My best guy friend asked for a bikini pic?

[lauren6500]

my best guy friend asked for a bikini pic when we where texting and he told me I had a nice body and that I was cute and when he asked for one I said no then he said that he would delete it after he looked at it he was also talking about my ass and saying he wanted it and that it was big he admitted a lot of things like he liked me all last year and he asked me really weird questions that he has always wanted to ask he since last year what does all this mean does he still like me and should I have sent him a pic or not ? what should I do and why would he say all these things now /does her still like me help me please

[CrystalMinds]

Not a good idea to send pics like that, even if it's to a friend. You never know who'll see it or where he sends it or posts it or whatever. Imagine: you send him this pic, after a while you two get in a fight, he wants to take revenge and voila, your pic is all over the internet.

A bit of a dramatization, but still.

Seems like he's into you to get laid, to be honest. If a guy starts about all the physical things, I usually (not always) think he's just in it for sex. If he would actually like me as a person, he would ask for a date or ask questions to get to know me, not just give me compliments about my ass.

I could be wrong, but that's how I think about it.

[lauren6500]

yeah that's what I was thinking that to and that was one of the reasons why I said no because of if we get in to a fight and he does that

[CrystalMinds]

I personally think it's best if you don't send such pictures, whatever he says. If he gets upset just for that, then maybe he's not such a good friend.

[lauren6500]

yeah that's so true I told him no and he said OK if you don't wan to that's fine

[CrystalMinds]

Good!

[lauren6500]

yeah at least he did not beg me and thanks for the answer

[CrystalMinds]

Even if he would beg, not a good idea to give him a pic like that, not even to make him stop begging.

[lauren6500]

yeah I was not going to anyway because I am not that kinda person

[CrystalMinds]

That's good, smart decision :)

[lauren6500]

yeah thank you so much that helped me a lot :)

[LauraMarx]

he either does still like you, yeah, or he feels so comfortable around you he feels like he can get out that sexual angst... Probably both though - he likes you, but he'd be happy just being your friend, & is comfortable talking sexual with you.

You can do whatever you want, in this situation. As much as your comfortable with. You can't lose :)

[snowboarder720]

sounds like he wants to take you to home base. Haha, don't describe him as your "best guy friend" when he asks for bikini pics of you and tells you his thoughts about your ass and confessing his undying love for you. Best guy friends don't do that. Sounds to me like he wants to get in your pants.

yeah, he likes you. I don't know how many more signs you need to convince you this. Haha. It's quite obvious. He definitely has played mind games with you if you think otherwise.

[lauren6500]

yeah he has never said anything like this before and we have been friends for 2 years and I was like wtf no

[Anonymous]

It's an absolute no brainer to think that a guy who is wanting to see your body in a bikini is into you. I didn't think this sort of thing really needs to be spelled out. May the world have mercy on the younger generations coming up in the world...

[lauren6500]

so true! I was like wtf no

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You shouldn't send any pics of your body you don't want floating around your school or the internet. Do you really need to keep a friendship with a guy who talks to you that way ?

[lauren6500]

I never really thought of it that way and now that you say that no I really don't want to have a friendship like that thank you so much for pointing that out :)

[UncleScrooge]

Seriously, what do you think? Is that the sort of thing that friends do?

[lkjhg69cum]

Because he wants you. Btw, he is full of shit about deleting it.

[submissivegirl]

If you are interested in him, then you should.