Try to see if I can find women willing to have casual sex with a married man. Not that many, but good sexting with a few of them. I would say 70% looking for a strong relationship, 20% eastern girls looking for a western husband, 5% looking to sell their 'services' and 5% any thing else.
It's useful if you want to practice talking to women who have nothing better to do than get male attention, otherwise, best to look elsewhere. I have had dozens upon dozens of matches, only 3 dates and 1 girl ended up being a short term girlfriend but I honestly had doubts about her from the get-go. People go on that app from loneliness, but most of the app is bad company. Personally, I'd rather be alone than in bad company.
@LeoElias We weren't at all compatible and had entirely different expectations for relationships that were not shared. She was a major Disney geek and believed men should have 100% of the financial burden, she also did not at all reciprocate sexually. She admitted that she was purposely trying to find things wrong in our relationship.
Had a bad experience once, when I started dating this guy from tinder that I liked and he turned out to have been lying about deleting his profile on there and and used it to on me since day one. But I have a really good experience now - have been with him for over 2 months now and I’ve never in my life been happier in a relationship.
I suck at tinder, I actually am a really bad texter.
The thing is I am really confident in real life but over text I suck. People do have a tendency of being fake online to grab a date while I play the game of you get what you see. Less chicks but less bullshit too.
My boyfriend and I met on tinder lol but we definetly weren't on tinder to find a relationship we both just wanted a one night stand but we had crazy chemistry and now we have been together over a year it's like the one night stand that never left
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I've only used it once when i was in new york for like a week cos i was pretty sure there are a lot of cute guys there lol and i was right. The conversation was fun and all but when the guy asked if id like to meet in person i freaked out and didn't go through with it...
The spinning tinder fingers works. Unattached me and I just wait. Then I pick out the ugly ones who are easily turned on and make my own poem with them for poem hub.
They are so thirsty its fun and east clean pussy. So far up to 27 and climbing. I have 2 on the hook for tonight who want a three some.
Still use it, but never had any luck. A few matches, but ultimately I dont get matches very often and when I do I have very breif chats. Basically always get ghosted, which pisses me off lile at least tell me your not interested instead of ignoring me. No dates yet or any actual luck
I was on there for a couple months and got 130 matches and like on half replied 😂😂i hooked up with like 5 of them and got head from a few it was alright. This was like last year and some of the girls still message me to hook up so there’s that lol. But most women just use it for a ego boost and not matter how good looking you are they won’t reply lol
I've had good experiences with it. I got to know some interesting people and I'm currently dating someone I met on there. We have a lot in common so things are going well so far. 😊
I dont know where to start but to make the long story short I'll just say that a while back I had this theory that all women have prostitutes encoded in their DNA and Tinder pretty much proof my theory correct on this.
TInder yah, along with the popularity of Twilight and fifty shades of grey's massive popularity? I think the concept is similar and helps push the idea. If I ever use a dating app, it'll likely be Bumble as long as I can do a decently good profile description, readily sarcastic and post a picture making duck lips, one of me with cutesy cat ears, and one of me cupping and showing off my glorious man boobs. Then the wait to see the likely zero amount of women will bother to even consider talking to me as I shrug my shoulders and more easily find another guy I can have a good chat with after watching netflix and maybe some making out and cuddling session, cause a human with an actual soul and sense of humor and wit had been found.
and that human isn't a woman, but a man. Oh well, I do have a slight thing for long haired super metalheads. Maybe it'll get more intense as time goes on.
@errorgoodnameunfound Bumble is no different. in fact I heard people say that shit is a lot more feminized than Tinder for the fact that only women are allow to make the first move there. which of course this is nearly impossible for it to ever happen unless you look like Tom cruise or are filthy rich
"Then the wait to see the likely zero amount of women will bother to even consider talking to me as I shrug my shoulders and more easily find another guy I can have a good chat with after watching netflix and maybe some making out and cuddling session, cause a human with an actual soul and sense of humor and wit had been found." My other part. Fully agree with ya. It's about the only sort of app for dating I'd get if at all, and I know full well even then it probably sucks. Hell, maybe the 15 supposed matches I'd get with 2 messages not going much more than "Hi". "Hiya" "So what restaurant ya wanna meet at? I'm thinking this super fancy one that just opened. Pick me up at 5?" "BYE" stuff proof would shut up people if they bug me for being single. Rather not just become a free food ticket but proof that shit exists is good to have.
Yeah it’s so hard to find anything real nowadays. All of the girls who sleep around make it hard for good girls like me that don’t do that. I had to explain to a guy from bumble that I don’t sleep around and I’m not that kind of girl and he keeps messaging me at late times. He was like “I never said you would spread your legs” ... like I’ll hangout with him at his place as friends because he clearly doesn’t wanna go out on a date... just to get a feel for him but I’m nervous he’s only going to want to fuck me. I explained it to him so many times I’m not like that.
