My boyfriend is tripping?

[Anonymous]

Im the green my boyfriend is the grey , isn’t he being dramatic?

iyfriend is the grey I’m the green? Am i wrong?

[xoKendrick]

Wow you're the type of girl I'd stop communicating with asap.. middle of conversation you just stop texting him while turning up with your friends.. and then he's asking normal questions to understand what the hell happened to his girlfriend last night.. and you don't make sense at all in the text.. like your logic is so retarded lol and every girl commenting "he's paranoid leave him" are the same girls that will never have a real man by their side

[Asker]

I told him that i was leaving and he does this to me all the time so... he acted like i completely ignored him

[xoKendrick]

Okay

[Asker]

Okay

[snowboarder2920p]

Your phone went dead, but it was still at 5%? Am I missing something here? Then you started getting ready for work, and THEN went to bed? Lol.. Like he said, that doesn't make sense.

[Asker]

I want to save my battery for an emergency and i got too lazy to put my phone on the charger

[lostgirl_searching]

I'm not going to say he overreacted because it's possible maybe he use to go out with anyone and cheated or left him for someone else. Unless you did or didn't know, you should of just told him that if you don't respond it means my phone died. My boyfriend and I always tell each other that when we know we will be out majority the whole day. No need to make anyone worry. Maybe try talking to him without causing an argument.

[Asker]

I thought he would have understand i wouldn’t purposely ignore him

[lostgirl_searching]

Yes I understand but it happens when someone gets worried.

[Asker]

Ohokay then

[ChronicThinker]

I think he overreacted, but he wasn't wrong for being a bit fucked up that you stopped talking to him. I get that your phone died but you should have plugged it in lol.

[Asker]

Lol after reading the comments i understand that but i wouldn’t intentionally ignore him i told him two days ago i had plans with my girls on Saturday

[ChronicThinker]

Yeah if my man knew I was going out he wouldn't expect me to be texting him, but he probably felt hurt that you just dropped off without responding to him.

[Asker]

I understand

[TheMediocreUnknown]

Manipulating and controlling. Sort shit out one way or another or its going to come back and bite you in the ass

[Asker]

Okay i will

[TheMediocreUnknown]

Thank you, don't like to see people get hurt because they're unsure or shy to do something about it

[Asker]

Thanks

[Bear41]

Ok here And how would have you felt if he was the one that was unreachable. And he is right your last text did not make sence. You said. I don't know, I started getting ready for work and went to bed.

[Asker]

Well i don’t know why i did that Loki left my charger in my car and i didn’t really feel like going outside to get it so i started preparing for work

[Bear41]

And how do you feel when you can not get intouch with him or you think he is ignoring you. I bet you got really upset. Be honest.

[Asker]

Yeah but i don’t assume the worst or blow his phone up lol

[Asker]

I just start to miss him a lot when he goes quiet

[Bear41]

Guys are protective. I had a bad feeling one night and went out and found my other half have been in a bad accident she almost didn't make it.

[Bear41]

She spent 4 days in the ICU.

[Asker]

Wow I’m sorry

[Bear41]

Don't be sorry for me. Just remember how you react if your in the other person shoes.

[Asker]

I understand thank you

[Bear41]

Your welcome.

[Furkan11]

He maybe overreacting but i don't think your actions are totally cool and understandable

[Asker]

What do you mean

[Furkan11]

He says i knew your phone wasn’t dead so you could check up on your phone sometimes. You hanged with your friends overnight you could told your boyfriend 'my phone is about to die don’t worry i’ll be okay and talk with you tomorrow'

[Asker]

Okay well i understand where you are coming from lol now

[Anonymous]

Your phone cannot go dead but you have 5% battery left. You never charged it... suspicious.

[Asker]

It went dead lol

[Opinion Owner]

Explain the 5% part for me.

[Opinion Owner]

Your phone was never charged according to you, so how is it that you had 5% battery life without charging your phone?

[Asker]

It was 5% when i left the house

[Anonymus2017]

Even if he is tripping. It's only because he cares about you.

[Asker]

Or he is controlling

[Anonymus2017]

Dump him then.

[Dreamguy2000]

You both need to get to know each mire, a guy that cares about you checks up on you if he didn't you wouldn't know how he felt about you. Being a girl it's different. You think he is controlling but he isn't it's just a guy thing.. men are the protectors in a relationship they see the future for you and know the game very well. Girls out here are party fulfilled bodies. And so it seems here he just oblivious thinking about you. The best thing to do is reestablish a trust bond again with him

[Asker]

More like thinking about me cheating

[Dreamguy2000]

Yeah he has trust issues

[Dreamguy2000]

He loves you I see..

[Dreamguy2000]

It shows ownership of his girl

[Asker]

How can you see that he loves me and yeah he doesn’t trust me

[Deukalion]

It looks you avoiding him , why you are in contact if you don't like him, just broke with him.

[Asker]

I went out i wasn’t avoiding him i told him i went out

[Asker]

I told him i went out beforehand

[Anonymous]

He sounds controlling and paranoid

[Asker]

Paranoid about what

[Opinion Owner]

Like he doesn't trust what you're doing

[Asker]

Okay

[Opinion Owner]

But you're not doing anything wrong, he needs to trust you if he's dating you

[Asker]

Right i told him where i was

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah, be careful. If he can't trust you itll be hard for the relationship to progress.

[Asker]

Okay thanks

[iamnash]

Girl mines use to be like that I was like tf?

[Asker]

He used to be like that? Did he change or did you guys break up

[iamnash]

Yes change years later broke up

[Asker]

That’s sad

[Dreamguy2000]

You girls need a real man

[Asker]

What do you mean

[Dreamguy2000]

I real man would of told you by know why he is acting the way he is

[Dreamguy2000]

Unless he lacks in capacity to understand you

[Dreamguy2000]

The thing is your young and innocent.

[Dreamguy2000]

You just need guidance

[Dreamguy2000]

He guys need to reestablish trust bonds with each other

[Dreamguy2000]

I am part physic and I am a empath.

[Asker]

Okay

[Anonymous]

Paranoid asf

[Asker]

About what though i told him where i was

[Opinion Owner]

He doesn’t believe you

[Asker]

I don't know why I’ve never given him a reason to lie

[BeWithMe]

He's tripping.

[Asker]

Right