Thoughts about "throuple"?

[Veronicaxxxxxx]

For those who don't know throuble is a couple but involves three persons.
So i need to know your opinions in throuple.
Me n my hubby r currently in love with another woman. We are thinking about being a throuple? Would u encourage that or not? pros and cons? And shared experience or opinion will help. :)

[SilverKometts]

for a while, I was in a relationship like that, though we called ourselves a polyamorous couple. jealousy was rampant in the first half of the relationship. me and the guy got along way better than me and the girl, and things went south quick. she wasn't that nice of a person to begin with, and it seemed to her that all I ever did was show just how uncaring she was. I eventually had to leave because she wasn't compassionate enough towards me. were trying again after a break, but it's like reading the same story again. I truly do believe that relationships like this can work, with lots of communication and people who truly care about each other. I say go for it, and if it doesn't work out, hell, you tried.

[Anonymous]

Once you embark on this threesome, there is no going back to being a normal couple. It is just like "legalising" cheating. What can happen? Jealousy, insecurity, arguments, violence, break-up. Please do not say it will never happen. It is a question of famous last words. I wonder how many people think it will not happen to them?

[TheVictoria]

Would you feel differently is it was two men and one women?

[Opinion Owner]

@TheVictoria No. Exacly the same.

[Hans222]

I wouldn't do it but if all of you three say yes than go for it :D
Ask yourselves the right questions though: what if one of you is so deeply of love that person wants excusivity with one of the other ones? :o

[Hans222]

Thanks for the MH :D

[orangeinme]

Go for it. It's dangerous, requires awesome communication, but you're in love so..

[Veronicaxxxxxx]

Dangerous in terms of what

[orangeinme]

Your relationships. it could destroy them all. You'll have to try and weigh the likelihood, and communication can reduce that but still

[Mcmarvelous]

My wife and I (15 years) have been considering it. We have talked about the pros and cons of an extra woman or extra man. When it comes to sex life of course I would prefer the extra woman wife is indifferent. But logically thinking about it an extra guy would benefit us both a lot more.

[Jersey2]

Be careful, this has a way pf ruining relationships as someone gets jealous and/or someone catches feelings. Good luck.

[ravedave]

If you're willing and able to handle that kind of lifestyle, if you're comfortable sharing your partner like that, then go for it, it can be really fulfilling if that's the lifestyle you wanna lead.

[hdjfhk]

Any threesome or more activity in a standard relationship usually ends up with both partners feeling nervous for various reasons after, causing long term issues. Most relationships do not long term survive a threesome.

[Roseeeeeeeee]

I think it should be called 'Trouble' because that's is the only thing I see happening.

[Veronicaxxxxxx]

Why?

[Roseeeeeeeee]

Because its 3 persons so there will be jealousy in that type of relationship at some point.

[TheVictoria]

Would you feel differently if it were two men and one woman?

[Roseeeeeeeee]

@TheVictoria I'll feel the exact same way. I don't think a 'throuple' will work out.

[imtheman0048]

Sounds like more made up hipster bullshit. Like demisexual or polyamorou

[chuy10]

depends on you if its the first time how you're going to feel seen your husband doing another woman in front of you

[GrumpyGoo]

Throuples are disgusting.

[Veronicaxxxxxx]

Can u explain more?

[GrumpyGoo]

I don't think sharing your partner like that is a good idea.

[fivebyfour]

Does the other lady feel the same?

[PancakeFury]

You do you boo.

[raj2022]

It's hot

[TheFlak38]

Well then do that.