How to make her change her mind about dating?

[singitout22]

So there is this girl that I am talking to right now that I really like, and she likes me to. But, she doesn't want to date me because she is hurting from her last relationship and she thinks if we start dating she will hurt me because she isn't ready. So we flirt with each other all the time but nothing seems to ever get close to becoming serious. I have told her many times that how will we ever know if you don't give it a true. I drive her mad and crazy, because she knows it's true and that I make her happy. I would do anything thing for this girl. I am a very stubborn person and I fight for what I really want. And I know she really wants to just how to I get her to say it? How do I get her from think negative to giving it a chance to see if it will work out?

[adamretex81]

buddy, you can't use logic to convince her. you have to trigger her emotions. and make her want you. if you keep pleading with her to go out with you it won't work out probably. you gotta play it cool and have fun with her and show her a good time. but keep your space. be scarce at times. and do your own thing with your mates and other chicks. and when the talk comes up..you say you aren't sure but there is something there between you two and its enought to give it a try so you want to try for a couple months but in an open relationship where you can see other people. that's the key. when you're not with her, she has to think about you and where you are and who you're with. don't be nice to her. don't always be available. decline going out and hanging with her at times. be busy doing something else and don't even tell her what else you are doing. just say you got other plans. got it mate? you see, she knows you want her. people don't appreciate things they already have. they only want what they don't have. that's just people's nature. use my advice and good luck

[easygoinginFL]

dude you have to push back. Now that you've told her numerous times that you want to date you need to act the complete opposite. That doesn't mean stop flirting etc, but don't say the words you've been saying about wanting to be with her.

When a woman knows she has you around your finger it's over. You have to control the situation, even if it means that you won't get together.

Continue how you act now, but maybe take a few days off. Get out with friends ...dont smash it in her face but she will directly know what you've asked for and indirectly realize that if she doesn't commit even an inch, that you will be gone and then you guys can just be flirting friends.

Maybe cut the flirting back and if she ask's why acting different ...let her know that you're interested in a relationship and it's not fair to your feelings to keep acting this way without a mutual connection.

BIGGEST POINT - PUSH BACK. You deserve it and she deserves to know you're not there for just when she wants and maybe she will give in some.

[michie]

Perhaps it is true that some girls are like that but some are not like what you have described. Doing what you said might be the reason why the girl refused to get together with the guy. He might have said it, but if he doesn't act like he meant it, it doesn't give the girl a reason that he is being serious about it. Then if he push back and continue with the flirting, it would just make him come out as a player, and that would be the end of the two of them.

[maga_84]

You can stop seeing her for a while and then come back... you´ll see her change.

If she really cares about you she´ll miss you...and I would be easily for you to make her dating you.

You´ll see!

[michie]

You'lll have to show her through your actions that she can depend on you. Flirting with her all the time and still not ending up being serious might have made her feel otherwise about you.

[singitout22]

So other than showing her and telling her I really care and like her. What would you want the guy to do.

[michie]

That is really all you need to do, but you'll need to do the two together. If you tell her but come off as not being serious, or if you show her but tell her otherwise, then she would think you are just playing with her feelings. You said she was hurt from her last relationship so it is very difficult for her to let herself get attached to another guy again. The only way to make her feel comfortable with you is to let her know that you are not like him, and that you will always be there for her.

[singitout22]

I see where you are going with this. So don't be to strong and always trying to impress her. Just be a sweet guu and let her know I care and she should come around.