Should I regret sending him picture of my body with underwear?

[Anonymous]

I feel guilty. Please help.
he asked for more but I refused he wanted me to spread my legs I said I shy.
but he keep asking for full nude pic since years ago and I refuse but this time after we broke up he changed slot he only talk about sex with me

I liked the old him now he's so playful he keep talk about sex a lot and I love him sadly

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

If he changed a lot then maybe you made your relationship too sexual, either that or another thing, you see when people aren't so close yet they tend to only show their good side to public, that even includes me, what you're seeing may not be a new him but what his real personality was from the start, stay away from him. I had a friend, she was dating this guy and she kept refusing to send her nudes to him for awhile, but when he got angry she sent finally them, know that most of her friends that I know, both male and female said they lost some respect for her for falling for that so if it comes to stuff like that you should also talk about it with your close female friends. And like most said, he WILL share with his friends, not too long ago I overheard upperclassmen exchanging nudes of a girl that was in my class, she was a good person too. Honestly I don't see the point in keeping nudes of a person you like if you see them a lot, or if he can't handle his urges, there are sites and "remedies" for that. Even after you broke up he's still talking about sex with you, that would be because since you've already seen his true colors there's no need for him to hide them anymore.

[dannymexico90]

You should cut him off for awhile. He will go from looking at you as a sex object to simply wanting to talk to you and be around you. It has happend to me before. When she was In my face a lot I just wanted sex. When she stopped talking I just wanted to be around her

[Asker]

Thank you that opinion give me hope that what I plan to do. MHO
We were together 2 years and he was good he always talk about arts and life and our future. Things changed after we broke up and now I will bring him back to who he was.

[OjosOscuros2]

Stop talking to him immediately. It starts like this and then he will try to pressure you to show him more. Promise yourself to never again talk to a person who makes you feel unsafe and uncomfortable.

[Topaz171]

No you shouldn't feel guilty because he should've treated you better than that. Never do anything you're not comfortable with hun, and I suggest you leave him alone since he doesn't respect you

[Musicgeek21]

He's using you as a "side bitch" to borrow our cultures colloquialism. He wants his sex drive satisfied and you are the way to cure it. Dont encourage his lust by sending those pictures. Even if you do love him. Pornographic nudity sent by text is sadly a part of our culture, but they only serve to fuel the objectification of women and the unhealthy lust of a man for more than one partner. Besides, what happens if a creep hacks your phone, you send it to the wrong person or he sends it to someone else? You can't take that picture back, so dont put yourself in a situation like that. Hope this helps 😊

[Asker]

But it wasn't a porngraphic pic or nudes.
It was just an underwear pics
Anyway I will stay aware.

[Musicgeek21]

I wasn't saying you sent one of those pictures. Sorry if that's what the conclusion you drew from my opinion was. I was implying that sending pictures that leaves little to the imagination lead to those types of texts and further encourage a mans lust and objectification of women. That's all, no judgment, harm or foul. 😊

[SnapTsch]

try and avoid it in the future
dont cave in to the desperation of guys, hold your own grounds.
its better to drop such guys than regret it throughout your life after you find out that your friend/professor/relatvies/colleague/employer/future boyfriend/probably spouse has seen them splattered over the internet

[Asker]

You are right that's why I haven't send a naked pic of me and I will never will.
But what I sent was a picture with underwears 👙
like before I send it I was ok with the idea of my body with underwear over the internet + my face wasn't on it in case I regret

[SnapTsch]

that was a smart move tbh

but listen to me
if a guy is that desperate, then all the affection is short lived, the secrecy of your body is keeping him engaged, one its revealed, he might lose interest.

word of caution: dont invest so much of yourself into a guy or a relationship that you aren't able to stand up straight without them.
😀

[Asker]

Yes that's true. He left me after I sent the underwear picture. I'm sure he will comeback to ask for full nudes picture again like he said before.

He will never stop until he feel that he won his ego. I told him that I love God too much to do such a thing but he sounds he will never give up because me not losing control over him will destroy his ego.

[Asker]

But man I really loved him more than any word could say. I'm leaving him is hard I will just not give him attention.

[SnapTsch]

not giving him attention is not enough, getting him out of your head is more important,
love yourself more than you love him
and dont worry if you need to rant or get things off your chest, I'm all ears

[Sinopop]

No no, he could keep them and share them with his friends if you break up, even if you dont break up think about the hack risk, then he can see you in reality, he might be doing a collection of similar pictures so be careful

[Asker]

But wait I have send a naked picture of me?
I have only sent a picture with underwear!

[Asker]

Haven't **

[Sinopop]

It isn't nothing anyway, avoid him and avoid to dispute with him, be neutral

[genericname85]

No but since you broke up cut him the fuck out of your life already. Seriously. Do it.

[sharkyfish]

YOU should never feel guilty he should have more respect for your body

[Anonymous]

you're confusing. just one opinion never share nudes with someone who isn't trust worthy

[Asker]

I haven't send a naked picture of me
I have only sent a picture with underwear!

[Opinion Owner]

by the way why did you share your undies pics with the guy? was he your bf?

[Asker]

Yes and I'm crushing on him

[Opinion Owner]

and now that you know he is a pervert you still have a crush on him?

[Asker]

No :( I talk to him since 3 years ago. It crying now I hate him and I hate my whole life. I'm tired.

[Opinion Owner]

just because one guy you had crush on turns pervert doesn't mean you have to hate whole life. next time make sure you don't do anything this stupid and you'll be fine. and about him, just ignore him and if he still gives you trouble file a sexual harassment case on him and you'll be fine.

[John_Doesnt]

No, because he will share it with his friends.

[Asker]

I'm afraid he show it to my next boyfriend or my family but for that I should to prove him that I'm not afraid

[Fk7676]

He is a fuckboy, stay away for your own good.

[Asker]

He wasn't like that before we broke up.. he used to be a caring man and he love talking to me about serious subjects and arts. Now all what he talk about is sex.

[Fk7676]

He is now showing his real face.
I bet, he is gonna blackmail you later on, if you send nudes.

[Starshine85]

you have every right to feel what you feel.

[Starshine85]

I mean by not wanting to send more pics. You're not together. It doesn't feel right. you don't have to do anything

[Anonymous]

I feel sad for you honestly.

[Asker]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Because you 'love' a guy who doesn't respect you and clearly doesn't love you back.
I think you should cut him out your life for good.

[Armanazar]

its depends on you... is he bad guy? don't do that if yes and he is honest I don't know you can send

[emerald77]

Don't worry about it. What's done is done.

[skaterkid123]

nothign wrong with that

[xHelp]

If he changed, then sure.

[upskirtfetish]

never send pics, just don't do it

[Anonymous]

if i were you i would regret

[LastNightmare]

that's fine

[Lumberman53]

I wouldn't