@Heyyyyhoneyyyyyy I'd think twice about going to his place honestly. It's understandable he wants no dates as he likely doesn't want to risk being the free meal ticket I mentioned. Yet then again, going to his place first thing and constant messaging... eh... no public place to meet first? Seriously? Doesn't have to be a date to just go to a mall or some shit, sit n talk. No obligations to buy. Hell, meet at a Walmart if needed and shop together. That way if he wants to be so economical, you can see if he's serious about it. Though I have doubts he'd say OK to it. So why not just a movie you each pay for yourselves? Jeez.
@Heyyyyhoneyyyyyy You may have to, yes. If you don't want to bang, you don't have to. Hell, a good tactic I think may be to say "listen dude. I know other girls get wet at the thought of a penis, regardless of the shock they may get when it can't grow as long and thick as their dildos, much less satisfy to the same level, but I'm not that type, as penises are as much part of the body as a rib. There's no way we can just catch a movie or enjoy some shit at taco bell, whilst paying for our own stuff and get to know each other before just using my blobs of fat as your entertainment? Cause if not, I don't know what we are gonna do besides waste both our time and Bumble for now has plenty of options. If you wanna bang so badly, there's likely an app for that or a cheap sex doll Amazon has on sale." The kind of bluntness in something like that, as well as showing dominance over knowing and protecting one's own body is the kinda thing that can either snap him into reality or have him ghost you. Either one is better than constant encouragement of sex with a likely shroom I'm pretty sure. May end up having to look for somebody else, but the mess it may have saved you from is likely worth it.
Lol agreed I’ve been in some iffy situations before! I’ll just say “I don’t have sex unless I’m dating someone or serious, I don’t sleep around and think you have the wrong impression of me.” “I’d have to know you before doing that”
I have said something like that before like why can’t you have sex with one of your whores and he said he doesn’t have any whores. He’s not talking to anyone etc.
I honestly think he’s completely single... like alone, alone. Kind of like I am. He and I both have been in relationships for awhile before this. And we’re finally free. We talked about all of this. I mean if anything I’m sure he has a girl or two he uses for sex but I’m not one of them. He always asks me to come over.
I’m human, of course I want him. We’re both attracted to each other. But I’d like to know him better. I told him I’m not a whore.
I don't know... he saved my two nudes I sent last night. We talk and get along. But I do think he’s forcing himself to back off so he doesn’t start liking me lol. I don't know. He’s very confusing.
Tinder in my opinion is 50% hos and 50% fat hos. Every girl on there just wants to fuck. I put as my profile no hookups and a sentence about how i believe in traditional relationships and dating and how im christian. I literally got a match and the girl asked if id fuck her anyways casually because she always wanted a hot manly guy to hook up with. Smh. I dont use it any more because of this.
@Heyyyyhoneyyyyyy i feel like when im forward that im not looking for a hookup that girls get scared away. Like eww a man who wants a relationship something must be wrong with him. But then if i get more flirty girls try to get sexual right away. And if i dont do either how would they even know im interested? Lol.
No personal experience. Though three of my good friends (both girls and guys) have used tinder. None had actual success on it in terms of relationships but they did get some dates
If you're not good-looking, you get a match roughly once a month and she doesn't even talk to you when you message her. So for me, it was completely pointless. I have no idea why I even kept the app on my phone for more than a year.
that British female backpacker got killed because she met a stranger from tinder. A lot of criminals use tinder. Once a guy had a fake picture, got nudes from 16 year old girls and blackmailed.
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I used it for one day for an ego boost. I got like 99+ likes within few hours. I deleted it after I saw that lol. There were some cute guys on there but not a lot. All the guys I thought were cute swiped right on me so that was cool. I don’t ever plan on downloading it again tho
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lots of hot guys on there... but u have to pay to stay relevant
I dont pay but still get lots of likes, I dont think you have to pay to stay relevant. Just need to choose good photos and a fun bio :D
i mean like if u want use the app you have to pay for some features
ah okay, yeah some features are locked I guess. Never found use for those features tho :D
Try to see if I can find women willing to have casual sex with a married man. Not that many, but good sexting with a few of them. I would say 70% looking for a strong relationship, 20% eastern girls looking for a western husband, 5% looking to sell their 'services' and 5% any thing else.
It's useful if you want to practice talking to women who have nothing better to do than get male attention, otherwise, best to look elsewhere.
I have had dozens upon dozens of matches, only 3 dates and 1 girl ended up being a short term girlfriend but I honestly had doubts about her from the get-go.
People go on that app from loneliness, but most of the app is bad company. Personally, I'd rather be alone than in bad company.
What was wrong with her?
@LeoElias We weren't at all compatible and had entirely different expectations for relationships that were not shared. She was a major Disney geek and believed men should have 100% of the financial burden, she also did not at all reciprocate sexually. She admitted that she was purposely trying to find things wrong in our relationship.
