed... if you ponder it then the moment is gone...

[mimmy]

Hell naw!! He's the shy type he's gonna pull back and this would be his first kiss

[sexyphil]

Well sneak it on him just get real close and then kiss him

[APRU5]

No your still kind of young for kissing. But do you guys hug?

[mimmy]

Yes we do, we hug nearly twice a day

[APRU5]

Okay thats good. I would wait a little before you guys start kissing.

[mimmy]

Yeah I guess, thanks tho

[APRU5]

Your welcome. I think you could kiss after a 3-6 month anniversary.

[mimmy]

Yeah it's 2 months on Easter for us coz my friend has been keeping track lol

[APRU5]

Okay that would be nice.

[APRU5]

You guys could dress up, im shure he would love to see you in a dress.

[mimmy]

We have a u inform at school but could do at the club after school we go to

[APRU5]

Yeah. Do you go to church or have Easter parties?

[mimmy]

I go to church but he's not the same religion as me, and I don't celebrate Easter

[APRU5]

Oh okay. Then just a party?

[mimmy]

Could do

[APRU5]

Sounds great. Have fun.

[mimmy]

Thanks

[bigsidharth]

just grab his face and kiss him.. no need to inform that u are gona kiss him xd

[mimmy]

What if he pulls away tho? He's the shy type and finds it hard to even call me beautiful in public even tho he did the other day

[bigsidharth]

u need to do this alone

[mimmy]

Yeah I thought coz it would be more magical sort of

[Muhammad1999]

Well, who doesn't like kissing , tell him that you like to kiss.

[mimmy]

But just randomly say I like Kissinger? How do I lead up to it?

[mimmy]

Kissing*

[Muhammad1999]

Are you confident with him? Are you in a relationship for long time? .
If you really want to kiss him , you can use your body language like staring at his eyes then coming closely to his mouth.

[mimmy]

Well we've been dating for two months in one week so, and yes I'm confident with him

[Muhammad1999]

So wait are you waiting tell him and do it , I dare you he likes to kiss you too

[P-Flow01]

Find a suitable location for it. Maybe a cinema or park...

[mimmy]

Yeah outside out classroom there is an outside corridors which has a little dip in it away from any Windows which is a good place, might try hpthe kiss there

[Anonymous]

Wow, 13 and kissing you are fast BABE and hi, if you want to do it grab him and do it and don't worry its common in 21st century ;)

[CoffeeAddict10]

Just grab his face and kiss him lol he's your boyfriend, of course he wants to kiss you

[theegreat017]

You can wait for it and savour the moment later. That would be good. It's worth waiting.

[coolgirl19]

o its not weird, take it slow id say ur young

[mimmy]

Yeah I'm only 13 and I think I'm over thinking it, I'll leave it a little longer

[hifromkai]

You're 13. End of story.

[mimmy]

Well done, you figured out I'm 13 you need a gold star

[hifromkai]

It's not an issue because you're 13

[jacquesvol]

Age 13 ? I had my first kiss at 16.

[Dred1614]

You're only 13. Don't rush it.

[Blue___]

Just go for it..