How to cure a yellow fever (obsession with Asian girls)?

[Anonymous]

I like Asian girls so much, though the most of girls in my country have European appearance. I like everything about them: their skin color, their eyes size, their culture and their smiles, etc. I like them so badly that I start to flirt on WeChat with every cute Chinese girl. If I see an Asian girl near me I try to become her acquaintance.
The problem is that I'm easily move my attention from one girl to another and it scares me. I want to find an Asian girlfriend but I fear that I will continue to flirt with other girls. Please, give me some sound advices.

[kaylaS91]

Asian fever is a (derogatory) term used to describe a preference for people of east-Asian origin.

It sounds like the issue you're struggling with is more a lack of self-control. Use your will power to remind yourself that, if you're looking to actually date a girl who happens to be Asian, you'll have to keep your behaviour in check around any other girls who may catch your attention.

[Rainie_]

Skin colour? Their skin colour varies SO MUCH, and so does their eye size, wtf.

Instead of being worried about moving on very quickly work on your self control. And instead of fetishizing them so much try to actually look past the external and love their personality too.

[Asker]

I like not only their appearance. The Asian girls with whom I've met are very kind kind, clever, funny and feminine :)

[ElissaDido]

Get yourself a protective jealous Asian girlfriend who will kick your ass if you flirt or simply lay an eye on another girl👊🏼👊🏼👊🏼

[Asker]

😂😂😂 Such a good advice! The problem now how to find this jealous girlfriend 😅

[ElissaDido]

It's not hard to find, many girls are jealous as fuck!

[Asker]

Thank you for giving me a hope 😁

[AriadneSky]

why does it matter if you flit with many who cares?

[Asker]

Would you want to have a boyfriend who flirts with other girls?

[oddwaffle]

Just get an Asian girl meet their parents.

Do you own a car?
Have you make any down payment for a house?
What's your job?
Where did you study?
What are your plans for the future?
Where do your parents live?
Will your parents be willing have a family dinner with us? Don't worry, we are just making sure your story checks out.

[Schrodingerscat]

Lol I can relate to it 🙈

[Asker]

Her parents requirements can be a stimulus to go forward ;)

[oddwaffle]

Dude, you just need half a million in your bank account, a cushie 6-figure salary job, parents who do not hate you and looking halfway decent and you are golden... most of the time. Throw in a doctorate (medical or academic) or a law degree for good measure.

[Asker]

I know two guys who married with Japanese girls. They are not rich at all

[ADFSDF1996]

Find yourself a a Asian girlfriend and challenge yourself to not flirt with other Asian females.

[ADFSDF1996]

*An (just correcting my typo)

[ADFSDF1996]

Thanks for MHO.

[Aizou]

Visit a country with such girls, and realize that you're making them up to more than they are. You know.. "Grass is always greener--"

[Asker]

Actually I lived in Japan for 8 months and visited China for 3 times. I also communicate with some Asian girls living in my country. But nothing changes.

[Aizou]

Well, then my suggestion may not work.. :3

Why do you seek to cure yourself? It's not like it's a sickness.
If you prefer one thing, then so be it, no?

The reason you're flirting and looking at other girls, is because you haven't
found "the one" even if that sounds cliché.

[lovydoey]

... Is more in ur mind. There is no prescription drug that cures it. Is all in ur mind

[Phoenix98]

Go to a dating site/app or move to a Asian country.

[Anonymous]

Why do guys have to like every freaking girl they come across? Are u only in it for the "you know what" or do you really love them for who they are?

[Asker]

It depends on a guy. Personally, I like them just because they exist. They are so cute :)

[Wingedz]

Just find one Asian girlfriend and stay all the attention to her.

[Anonymous]

That's an easy. Get married to one. I don't mean just Asians. This with solve a lot of other types of fever as well

[PurpleTeardrops2]

What you've described is a fetish. Try therapy

[Asker]

What kind of therapy?