Should I send him a picture of me in a bikini?

[positivevibe]

I've been talking to this guy for a very long time. We are practically dating.

Today he was telling me that i have a nice body (he has told me this many times before) and that he would like to see a picture of me in a bikini. I sent him one, but i also had a friend in the picture. He then replied and said that he wants a picture of just me in it and no one else, and that he would be the only one that would see it.

Should i go ahead and send him the picture. Its just a bikini and the picture of me and my friend in the bikini is on my Facebook.

UGHHH I NEED HELP?

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Random people see me at the beach/pool in a bikini so what's the difference if im sending it to him? Why does he want just me in the picture?

[LightsOff]

If you're comfortable with the thought that that picture might end up everywhere online (worst case scenario), and the possibility of him showing that picture to all his friends, then go for it.

Also before telling me that you trust him and that he would "never do that", yadda yadda, please remember that there are thousands (if not millions) of girls who sent pictures like that to guys they trusted, that then ended up online or were shared with a lot of other people, because these guys just couldn't/didn't want to keep these pictures to themselves.

[Cmasterson]

Sure why not, it's just a bikini, however keep in mind that he may be a jerk and send it to people, just go with your gut xx

[HornyG4mer]

Depends on how you know this guy. Is it someone you know or just someone online?

I think a bikini pic is innocent enough, although a 2 piece is on the borderline to underwear. I mean it literally could replace underwear in any outfit! Many people consider pictures in underwear as porn.

So if you do take a picture, dont do anything flirtatious. I mean if you officially start dating, you can take that type of picture later. RIght now your just showing off your body, not your sexy side.

[CountVronsky]

It's just a picture of you in a bikini. I don't see any big risk there.

[positivevibe]

So should i go ahead and just send it

[CountVronsky]

Only if you want to do it.

[Zamac]

I'd suggest you do not send him this - you never know, hmmm?

On the other hand, instead of pixels why don't you show him the real deal? Invite him to a pool or beach date. I'd consider it muuuuuuuuuuuuuuch better (and safer in a public place).

[scuff1986]

i would be cautious, if you trust this guy fully then it should be ok, but just make sure your comfortable with doing so :)

[Anonymous]

Why not? Random people at the beach/pool can see you in a bikini but the guy you're dating can't?

[Anonymous]

I don't see a problem with that since your in a bikini and it's a guy you like