Is a bulge a bad thing?

[YerBoii]

First things first. I had not clue what topic this should be categorised as, but this'll suffice.

I was wondering something. Whenever I walk, sit, whatever, in my sweatpants, shorts or pyjama, my bulge shows. Im not here to mention size, no, im not a troll. But I am insecure by the way.

If I watch a movie with my girlfriend and I'd get comfy, i will want to wear something comfortable (obviously). But Im "scared" that she'll be "grossed out" by seeing a bulge. If it even shows, depends on how i sit down.

I dont know if girls even quote on quote "check" for bulges... the same way men look at a girl's behinds or frontwing, whatever you're into. Im just not sure if girls know it's normal that IT is there, you get me?

Can anyone reply usefully to this?

thanks all in advance!

[Anonymous]

As a woman, I can assure you - yes, we know IT is there.

And no, we don't mind.

I am not telling you to walk around with a pitched tent, that is just weird and inappropriate.

If it's just your natural bulge, you shouldn't care at all.
I can assure you your girlfriend is not disgusted by you having a penis attached to you. On the contrary.

We don't like to admit it much, but we love to sneak a peek when we catch a glimpse of a hot guy in a grey sweatshirt. It is like a cleavage - you see immediately what you are working with.

And it's quite difficult to keep an eye contact if you like what you see..

[YerBoii]

Thanks for this explanation! It makes me feel more comfortable. Even went from insecurity, to some form of curiousness or curiosity towards my girlfriend. But it'll all play out I guess. Thanks!

[strangytie]

For me, it's literally "Oh, hey that's there." and then I continue about my evening. No sort of judgement or repulsion, it's just noticed and then i move on

[BasicFlake]

If you have a penis and balls then it will be indirectly visible at times, of not at all times. That is just life. Expecting to be able to hide that would be like expecting girls to be able to hide the fact that they have breasts. When you see breasts you know what is there and why, you don't get horrified by them. The same is true for bulges. Women are aware what is there and why it is there.

[Anonymous]

No it's not a bad thing at all 😃

[supersphinx]

we notice but we don't mind some also find it hot

[Anonymous]

Bulges are hot, hooooooot