Had a bad experience once, when I started dating this guy from tinder that I liked and he turned out to have been lying about deleting his profile on there and and used it to on me since day one. But I have a really good experience now - have been with him for over 2 months now and I’ve never in my life been happier in a relationship.
**used it to cheat on me
no used it for one day
got a few matches and just gave up on it
I come from a time
of approaching women in person
it's a lot more fun
but the women have gotten
stupid so I don't approach anymore
plus MGTOW and redpill are out
so it's a waste of time dating women HOT OR NOT
I suck at tinder, I actually am a really bad texter.
The thing is I am really confident in real life but over text I suck. People do have a tendency of being fake online to grab a date while I play the game of you get what you see. Less chicks but less bullshit too.
My boyfriend and I met on tinder lol but we definetly weren't on tinder to find a relationship we both just wanted a one night stand but we had crazy chemistry and now we have been together over a year it's like the one night stand that never left
I've only used it once when i was in new york for like a week cos i was pretty sure there are a lot of cute guys there lol and i was right. The conversation was fun and all but when the guy asked if id like to meet in person i freaked out and didn't go through with it...
Yea like every girl on there lol
The spinning tinder fingers works. Unattached me and I just wait. Then I pick out the ugly ones who are easily turned on and make my own poem with them for poem hub.
They are so thirsty its fun and east clean pussy. So far up to 27 and climbing. I have 2 on the hook for tonight who want a three some.
Still use it, but never had any luck. A few matches, but ultimately I dont get matches very often and when I do I have very breif chats. Basically always get ghosted, which pisses me off lile at least tell me your not interested instead of ignoring me. No dates yet or any actual luck
I was on there for a couple months and got 130 matches and like on half replied 😂😂i hooked up with like 5 of them and got head from a few it was alright. This was like last year and some of the girls still message me to hook up so there’s that lol. But most women just use it for a ego boost and not matter how good looking you are they won’t reply lol
I've had good experiences with it. I got to know some interesting people and I'm currently dating someone I met on there. We have a lot in common so things are going well so far. 😊
Is this the guy that cheated?
@jcampbell115 No
@xHoneyxBeex good, I'm glad this one is seemingly going better for you
I would ask for Tinder advice actually, but you don't seem to want to respond anymore
I dont know where to start but to make the long story short I'll just say that a while back I had this theory that all women have prostitutes encoded in their DNA and Tinder pretty much proof my theory correct on this.
Lmao!!!
Sounds sexist man
@hansukota its the truth, you do know action speaks louder than words right?
And how does it make"all" women prostitute?
TInder yah, along with the popularity of Twilight and fifty shades of grey's massive popularity? I think the concept is similar and helps push the idea. If I ever use a dating app, it'll likely be Bumble as long as I can do a decently good profile description, readily sarcastic and post a picture making duck lips, one of me with cutesy cat ears, and one of me cupping and showing off my glorious man boobs. Then the wait to see the likely zero amount of women will bother to even consider talking to me as I shrug my shoulders and more easily find another guy I can have a good chat with after watching netflix and maybe some making out and cuddling session, cause a human with an actual soul and sense of humor and wit had been found.
and that human isn't a woman, but a man. Oh well, I do have a slight thing for long haired super metalheads. Maybe it'll get more intense as time goes on.
@errorgoodnameunfound Bumble is no different. in fact I heard people say that shit is a lot more feminized than Tinder for the fact that only women are allow to make the first move there. which of course this is nearly impossible for it to ever happen unless you look like Tom cruise or are filthy rich
"Then the wait to see the likely zero amount of women will bother to even consider talking to me as I shrug my shoulders and more easily find another guy I can have a good chat with after watching netflix and maybe some making out and cuddling session, cause a human with an actual soul and sense of humor and wit had been found." My other part. Fully agree with ya. It's about the only sort of app for dating I'd get if at all, and I know full well even then it probably sucks. Hell, maybe the 15 supposed matches I'd get with 2 messages not going much more than "Hi". "Hiya" "So what restaurant ya wanna meet at? I'm thinking this super fancy one that just opened. Pick me up at 5?" "BYE" stuff proof would shut up people if they bug me for being single. Rather not just become a free food ticket but proof that shit exists is good to have.
Yeah it’s so hard to find anything real nowadays.
All of the girls who sleep around make it hard for good girls like me that don’t do that.
I had to explain to a guy from bumble that I don’t sleep around and I’m not that kind of girl and he keeps messaging me at late times. He was like “I never said you would spread your legs” ... like I’ll hangout with him at his place as friends because he clearly doesn’t wanna go out on a date... just to get a feel for him but I’m nervous he’s only going to want to fuck me. I explained it to him so many times I’m not like that.
