The majority of women don't come right out and say things, but rather say and do things to suggest the idea to you so you think it was your idea all along. This lets us preserve our masculine pride because we are still the 'leader'. What she was saying wasn't "OMG I just flashed my BFF". No, she was saying "I showed my girlfriend my tits. How hot is that? Too bad you missed it cause you weren't there."
Go out with your girl instead of sitting home playing games next time.
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You're very old fashioned.
She is obviously a lot less prudish than you so break up since you guys are not a good match.
I wouldn't do anything to rash. Sleep on it and communicate. Have I ever flashed my boobs at a bar? No. Have I seen it done? Yes. But extremely drunk girls.
I guess I would give her the benefit of the doubt because she told you about it. I think it would reasonable to talk about it but if you don't see eye to eye on why you're uncomfortable with it then you should walk away.
If she doesn't think it was a big deal, then that means it wasn't malicious. She didn't do it to hurt you, she did it to have a fun time with girlfriends.
If it bothers you so much, just tell her. If she knows it hurt your feelings, and she does it again, then leave her. But don't punish her and yourself just because she got wild on a night out.
She could be easily influenced by her friends to do stupid stuff, sensitive to criticism about her "relationship" , not handle her drink very well or just see things like that as fun. Its been a week so cut her some slack and let her know that you find things like this distasteful and take it from there.
Mmmm. That's not cool at all. maybe she's very drunk? Anyway its all up to you. Either you sit down together talk this out with her or listen to all the people sharing their own opinions in here. What I can suggest is tell her what's in your mind and how your taking her behaviour.
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I would say relax and realize this is ur reaction. You need to find out what SHE was thinking when she did it. Was she wasted, where her friends playing a game, was she just being goofy. They are just boobs. U need to figure iut how she thinks which means u have to communicate with her.
Its good u at least are trying to figure this out with all of us and did not blow up on her.I agree with you honestly, doesn't sound like girlfriend material.
i honestly wouldn't feel right about this, if i was in ur place
It sounds like classic attention seeking. Hey everyone, look at me. Look over here...
don't hold it against her. she told you upfront so I'm sure she meant nothing by it
I'd say get used to it... She's don't it before and she'll do it again.. Does she have nice boobs?
Get out while you can
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She's bisexual?
Maybe she had too many drinks?
Bro you deserve a better partner , not sluts.
Dump her.
you're doomed bro.
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dump the hoe
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