My boyfriend is liking his ex's facebook pictures. Am I being too insecure?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed that my boyfriend recently liked his ex girlfriends selfie on Facebook. Normally I wouldn't let this bother me accept for that fact that he never likes mine. Actually he's never really active on Facebook for that matter. It would also bother me less if it was some random girl but it's his ex whom I know he cared about a lot. Am I being too insecure? If not should I bring it up and how should I? I'm not friends with the girl on Facebook I just clicked on her page out of curiosity so I know I'm going to sound like a crazy girlfriend if I do bring it up. Help please ! Thank you for any answers :)

[lovydoey]

Talk to him, but not in a way like you are mad or accusing him of something. Just be like oh is that your ex? I mean they could just be friends. And as long as you are confident and trust in your relationship I don't see any reason why to worry.

I mean he only like a picture (s) is not like he is hiding behind your back and text someone else

[samhradh_leannan]

No, you're not being too insecure. With all the parts of your story together, unfortunately his behavior does look fairly suspicious. Talk to him and let him know why you feel uncomfortable with it. If he cares about you and your relationship, he should understand.

[MargaritaPeach]

Are you friends with any of your ex's on Facebook or other social media sites? Just make sure that you're not doing any of the things that bother you in regards to his behavior before you let it bother you unnecessarily. It probably means nothing.

[RedRain]

I think you have the right to feel this way and I don't think he should be doing that, but in any case I think you should let him know how you feel about it.

[super147]

Facebook comes up with "People that you may know" and those people can be friends of your friends. So, just say that her profile came up on people you may know and you clicked on it out of curiosity. Having noticed that he has liked her photo then you wonder why he has done that but never likes YOUR photos. See what he has to say for himself.

[TCJ1234567]

No you are not and this not appropriate behavior on his part. Part of his job, and yours, is to make you feel comfortable in the relationship. He is not doing that.

Talk to him and let him know that it hurts you and listen to his reasons for doing it.

[yellowmamba024]

That is not a good sign. You are not being too insecure. I wouldn't like it if my girlfriend does the same thing. I myself would never like any of my ex's facebook or instagram pictures. I have way too much decency to act this way.

[sunshinechyk]

Red flag red flag red flag. I'd squash that real fast.

[Anonymous]

it smells fishy