So I'm 16 and my boyfriend of a year and a half is 17. He watches anime. I knew that when we started dating and i was okay with it. I don't watch it myself but I have watched a few series in the past myself. After about a half a year of us dating I found on instagram that he was following a lot of hentai accounts. It honestly made me mad and I felt very disrespected I confronted him about it and he unfollowed all of them. So now lets fast forward to today. Today i saw that he liked a picture from an anime account. This was one of the accounts i didn't typically have a problem with because i THOUGHT it didn't post anything that looks kinda hentaish. Because it for the most part didn't. But the picture he liked was sexual and showed the girls body and her boobs. I was angry but what made me beyond pissed was in the comment section he had commented saying woah and the girl looked good. I felt so unbelievably disrespected and so angry. As i scrolled through the account I saw other posts he had liked and commented on that pissed me off as well. I don't care if my boyfriend watches anime but I hate hentai and I hate it when follows accounts with hentai or likes pictures with hentai or showing girls's bodies in a sexual way. It makes me feel so very disrespected and it hurts me. Am I the only one that feels this way? I want to confront him because this is becoming a huge problem for me because I'm constantly worry about "what if he's looking at these pictures or watching videos like that? What if he finds pleasure in it?" It's getting to the point where im paranoid daily. Please, any help?
So I've got a huge problem regarding my boyfriend and anime. So I need opinions?
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