Should I send him a bikini pic?

[Anonymous]

I've seen this guy twice (although we did hook up last time). It's been a week since then and I'm going to be on vacation shortly. Should I send him a bikini pic from the beach or is that too forward for only having gone on two dates with him? This is a guy I'd like a real relationship with (not just someone to sleep with), if that matters.

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+1 y

edit: By "too forward" I mean, does it come off as desperate, or just the right amount of flirty?

[oldanddecrepid]

I would wait a little while before you do that... for all you know he may be the type to show all his friends and be like... can't wait to be tappin that!

Let it ride a little longer until you really now that he is somewhat trustworthy.

[oldanddecrepid]

Thanks for MHGuy, and I hope you waited till you got to know him better! That way there is no bikini pics of you floating around out there!

[Artist10]

You could, but if you feel its not right since you have only gone two dates with him then ask him what he thinks of you in a bikini.
Then send him the pic. Girls always ask things like this so Im sure he would understand.

[Tashika]

I don´t see a problem in sending a bikini pic. It´s totally ok to use your female attractivness to make the guy you like interested in you.

[Cmasterson]

It's not that forward nor sexual that much, if you like him just send him a picture showing him your enjoying yourself!

[Lioness]

Then you already know the answer... stop trying to validate being cheap, you are better then that.

[Lioness]

Before becoming a GF=desperate. After becoming GF=flirty

[Xoxoa1_]

Its just a bikini picture , its not like he is going to see anything extra so i think you should send him one.

[Dez23]

It seems to early for a bikini picture if you are serious about wanting a real relationship with him and not just a hook up.

[Soshy]

What are your reasons for doing so? Are you worried he'll forget about you? Personally I wouldn't go down that road.

[Buntandoutspoken]

Well there's really nothing wrong with it if it's just a fun harmless pic of you on the beach or something. I don't see why it would be a bad thing

[cocoa1000]

no you should send it to me!!! hahaha im joking is up to you

[scottianson1981]

Maybe not. If you know the person well and trust them, then yes!

[Shaft50]

Send him one... why not? It's not like you're naked or anything...

[Prince_teddy4u]

It'll come to much of flirty and can be over and you may not able to handle. It's kind of yes for the sex for us.

[Anonymous]

Wait another bit to do that. It seems a little too sudden and you'll seem thirsty.

[Anonymous]

I suggest you don't, don't give it to him so easily and early like that.

[sexcrazy1]

send him a bikini picture with a light hearted comment.

[iFarted]

It depends on whether or not y'all get sexual when you guys text. If you guys do then go for it.

[Anonymous]

Well you hooked up with him so a bikini pic isn't to forward lol. But maybe more of a tease pic like legs or something.

[soe11]

Bit early to send him.

[MoonlitSonata]

He already seen the goods what's it matter

[Anonymous]

send it , show that got bod gurrrl