Submissive guys, what are things you like women to do that turn you on?

Question

Please be more specific than, "be dominant" because that is rather obvious and too vague. I am asking to know because I always attract the submissive types of guys and I want to see what other submissive guys like women to do the submissive women don't do.

PlacentaSalad · Accepted Answer

It depends on the guy. Everybody has their boundaries when it comes to dominance and submission play, that it's usually best to talk to the individual you're involved with.

If you're looking to be more dominant, you can do so either sexually or outside of the bedroom, or both if you and him enjoy it that way. For general domination, you can basically just have him remain nude in your presence while you remained clothed, the only accessory he wears is a collar with a leash for you to pull him around with. Or keep his clothes on but collar him as a way of claiming ownership over him. You can verbally humiliate him by calling him your slave, pet, your bitch, a loser, etc. Assign him chores to do, like doing your laundry, or cooking you food, or make him do your homework if you're still in school. You could make him worship your body through massaging or kissing your feet or other areas that you might enjoy.

Both sexually and in general, you can involve bondage and sensory deprivation, such as gags and blindfolds if any are available to you. Tease him with your body or through handjobs/blowjobs but deny him release and make him beg for it. If he's interested in it, have him wear a chastity/cock cage and make him work for being unlocked by orally servicing you or something. Prioritize your sexual pleasure as being important and only let him cum when you're satisfied. Have him service you at least three times per day or as often as possible.

If you're more sadistic or willing to punish, you could spank/whip with your hand or a riding crop or paddle or something whenever he misbehaves or doesn't perform to your expectations. But this is getting into sadomasochism territory and you have to ensure he is comfortable with pain first. The submissive actually has all of the control over what the Dom (me) is allowed to do otherwise this is when it starts to become abuse.

nightdrot · Accepted Answer

Generally I prefer being dominant. However, there are times when I like the role reversal. One thing my girlfriend likes is for me to wear women's underwear. Something frilly and pretty and generally pink.

Then she will either tie me down face down and f**** me with a strapon or a dildo Alternatively, she ties me down face up and sits on my face for a while and makes me lick her pussy. Then she strokes my dick but won't allow me to cum.

THAT reduces me to a helpless puddle, and I can recall begging to the point of tears for relief. When she finally allows it, she then spreads the cum all over my body and feeds me some of it.

The only other thing we do - and honestly - we don't do any of this very much, at least anymore - is she strips me naked and puts me on a leash. She then has me walk around on all fours - she has even taken me into our backyard (fortunately at night.) Then I lick her pussy or her feet and up between her legs and she tells me I am a good little dog before she milks me - in what I am sure would impress zoologists everywhere - like a cow till I cum while on all fours.

One other thing, years ago - well before we had our first child - we did a threesome with another woman and me in the submissive role. In all honestly, it was amazing. They more or less sexually tortured me - spankings, a** f****ings, pulling on my nuts - but it was an amazing experience.

hugs4rentSocialclub · Answer

Hmm... That stare. Like you're looking down at someone. Controlling, like commanding them to the point of humiliation. And delayed satisfaction... or cancelation. Inflicting pain... Chains and whips not needed. Just bite the fuck out of the neck. Aaand I'll just stop there hahaha

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know how specific I could be because I'm picky and there could be a very fine line lol. Example the thought of being "a woman's play toy", to use as she wishes is extremely arousing but I definitely have personal limitations so it would very much depend on what she wanted to do. And I don't like surprises either lol. I would like anything that involved "appreciation" for my body, me being objectified even (but not humiliation) for her obvious pleasure. I'm not into pain or anything like that though, the more tame things. Eg gentle massage etc.

That's just me though. Other guys like different things. Obviously the level of trust comes into play to.

Robsinsf53 · Answer

I'm not submissive, but then again I've never had a woman tell me she needed to be in control. If one did, I'd be willing to try "ALMOST" any thing she wants. But there has to be a word that means "STOP" also. I would like her to ride my cock and have me cuffed so I can't touch her. That'd be wild.

Vespasian · Answer

They like getting fucked in the ass. Any guy that is sexually submissive is closeted gay

genericname85 · Answer

i mean i don´t think this is "submissive" xD but i like her to do the fucking from time to time. specially in cowgirl. also her being really assertive about what she wants me to do to her.

Anonymous · Answer

i guess me being partial submissive partially dominant but the submissive part of me would love my non existent girlfriend to hold my hands above me and not let me move them while making out etc

arooo2001 · Answer

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edgyfox · Answer

I like them to try things that would make them happy or they are curious to try.

EOTS1 · Answer

Haha , women do not have the ability to be dominant. Get back in the kitchen Sweetie.

ccal28 · Answer

I'm either but if I'm submissive I like when the girl is on top kissing me and feeling on me

dsrice1966 · Answer

Dress up as a sexy nurse and overpower me physically.

Anonymous · Answer

I like worshipping her and treating her like a princess. And her treating me like crap and humiliated me in return

Anonymous · Answer

Trampling, slapping, spiting in my face, punching, leashing me, sitting on me... everything!

Anonymous · Answer

How old are you first?

CT_CD · Answer

Be dominant

KingOfGaG · Answer

I wish date one

Pizzalover101 · Answer

I'm not submissive

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