Why hasn't he asked me for a nude pic by now?

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. It's quite serious and when we are together he is very loving towards me. We talk about the future and moving in together all the time. He is the first guy that has never asked me for a nude pic. I know he likes looking at nude models because he has some nude model pages that he has liked on his Facebook. These were pages that he had already clicked like on before he met me. He actually added a new one a few days ago.

I don't have an issue with that in itself because I realize that men are visual creatures and that is the way a guy is built. I know it doesn't mean he doesn't love or desire me. Its normal and I get that.

What I don't understand is why he wouldn't ask me for a nude pic if he is looking at these models. I mean he is obviously attracted to me or he wouldn't be with me. I kind of feel like I'm not good enough or something and feel slightly inadequate.

Am I being silly?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Being silly.

Guys treat relationships with potential, especially if he's already been with you naked, differently than with some random or a girl he's never banged before.

Yeah I'll ask some hot hoe for nudes, I want to archive it in my creeper files of past conquests to look at again on my death bed and feel accomplished. Yes, I will ask a girl I haven't met yet for nudes... I want to make sure I'm not about to go on a date with someone horribly mutilated from the waste down (true story, it happened to me).

[Minesha]

Yes, you are being silly. He hasn't asked for a nude because he is being a respectable individual. Normal people don't ask for nudes. He's looking at models so that he can get off, not because he loves them.

[Asker]

Okay I get that but why can't he get off on me too, I am his girlfriend. I would like to not only feel loved but also sexually desired as well.

[Minesha]

Then get naked in front of him?

[Asker]

I do get naked in front of him, we do have sex you know lol but it would be nice if during our times apart that he had some pic of me to fantasize over too

[Minesha]

Honestly, memory is a powerful thing.

[Minesha]

I still remember the first time I touched a boob, and I have no pics of that.

[Anonymous]

You're really lucky that he didn't ask you for any it means he respects you as a person and doesn't only see you/use you for sex only. That's a really good thing it's very rare now a days so you should be happy and keep that guy forever lol

[Anonymous]

I totally understand you.. my boyfriend treats me with so much respect, but he keeps his jerk off time for other girls and that hurts. Feels like not being good enough..
I wish I could understand guys..

[zombiebabe]

he faps to the models already.. hmm maybe that's why he doesn't wanna ask you for them

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[zombiebabe]

he doesn't need your nudes he's using the ones online

[Asker]

But why?

[zombiebabe]

you should ask him

[Goodwifie]

Because he has respect for you.

[OlderAndWiser]

Giving anyone nude pictures is a horrible idea. If you want him to see you nude, let him see the real deal and not just a picture.

[ActualDurhamNative]

I'm a very similarly built guy, I don't like my girlfriends (exes not more than one at once) sending me nudes, but I do enjoy porn. it's a whole different thing. He also sees those women as sex objects, he sees you as a partner. he values you as a person, those pictures just give him a boner. if it really bother you then send him some, if you want some brownie points, give him an envelope of Polaroids at the end of your next encounter. that way he can't share them easily

[Asker]

So would it be a mistake to casually ask him if he would like a nude picture of me?

[StormChaser838]

Yes u are silly, he really likes and loves you,,, and he obviously thinks that asking u would insult you, that is why he will not ask you. He thinks of u are a person, not a piece of meat. But if you come on to him he will love it and that will be the best. Tell him what you want, that is the key. Be honest, don't compromise, just keep communicating. If you want to have sex with him, that's great. There is nothing wrong when there are two consenting adults.

[EyeKnowMeNahYou]

Because like everything once someone else discourages it and many of other people have discouraged it and it's seen as a negative or a bad thing then that's how it usually will stay. No one wants to venture into the fact of asking for something that is so negative or even viewed in the perverse sense that yeah it would be a good thing to ask for. He's most likely allowing you to do it before asking anything about it because he doesn't want to see him as a pervert or thirsty. Which is smart LOL

[Anonymous]

Because you're his girlfriend and he has more respect for you. Most women are offended at even being asked for them so he probably just doesn't want to risk it. If you were to just do it, I'm sure he'd love it. Or simply talk to him and ask. It's not a bad thing in any way though.

[DavidBrowie44]

Because he doesn't wanna upset you and gets to see it in person. Send him something teasing and see if it peaks his interest, he might end up asking to see more. But remember... He'll wanna show just as much as he see's!!

[Anonymous]

Seriously? I would never ask a girl for nudes. Why would I do that. I can see her naked with my own eyes and have sex with her physically. Why would I have to ask for her nudes to jerk off? Yes you are being silly. It probably means he respects you more and doesn't see you as a sex object.

[JohnDoe3000]

Because he has no need for them. Some of us have a functioning memory and some of us are smart enough to know such pictures could leak and don't want to put the woman in our lives through that.

[SpiralKipz]

It really depends on the guy. He doesn't have to see you naked to love you and find you to be beautiful, and he knows that if and when you sleep together he'll be able to see and interact with your nude body.

[DamnSam]

a real gentleman would never ask for nudes, he waits until he preserves it... maybe you are the 1 out of 1k who got a gentleman...

[es20490446e]

https://youtu.be/pGcA8BoXxH0

[Thinkthought]

He probably doesn't want to look like he's pressuring you into sending nudes. He wants it to be your decision. You should initiate and send them.

[SkateFastEatAss]

He might not want to ruin things by pushing that kind of thing on you?

[clampfan101]

I don't want to see a girl naked unless I'm married to her.

[Ruchit13567]

This is ggod sign actually. And even he want your nude pic but too afraid to loose you or you might get upset if he ask you so he didn't ask for that.

[Anonymous]

because it's not a good idea to send nudes. it just isn't a good idea

[MarinaP]

Be glad that he didn't asked

[JustCallMeLeon]

You are being silly. Send him one. Initiate.

[Asker]

OK I asked him if he would like one and he replied with "Up to you, I don't mind lol"
I don't think he is interested, he didn't sound excited with my offer

[JustCallMeLeon]

Meh. He will like it.

[blondfrog]

I thought that's what real life was for.

[Anonymous]

He simply doesn't want

[Asker]

Why wouldn't he want one?