Seeing each other naked for the first time?

[Anonymous]

Any advice? We've never seen each other completely naked because I'm shy lol but I think it's time we do. What should I do or how can I prepare myself?

[AskAlthea]

As long as you are doing it because you want to do this, because you want to share this part of yourself with him (or her). Now if this is something you want to do, you may feel more comfortable if you relax, take a shower and groom yourself beforehand, you'll probably feel more comfortable if you feel/look your best. Honestly though, your partner will probably be too excited at finally seeing you that he won't notice. I remember the first time my boyfriend saw me naked I freaked out a bit afterwards because I was like, but I didn't shave, it's not that noticeable, but it's noticeable to me. I mentioned it to him a few months later and he was surprised and said he didn't even notice. But I thought he did because he was looking at me so intently and "admiring the view". So don't stress about it.

[AskAlthea]

Just in case you are planning on having sex for the first time either now or in the near future, make sure you have a condom on hand, invest in some lube, plenty of foreplay, towel underneath if your hymen is still intact in case it bleeds, and take it as slow as you need, there's no rush.

[Asker]

This was really helpful thank you🙂🙂

[mrinalashesh007]

Well.. it depends on how long you been with this guy.. more importantly how Mature your relationship is.. if you both feel u guys are ready.. fuck it.. and then do it!

Keep the aroma fresh while you guys do it.. try scented candles.. use night bulbs.. or even a little darker room would make you feel more comfortable with him. Best of L (f) uck !!😊

[Belgie]

Be prepared for laughter from either side. It's nervous laughter not "OH MY GOD WHAT A FREAKY LOOKING HUMAN!" laughter.

[Chilled_Eyes]

I'd say don't be too serious allow yourself to express emotion, verbal communication is key and just think of how much you trust the other person and that should relax your nerves a bit.

[Anonymous]

Umm do it when you're ready. There's no set time