Is it ok that my girlfriend showed her boobs to another girl in a bar?

[TheQuestioner215]

My girlfriend is in love with me, and I with her. We are completely exclusive. When she is with her girl friends she pecks them on the lips but it's harmless and I don't mind. It's a cute girl thing. (I don't get it but it's fine).

The other night we were out with college friends and a girl in our course who we are friends with but don't know super well started chatting to her. I went to get a drink and when I came back my girl said they had kissed. What's weirder is she then did it again infront of me. It was a long kiss, no tongue but not comfortable to watch.

It was the other girl who asked if I was ok with that and I thought it strange but harmless and said "yeah". I started chatting to a friend of mine but noticed they started comparing bra straps and then full on showed each other their boobs. Am I right to think that's not something girls just do? My girl has barriers and wasn't comfortable being naked Infront if me for the first few months of our relationship. That made this seem all the stranger. They then started saying to people that they had kissed, seen eachothers boobs etc. What's more is she didn't seem to like this girl beforehand. Saying that she was absent from college all the time and never had her work done.

I'm confused. Is that normal? I'd appreciate honest feedback

Ok

Not ok

[MrOracle]

People do stupid, amoral crap when they start drinking. This is why I've always avoided the bar scene unless I'm getting paid to perform in one (I'm a mobile DJ on the weekends). Men also do stupid crap when drinking.

You would obviously know her morals, values, and boundaries when sober far better than I ever will, but people who are drunk can't be counted on to follow those standards, even if they follow them perfectly when sober. As long as you run in the drinking lifestyle, you can never really trust her to follow her morals (and she might well say the same about you - and be right).

[MountAverage]

Is anyone here at GaG part of your relationship? Because if not then why are you asking us if that was okay? That's something between you and her? Only the two of you get to decide what is and what isn't okay for you two.

[NamerOfStars]

I dos't know if it's NORMAL, but the question is- does it bother you? I think it would me.

[Wise4myage]

Sounds like your girlfriend might have some bi tendencies, or maybe it was just random. Girls will compare boobs sometimes.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

People will probably say they were just friends but if two guys hug each other, even just a half-hug they’ll start having a brain aneurysm

[Guy13]

Alcohol and longings to know female-female…

[Guy13]

Here’s what you do. Tell her since she can show them to the girls, you want her to leave one hanging as you sit on the sidewalk tables in the sun with black velvet or cider. “I just want to see the guys trip over themselves.” I like it when I see other guys “wish” they were where I am… 💋 and as coming out of that whisper princess 👸🏻 in ear with “get her all wet” sensual neck 💋. Let me know how it goes.
—Mine does that with her 🚼 mostly. but she looks just like Betty Boob at 4’11 and 96 lbs. She enjoys it too. She gotten emails in bars then I walk by and she’ll say my name and hug me like finally your’re here. And, calmly but letting guy know she’s putting his email in her hot pink Coach.

[Guy13]

And one 8pm daylight at bar (there is 3 stories with three roof bars too…3 bars and dart 🎯 etc on other floors of Pub. “I’m sorry I’m late…I was rooftop in the sun thinking we would meet up there…now, I found you ( “looking at my phone pic” of her)”. This is how you please the voyeur and/or exhibitionist in her…
—She sucked two drinks out that guy over 30 minutes and I was enjoying the shoe. When we left, I had the bartender send him a double Makers Mark even though he was giving my girl low jack/ginger…. Good Times with blow job between historic buildings along alley way.

[Guy13]

You’ve got a drama exhibitionist on your hands and luckily, she wants to do that when you are present. Jealousy or see a hardon could be happening. Mine kind of plays that cause she knows I’m watching and enjoying it. It works for us as we both are not hard to look at.
-I woukd NEVER do that as I have been in magazines and it is hard to find another who is secure with me…I don’t wNt their attention!

[TheReturnOfTheK1ng]

His girlfriend is a slut.

[AFretiredTXn]

No. Not normal or OK.

[Pudsmucker]

Women do so odd things in bars

[Anonymous]

It's OK. I have done far worse.

[clemdenim]

What did you do

[MrSmithee]

Not a threat