So I've got a huge problem regarding my boyfriend and anime. So I need opinions?

[Anonymous]

So I'm 16 and my boyfriend of a year and a half is 17. He watches anime. I knew that when we started dating and i was okay with it. I don't watch it myself but I have watched a few series in the past myself. After about a half a year of us dating I found on instagram that he was following a lot of hentai accounts. It honestly made me mad and I felt very disrespected I confronted him about it and he unfollowed all of them. So now lets fast forward to today. Today i saw that he liked a picture from an anime account. This was one of the accounts i didn't typically have a problem with because i THOUGHT it didn't post anything that looks kinda hentaish. Because it for the most part didn't. But the picture he liked was sexual and showed the girls body and her boobs. I was angry but what made me beyond pissed was in the comment section he had commented saying woah and the girl looked good. I felt so unbelievably disrespected and so angry. As i scrolled through the account I saw other posts he had liked and commented on that pissed me off as well. I don't care if my boyfriend watches anime but I hate hentai and I hate it when follows accounts with hentai or likes pictures with hentai or showing girls's bodies in a sexual way. It makes me feel so very disrespected and it hurts me. Am I the only one that feels this way? I want to confront him because this is becoming a huge problem for me because I'm constantly worry about "what if he's looking at these pictures or watching videos like that? What if he finds pleasure in it?" It's getting to the point where im paranoid daily. Please, any help?

[Anonymous]

"what if he's looking at these pictures or watching videos like that? What if he finds pleasure in it?"
So what if he is? It doesn't change anything.
Try this: Assume he's been doing it the whole time you've been together and before... Everything was still the same if he wasn't doing it. There's no actually harm or crime being committed or whatever, this is basically just about a stick you have up your butt about content he likes. You're bothered over something trivial.

Attraction doesn't just get switched off when you enter into a relationship.

[ZanyInternetName]

You. You're the reason we can't have nice things. I don't like anime, but it is not because I am jealous over some fictional girls (guys, rather, I guess). That is a terrible reason to hate hentai. What would hour reaction be if he liked actual porn? Visit a fucking psychologist.

[ChronicThinker]

You're being intensely dramatic and insecure. Hentai is just drawn porn. Looking at stuff to get off is so human and normal it's not a big deal.

However, if it's the point where he's following multiple accounts and actually commenting: K, that's a bit much and a bit rude. But it isn't a massive problem.

[kaskas19]

It's
Literally
Cartoon
Porn.

You're jealous of cartoon porn.

Let's try saying this out loud.
"I am jealous of naked cartoon girls."
-Doesn't sound too logical, does it?

So what if he gets off to it? They're not real. They're cartoons. You're being over dramatic.

[Anonymous]

You can’t force him to stop looking at it lol. He likes it so he will keep looking at it, and it isn’t even like real people lol.. he could like actual porn 😂 what would you do then?

[dropkicknj13]

What is wrong with you? Lol so is he not allowed to look at other women at all or are you only mad if they're 2d?

[ZanyInternetName]

Assuming d<0
2d > 3d

[ZanyInternetName]

Stupid gag. Now without symbols:
"Assuming d is smaller than naught:
2d greater than 3d.
Since the above is true d is smaller than naught.
Anime 1 : OP 0"

[GnarCute]

you are overreacting wayyy tooo muchhh he is fuckin 17 he is young he will look at porn of woman and hentai i do it and im in a relationship too

[Monster_Recluse]

All guys with any sort of sex drive what so ever look at porn.

[jessture]

Get over yourself and your need to have a boyfriend tightly wound on a leash

[cancan73]

He's obviously googling hentai and then deleting his history,
He's weird, why would you choose a cartoon over the real thing

[ZanyInternetName]

Just use private mode, FFS. I hate these amateurs.

Actually, just use a second browser installation. Allows you to find that perfect vid again.

[cancan73]

Lol.