I moved on, thinking that he left me after 2 weeks of ignoring. He said sorry and explained what happened. What should I do?

[louiseisaturtle]

My boyfriend ignored me for 2 weeks and his phone was actually broken. We're apart from each other and i really thought he abandoned me. He's a good guy but still i need to question for his dark sides i may not know about. Also those past weeks he's busy. He works for 12hrs in a regular work week.

Thinking he abandoned me, i decided to move on. Right now i lost my feelings for him and just want to be friends (even being friends is awkward.) I thought moving on was the best way to get rid of the pain and it works for me a bit.

After that he said sorry and explained to me. He still loves me. I know it's bad to leave someone just because they have a job to do. How would i talk about this to him? Consider both sides. We both don't have anybody else.

[Anonymous]

Too busy is an excuse. Like CookieCutter1 said. Men will do anything if he likes you.
My last boyfriend. was carrying a pile of files going up and down the stairs. I called him back... even if he had to drop his stuff all over the stair case, he made sure he took my call and he did becasue he didn't want to miss the opportunity to hear my voice.
My boyfriend. Driving from job site... he pulled off the road to talk to me. Sometimes when we talk, we take each other to the bathroom lol... we just want to know about ea. others day.. what we are cooking, what we are eating... take picutres to send to ea. other...
I think you understnad and hope that this is a lesson that you are a side chick when he only text you 4-5 days... next time note that... a guy will find you excited, fun and wnat to talk to you to get invloe with him... otherwise he is taking up your time.. so glad you moved on :)

[joeyhahaha]

I'm sure if the love was strong enough for you, you wouldn't be able to lose feelings only within two weeks. So maybe deep down in your mind, you already knew it wouldn't work and were ready to let go. He had his time to think of whether he wanted to be with you or not. I think you can be the same and tell him that you need your time too. Don't rush back in it if you heart is telling you not to. True love can wait. Take your time and feel it out.

[louiseisaturtle]

Actually i force myself to forget about him because i thought he's with someone else

[joeyhahaha]

Maybe you can take sometimes to see if those feelings will come back.

[Anonymous]

i would have happy that he is back.
a person whom you love, how can u say 'lost my feelings' within just 2weeks!

when he has not done anything wrong!

u had relationships before? ri think , this was the reason why u lost your feelings so early!

you should apologize him about this
be with him.

i think your relationship between with him was long.

this made you know each and every thing about him and after that although you had feelings, the intrest was no more!

i think you should be with him as it happens in every relationship lasts longer!

come on , nothing has happened , be with him

[louiseisaturtle]

I was just overacting. We've been on for 8 months only

[OlderAndWiser]

Why didn't he borrow someone else's phone to call you? I don't buy his excuse.

[CookieCutter1]

Was his phone REALLY broken? Like did you confirm this?

Because the fact that he abandoned you shows that maybe his phone wasn't broken and he was just lying to play you.

[louiseisaturtle]

He brought a new one actually. I know us very well. When things get busy, i don't text him for like maybe 4 to 5 days. He doesn't also text for a week when he's busy. So for us it's just usual. Now when i want to break up he keeps saying sorry and now texts me often. He's not lying and he's not just playing me

[CookieCutter1]

Wow, he seems like a crappy boyfriend.. AT BEST. Its not unreasonable for you to ask him to text you more frequently than that. He is still just giving excuses. I mean look at the language you use, you say you don't text him for 4-5 days, but do you want to? Its okay to want a boyfriend who talks to you more often.

When a guy says he's busy and can't text you.. he doesn't like you

When a guy likes a girl, he will do ANYTHING to talk to her. He is just using you

[louiseisaturtle]

Not gonna reject your opinion but i'll see

[CookieCutter1]

Come on Louise, you have to seriously tell him that there are issues with his behavior. I mean your telling us, so something must be bothering you. Just be honest with him about how you feel, and if he doesn't bother, then you need to walk away from him.

Or else if he notices that you keep giving in, that will confirm to him that he can continue to manipulate you

[bondobilly]

You don't text for 4-5 days? Smh. I'd fire you as a girl friend.

[muddpuddle07]

Why couldn't he just go to your home and tell you that in person instead of treating you like some sort of leppar or viral infection. That is a bad look!

[aapunpred]

Ok... 2 weeks is insane. He could have used another phone. If he really wanted to talk he would have found a way. 2nd just tell him straight up. You are not seeing a future together and you think it is time to move on.

[LongBeard7]

you moved on kinda quick but who cares you're young not much on the line. I say move on and let him move one too.

[limousin987]

Take his (sorry) with a grain of salt.
There are many, many ways to contact a person.
Was YOUR phone broken as well?
There are public phones, friends phones, work phones etc.
He was probably trying someone else out and it didn't work out.

[GGazpacho]

If i loved a girl, and my phone was gone. and 12 hours a week is bullshit when i study 36 hours a week. No fb messages? no short texts? you moved on right? then move on.

[reed454]

And a phone is the only form of communication? Couldn't get to a library or borrow a friend's phone to message you on Facebook or any other way. Bullshit

[Anonymous]

If you were willing to "move on" based on nothing more than suspicion then you never really liked him that much to begin with.

[Fuselesss]

move on... this guy is hiding sthg. no1 stops msging or calling his girl for 2 weeks NO MATTER THE REASONS.

[AdamED]

If you moved on then keep moving. Rule #1, never look back, always further and further, only going forward should be your first priority.

[louiseisaturtle]

Nah we got back together

[AdamED]

You'll break up again, soon or later, I'm an expert so you can take it or leave. Feel free to contact me for any questions on the future!

[louiseisaturtle]

Nah.

[chnapo]

Two weeks of ignoring are bad, but one should not move on unless both meet and agree they should split... What kind of relationship is that?

[OfDeath]

So you want to leave him cause he has a job?
Come on, his job is 12 hours per week. That's nothing. It's not even 2.5 hours per day.

[hasjohnson]

He's lying to you. He WOULD HAVE found a way to get a hold of you if he likes you. Please don't be like many girls and fall for his $#!€

[lazermazer]

Did you really lost feelings? Any feeling changed?

[louiseisaturtle]

I regained feelings but sometimes i get hurt bc there has been a residual pain

[louiseisaturtle]

I haven't heard from you in a long time. I uninstalled the gag app

[Insanyx12]

The dark side always overcomes the light

[_________]

If you liked him to begin with, give it a chance.

[LOGESHKUMAR]

Tell me the things Frankly...