@Heyyyyhoneyyyyyy I'd think twice about going to his place honestly. It's understandable he wants no dates as he likely doesn't want to risk being the free meal ticket I mentioned. Yet then again, going to his place first thing and constant messaging... eh... no public place to meet first? Seriously? Doesn't have to be a date to just go to a mall or some shit, sit n talk. No obligations to buy. Hell, meet at a Walmart if needed and shop together. That way if he wants to be so economical, you can see if he's serious about it. Though I have doubts he'd say OK to it. So why not just a movie you each pay for yourselves? Jeez.
@Heyyyyhoneyyyyyy Please be careful about home visits. I get it's often one of the most convenient ways, but there is always risk.
So what should I say to him? Should I put my foot down and snap at him lol
I keep telling him I’m not that type
@Heyyyyhoneyyyyyy You may have to, yes. If you don't want to bang, you don't have to. Hell, a good tactic I think may be to say "listen dude. I know other girls get wet at the thought of a penis, regardless of the shock they may get when it can't grow as long and thick as their dildos, much less satisfy to the same level, but I'm not that type, as penises are as much part of the body as a rib. There's no way we can just catch a movie or enjoy some shit at taco bell, whilst paying for our own stuff and get to know each other before just using my blobs of fat as your entertainment? Cause if not, I don't know what we are gonna do besides waste both our time and Bumble for now has plenty of options. If you wanna bang so badly, there's likely an app for that or a cheap sex doll Amazon has on sale." The kind of bluntness in something like that, as well as showing dominance over knowing and protecting one's own body is the kinda thing that can either snap him into reality or have him ghost you. Either one is better than constant encouragement of sex with a likely shroom I'm pretty sure. May end up having to look for somebody else, but the mess it may have saved you from is likely worth it.
Lol agreed I’ve been in some iffy situations before!
I’ll just say “I don’t have sex unless I’m dating someone or serious, I don’t sleep around and think you have the wrong impression of me.” “I’d have to know you before doing that”
I have said something like that before like why can’t you have sex with one of your whores and he said he doesn’t have any whores. He’s not talking to anyone etc.
I honestly think he’s completely single... like alone, alone. Kind of like I am.
He and I both have been in relationships for awhile before this. And we’re finally free. We talked about all of this.
I mean if anything I’m sure he has a girl or two he uses for sex but I’m not one of them. He always asks me to come over.
I’m human, of course I want him. We’re both attracted to each other.
But I’d like to know him better. I told him I’m not a whore.
I don't know... he saved my two nudes I sent last night.
We talk and get along. But I do think he’s forcing himself to back off so he doesn’t start liking me lol.
I don't know. He’s very confusing.
Tinder in my opinion is 50% hos and 50% fat hos. Every girl on there just wants to fuck. I put as my profile no hookups and a sentence about how i believe in traditional relationships and dating and how im christian. I literally got a match and the girl asked if id fuck her anyways casually because she always wanted a hot manly guy to hook up with. Smh. I dont use it any more because of this.
Wrong. And the ones who aren’t hoes like myself get approached like one. They made every guy think that every woman is easy.
Like I can’t use the apps at all. They’re dating apps not fucking app- go on fucking craigslist if you’re a hoe.
@Heyyyyhoneyyyyyy i feel like when im forward that im not looking for a hookup that girls get scared away. Like eww a man who wants a relationship something must be wrong with him. But then if i get more flirty girls try to get sexual right away. And if i dont do either how would they even know im interested? Lol.
Go for the girls who aren’t whores. Give girls like me hope. Good girls have it so bad nowadays because of these hoes.
Like no one even goes on dates anymore.
If I’m not official with a guy he’s not getting sex. I might possibly give a bj or handy if I’m feeling generous...
But that’ll have to be after like a month.
They act like I owe them something. And they’re not even taking me out.
No personal experience. Though three of my good friends (both girls and guys) have used tinder. None had actual success on it in terms of relationships but they did get some dates
If you're not good-looking, you get a match roughly once a month and she doesn't even talk to you when you message her. So for me, it was completely pointless. I have no idea why I even kept the app on my phone for more than a year.
I was on it for 20 minutes and decided never again. People on there are so shallow and are as interesting as watching paint dry.
definetly not everyone there is, but quite a few amount are.
that British female backpacker got killed because she met a stranger from tinder.
A lot of criminals use tinder.
Once a guy had a fake picture, got nudes from 16 year old girls and blackmailed.
I used it for one day for an ego boost. I got like 99+ likes within few hours. I deleted it after I saw that lol. There were some cute guys on there but not a lot. All the guys I thought were cute swiped right on me so that was cool. I don’t ever plan on downloading it again tho
How comes?
@massb because most guys on there just want to hook up
I tried it out of boredom and curiosity.
After 15 minutes of cringy photos, lame pickup bio and swiping left, I uninstalled it.