My girl flashed her boobs at a bar wtf?

[deez_nuts]

So my girlfriend went out with her friends tonight. I didn't feel like going out so I stayed home playing zombies. So she texts me saying she flashed her boobs at her bff which is a girl. So immediately, I figured this was like in a bathroom or something. Away from the eyes of the public. So I asked and she said no it was at the bar. We have been official for almost a week. Not exactly the best start to a relationship. I feel like if you expose yourself in public then you aren't girlfriend material in my mind. Maybe im just old fashioned but cmon this can't be right. What are your thoughts on this? What would you say and do?

[RichardBrooks]

The majority of women don't come right out and say things, but rather say and do things to suggest the idea to you so you think it was your idea all along. This lets us preserve our masculine pride because we are still the 'leader'. What she was saying wasn't "OMG I just flashed my BFF". No, she was saying "I showed my girlfriend my tits. How hot is that? Too bad you missed it cause you weren't there."

Go out with your girl instead of sitting home playing games next time.

[deez_nuts]

You went around the whole point. I wouldn't want my girl showing her tits out in public whether i'm there or not. Not my type of thing. Don't need other guys seeing that. If your saying that's her way of telling me I should have gone out then fuck that. If I decide to stay in one night I shouldn't have to be punished for it nor should I be worried my girl is out disrespecting me or herself. She can very well come home and flash me or her girlfriends all she wants she's not a h. s girl on spring break this isn't exactly acceptable behavior in a relationship. So no Richard I will very well stay home and play video games when I see fit I don't feel the need to follow my girlfriend around wherever she goes.

[Anonymous]

You're very old fashioned.

She is obviously a lot less prudish than you so break up since you guys are not a good match.

[deez_nuts]

Im not exactly a prude but I can accept that im old fashioned about certain things.
ever heard the expression a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah. And if you think flashing her tits somewhere for a laugh makes her unsuitable as opposed to fun loving and less inhibited, then you're a prude.

[deez_nuts]

we are all entitled to our opinions

[Tcu2016texas]

I wouldn't do anything to rash. Sleep on it and communicate. Have I ever flashed my boobs at a bar? No. Have I seen it done? Yes. But extremely drunk girls.

I guess I would give her the benefit of the doubt because she told you about it. I think it would reasonable to talk about it but if you don't see eye to eye on why you're uncomfortable with it then you should walk away.

[deez_nuts]

I see what your saying but just cus she told me doesn't make it right. I am going to have to talk about it and be frank with her. Honestly I don't see a future with a girl who pulls this type of stuff. I guess I can have a good laugh at her excuse though.

[Tcu2016texas]

I mean, she could have not told you then you'd be SUPER pissed if you found out about it from someone else

[sadostudent96]

If she doesn't think it was a big deal, then that means it wasn't malicious. She didn't do it to hurt you, she did it to have a fun time with girlfriends.
If it bothers you so much, just tell her. If she knows it hurt your feelings, and she does it again, then leave her. But don't punish her and yourself just because she got wild on a night out.

[deez_nuts]

see this is where its a weird place for me. If this to her is no big deal, then what else is? Is it me or is it ok to expose yourself in public now?

[sadostudent96]

Ask her.

[Sadly_It_Fell_Off]

She could be easily influenced by her friends to do stupid stuff, sensitive to criticism about her "relationship" , not handle her drink very well or just see things like that as fun. Its been a week so cut her some slack and let her know that you find things like this distasteful and take it from there.

[deez_nuts]

She wasn't though she said she just did it. I mean I've only known her for a few months and we just started this relationship i dont think it would be too hard to break it off. Id rather do that than deal with things worse than this later on. I can't stand a girl that gets trashy when she drinks.

[Sadly_It_Fell_Off]

Follow your gut then. I mean you asked her to be your girlfriend so you must have judged her behaviour before the boob incident. If you think its going to get worse then end it.

[JadedandReckless]

Mmmm. That's not cool at all. maybe she's very drunk? Anyway its all up to you. Either you sit down together talk this out with her or listen to all the people sharing their own opinions in here. What I can suggest is tell her what's in your mind and how your taking her behaviour.

[deez_nuts]

I told her how I felt about it. She seems to think it was not a big deal saying "the only person that saw was my bff"

[JadedandReckless]

It's just the bff! So what's the big deal? Is the bff a "male specie" lol anyway. Tell her you don't like it and she should not do it again. If she takes you seriously she will commit to that but if it happens again. Pack your bags hun. :)

[HeatherFeather]

I would say relax and realize this is ur reaction. You need to find out what SHE was thinking when she did it. Was she wasted, where her friends playing a game, was she just being goofy. They are just boobs. U need to figure iut how she thinks which means u have to communicate with her.

Its good u at least are trying to figure this out with all of us and did not blow up on her.

[deez_nuts]

right. I did talk to her after I thought it over for a bit. She didn't take it well at all she seems to think it was a big deal and that "no one saw her but her friend"

[deez_nuts]

wasnt^^

[CheerGirl38139]

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[idontknow20]

Eww... That beard...
Eww.
Why men keep such a beard

[CheerGirl38139]

@idontknow20

#IDontKnow

[idontknow20]

Umhmmm...
Men should be castrated before reaching puberty so that they never grow beard and body hair...
Agree?

[CheerGirl38139]

@idontknow20

How bout we agree that you're a troll and that's the only reason that you're here?

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[idontknow20]

No no no
As a man I have these thoughts in my mind

[CheerGirl38139]

@idontknow20

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[Anonymous]

I agree with you honestly, doesn't sound like girlfriend material.

[Fk7676]

i honestly wouldn't feel right about this, if i was in ur place

[SuccessfulHornDog]

It sounds like classic attention seeking. Hey everyone, look at me. Look over here...

[19jodi8]

don't hold it against her. she told you upfront so I'm sure she meant nothing by it

[deez_nuts]

I think your missing the fact that this was in a packed bar. Im sure we have all seen girls do crazy shit at a bar but when its your girl its completely different. Am I wrong for not wanting dudes to see my girls boobs?

[19jodi8]

you have a right to be upset with her I'm just saying I'm pretty sure she meant nothing by it and was hopefully just a dumb drunk thing she won't do again

[Justin85283]

I'd say get used to it... She's don't it before and she'll do it again.. Does she have nice boobs?

[Popstar17]

Get out while you can

[she40841]

How do you not know? T h o t A l e r t

[Eternallylucky]

She's bisexual?

[deez_nuts]

no but its not about her sexuality its about exposing herself in public.

[Wildberryd]

Maybe she had too many drinks?

[Anonymous]

Bro you deserve a better partner , not sluts.

[Bandit74]

Dump her.

[Anonymous]

you're doomed bro.

[deez_nuts]

honestly.

[Opinion Owner]

please think over it and make your decision. if you stay in this type of relationship , you'll be cheated on sooner than you expect.

decision is yours to make.

[Anonymous]

T h o t A l e r t

[deez_nuts]

the truth hurts man

[Opinion Owner]

Only other explanation is she was drunk

[deez_nuts]

naaa bro drunk or not its no excuse. If thats the case I should be able to go out get drunk and hook up with a girl and be forgiven cus I was drunk.

[Opinion Owner]

Good point I would prob leave her at this point it's clear she has no problems showing other guys the goods

[ScottSummers]

dump the hoe
mho

[Anonymous]

That's awesome!
;)