How do you deal with the "peer/social pressure" of NOT having a BF/GF, especially during teens? 😇 💕? (Page 2)
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I never have girlfriend till college but yeah even without relationship during teen i can hangout with anyone and even better with no relationship = no drama and everyone can still be friends ;)
There were some moment that feel the same as you do but i would say "confident in yourself" will help you a lot with this problem.
I was never bothered. Probably cause I did have options. If you allow peer pressure to get the better of you, you get desparate, and the smell of desparation drives everyone away!
be happy to not be in a relationship... it can be way worse than being alone, I've been in an abusive relationship for over a year and I can't manage to break up, because I'm too scared of her doing some fucked up thing...
Oops. Sorry to know that. Hope you're well now. TC. 😇💕
Honstly , Being Pressured by is never good , but how too deal wiht it is as esay as how you say it too your self , if you dont have a its bf/gf okay , mabye you didn't find the right one yet , Realy mabye just try too ignore it and try too say your self "i dont need too hurry" thats how i came truh , esaly becuze i didn't let anyone puch me. I will wait till i find the Right one.
Trust me, that's be best thing to be single, specially in you teen era.
Instead of figuring out about how loser you are by not having a GF/BF (which is a totally false statement), one should be focused on his/her goals in life and start planning for that. Don't worry about GF/BF, they'll come eventually... There are other things in life far more important than GF/BF.
What do you like? Remember this you are responding for you. You drink , you get wasted and you get taken advantage of. Your boyfriend is going to tell you that you want to. That's to late. To prevent anything you didn't want. You have to be reserved in your activities.
I don't get pressure for being single, I just explain that relationships are expensive and time consuming and I would rather spend my time and money on more important things
By reinforcing the idea that life is unpredictable and that in a short time these people will be separated heart broken and off to their own journey in life that differs from yours.
I meever had a girlfriend in my life but I dont care. Why should I need a girlfriend when have a hand and access to internet with full porn
I absolutely hate that teens are pressured to date. It’s just ridiculous to me and another thing to stress about.
Well, u can have a boyfriend /gf. If you can't, then divert ur attention to something u like, something u crave for it...
Nice 👍💕
As a girl, you get dates. Either they come to you without lifting a finger or you use a dating app. You will drown in opportunities.
As a guy, you learn patience.
What was the point in posting pictures of yourself.
Thats what I was thinking.
Right? I thought OP just wanted compliments but looks like it failed lol
Hey, that's not me in the pics. Does that look similar to my dp?
Lol idk🤔 I’ve never had a boyfriend, but I guess knowing that any moment u could meet the love of ur life is kinda cool.
No idea what you're talking about, like seriously, who the fuck gets peer pressured into having a bf/gf, that's not a thing, nobody gives a shit if you're single or not
That is a thing, just because you haven't experienced it, doesn't mean it's not real
Maybe it's regional, it's definitely not at all a thing in Michigan, where people are actually sane
All my friends always try to peer pressure me into dating, and I just don't feel like it. I don't know why, like guys have asked me out and they're lovely and I think they're cute, but I just can't see myself settling with someone right now.
I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 17 and at the time I would of had one at 13 if someone wanted me but now I'm glad that I was older because I was able to focus on myself during school and life.
when i was 17 i got with a girl i didn't really like because of it. part of it was because i wanted the whole virgin teasing to stop (im still a virgin so it never did) part of it was proving that im not gay (i know i like girls but i still am really confused whenever i like a guy. even though i put the label on it and it does feel right i still dont really like it.) it ended up hurting both of us and ill never do it again. id rather be with someone i do like.
Glad to hear there won't be anymore shady behavior. Honesty is policy
I am 17 and am still a virgin and have never had a girlfriend. I felt pressure from a couple of my friends. I have just become less close friends with them and become closer friends with some other guys and girls that don’t put pressure on me.
You just have to know whose opinions you value, usually people who like and care for you don't give social pressure
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