Context matters.
If she enjoys the thrill and nothing else, it's not worth it.
If she's doing it to make sure your not a jackass who comes and goes when he pleases, that's different.
Telling the two apart can be difficult. One of the reasons to give up trying, and focus your energy elsewhere. I may miss out on opportunities for happiness, but the pros don't outweigh the cons if I'm destined to get hurt over and over again.
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It depends. Hard-to-get is okay, I guess, but what really makes a guy fall for you is knowing that you're only hard-to-get to everyone else and you're making an effort to be with him. It means you have your heart set on that guy in particular, and he'll love it
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It entirely depends on the guy. Some like the chase, some don't.
I don't like hard to get and those pathetic games. I hate them. I'm direct, straightforward but a little reserved. My time is far too valuable and i don't want a relationship to be a second job. It's either on or not. No middle ground for that.The majority of men will equate " hard to get " with " don't bother , she is not interested !! " Hard to get will work on a lot of women , as this is interpreted as the man having status & options , conversely this will backfire if used on most men , as the male mind processes this in a cold , hard logic way.
Fuck games. The hard to get thing is so stupid, if someone's gonna do that then they can stay single for all I care. Also, being easy it good either. It's not super attractive if someone is just throwing themselves at you. It's been to be somewhere between.
I love someone who will be open with me on how they feel. If you say "No." and only are "telling" me to try harder, I'm just going to end up taking that as you're not interested. But if you're going to be honest with me on how you feel, I'm going to take rejection or acceptance a lot better. :D
In my case I want her to be easy going so I know soon enough if she actually likes me. If she Playa hard to get then I think she isn't interested and I will move on.
Easy going. I'm shy so if you play hard to get I'll probably just give up and think you're not interested
Easy going. Playing games is maybe satisfying for girls, but the same can't be said for all men... Ideally somewhere between easy going and hard to get, closer to easy going.
Not "fall in love" with a hard to get girl just girls being easy can be unattractive if they jump into bed with guy after guy but the others might seem more loyal to the guy which is attractive if the guy isn't a knob
Easy going im not gonna chase you i chase money and dreams never pussy to much of it around
I would say the best bet is somewhere in the middle
Hard to get is an immediate turn off. If she thinks she's too good, she can do it on her own.
My opinion we love the hard to get, easy girls take more than roots just to get hooked on em
Easy going down to earth kind of girls are best
easy going im tired of all this hunting
No way are you kidding? lol
I dont chase girls cuz im a badboy
easy going. i can't waste time and hate it
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