A genre in manga and anime where a single (often ordinary) guy is liked and followed by bunch of girls (3 or more) who are all madly in love with him. The girls often fight each other to get the guy's attention.
Some men have personalities that are magnetic to women, so you want to snuggle and love him for reasons you can't explain.
Ladies-men are mistaken for players, but only choice date a girl (usually his favorite,) from their "harem," or outside of it.
One of our servers at work is a ladies man and 4 of the waitresses really like him. I am apart of it though not attracted to him, I look forward to talking and hanging out with him at work. Its weird, like the one guy who isn't your crush, that you look forward to interacting with.
He is fllirtacious, witty, and cuddles you without coming off sexually or innapropriate. Usually gives thoughtful compliments, extremely playful and typically gentlemen like or sweet. Sensual as fuck but not sexualizing.
*The main thing is the personalized attention he gives to each girl. He catches onto your personality traits then interacts in the ways youd like a guy too.
-Like he will put his hands on my waist at times and sing some twerk song lyrics I play dance to, because I love hip hop dancing, and like when men give attention to it. We laugh then go our ways.
-He goes about his "harem" and will pull the blonde girl's pigtails playfully because he knows how much she obsesses over her hair, and likes attention for her hair. He will even let her talk hair care with him.
-He quotes flirty lines from animes at the manga type girl or pretends to do jutsus with her from Naruto.
Yoy just love the fuck outta this guy as a girl with or without romantically liking him.
Its his openess in giving constant male attention, as much as he enjoys female attention in return.
buut.. you never know who he is romantically interested in because he seems to like all women so much he can't pick one.
Travel to Swaziland, and attend the Reed Dance (http://swazimedia. blogspot. com/2017/08/swazilands-sinister-reed-dance. html) to scout out girls to start off your harem with. You could either offer them a better life in the Western World, and take them bak with you; or you could marry them there. Polygamy's completely legal there, there's no cap on the number of wives you can have, dowry prices are pretty low by Western standards (but extremely high by local standards, giving you an inherent advantage), and courtesy of the King (an absolute monarch, and currently the official master over the largest harem in the world, with 15 wives and hundreds of concubines), divorce has now also been made illegal (https://qz. com/966741/swaziland-will-become-the-first-african-country-to-ban-divorce/), though wives can still be rejected and sent back to their families. You wouldn't mind a harem of black girls, would you?
You'd have to build a strong bond with 3+ women, giving them your time and attention in order to make them feel important. Then, arrange a day for all of them to meet up with you at the same place at the same time! When they all arrive, be prepared to embrace a lot of drama with them questioning why you did what you did and why other women are there! Although there's the worst case where they gang up on you because women will work together if they must! You'll get the attention either way, good or bad..
This just sounds like an awful idea to begin with but I couldn't resist xD
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