Ladies, odd quirks that your boyfriend has?

[gotc147]

I have a few quirks about me as I care so little about fitting in, I'd rather do what I want and enjoy myself in the process.

Hence my question, if your boyfriend had some oddball quirk about them, broke the stereotypes, didn't put effort into fitting into the crowd, would that turn you off?

Here are some good (highly controversial) examples:

Listens to music that men "aren't supposed to like".

Speaks his mind, if he feels wronged he says something.

Here's a good one: wears speedos.

Things that just are not typical, that make him stick out a lot.

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Would you deal with these things if you liked him enough? Knowing that he won't change them?

[star709]

not in a realtionship, but the guy I'm talking to

will listen to my girl problems & has input sometimes. not his fav to hear about but doesn't mind lol. not afarid to tell me his fears - some guys feel like they should tell girls those things so they seem weak.

I would never change anything about him, I know for a fact he wouldn't either (stubborn) lol

so yes, if you liked a person enough you would accept them for who they all and all their luggage.

[star709]

*edit - some guys feel like they shouldn't tell girls those things so they do not seem weak

[frecklefaced]

My boyfriend is amazing

1. He has red hair, and doesn't care about getting teased.

2. He is secertly really loving even though only I know that.

3. He HATES makeup. He says he would rather see a little acne than makeup

4. He is super hygenic with his skin.

5. He wears boxer breifs.

6. He doesn't talk about sex with me, ever.

7. He doesn't care what others thinks.

8. He's not popular(:

I love him

[ilyurbella]

That sounds like my boyfriend and no it's not a turn off at all. He's completely different from everyone that I know. I know that he wouldn't change & I still liked him enough to be with him. We've been together for almost 3 years and yeah he's changed but he's still completely different. It makes him and our relationship special.

[Tomboy]

I hate guys that fit in because they all use so much bad language, party, and do drugs... etc I like my boyfriend because he doesn't fit in =) though if I ever saw him in a speedo I will make him put on more clothe and get mad at him for a little bit ( not very good at staying mad at my bf... )

[onetwo3]

I think everything about my boyfriend is out of the ordinary for a "typical" guy. He's doesn't feel like he has to fit into any masculine stereotypes (he doesn't mind that I'm taller than him, he admits to liking certain chick flicks, he likes to write poetry, probably likes PDA way more than I do). It all makes him who he is though, it's not about "dealing with" anything, it's just who he is and if I didn't like who he is I wouldn't have started dating him in the first place.

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has lots of weird quirks. Including some he started just to make me smile (dancing in the middle of our office in front all the staff if I am having a bad day or the mall). All of them make me love him more.

[brunettebelle]

Yeah I wouldn't mind as long as he can make me laugh. If he isn't nice and has no personality then that would be my deal breaker.

[mrod1019]

Yes, yes I would. I think that if you like someone enough you won't even notice their flaws. Everyone is different. I think people should be with each other because they like who they are, not who they can turn into.

[Anonymous]

Once had a boyfriend who insisted on peeing with the door open, so we could keep talking.

I thought that was pretty weird.

[shygirl413]

My fiancé is a VERY quirky guy lol but I still love him to death! He's not exactly the "in crowd" kinda guy ether

altho, I would feel kinda awkward about him wearing a speedo when I can barely talk myself into a 2 piece lol! But I'd get over it :)

[Anonymous]

If you have lots of money they will make an effort

[peace-love-couture]

You sound bitter