How can I get my soul mate to dump her current boyfriend and start dating me instead?

[Anonymous]

I have known her longer than he has. She was my future girlfriend barged into our lives and bamboozled her.

[Ozanne]

You don't. You're talking about her as if she's stupid. You don't think she knows how long she's known you as opposed to him? She's quite aware. She's made her decision on who she wants to be with, and it's not you. Sorry if that hurts, but not one person is decidedly supposed to be with someone else because of the cosmos or length of time they've known someone. If that's the case we all would have ended up with some fool we once knew from kindergarten.

It sucks when the person you love is with someone else, but it's best you move on and wish her well. If you don't, it's not really love at all.

[provokeesmokee]

Soulmates aren't real and she probably never knew you liked her. Or if she did, she's creeped out by your overly attached obsession with her.

You aren't together and you need to respect she isn't interested in you.

Stop before you get any worse or end up on 4chan calling women "females".

[Asker]

She was not creeped out by me, just shy. He probably manipulated her or used force to get her to date him.

[provokeesmokee]

Nah, man, I see why she would not want you.

You are projecting your opinions and your insecurities onto other people, and that makes you a creep.

Good luck, you'll need it.

[Ironic_Method]

Knowing someone longer means you're entitled to her? What? Why didn't you make a move if she was your "soulmate"?

Also, if she was your "soulmate", wouldn't that mean she'd already be with you instead?

[Asker]

We have known each other almost our entire lives. I know her better than anyone. I did make a move. I told her we are made for each other and we should date. She is shy, so she said maybe in the future. So she was my future girlfriend until the bamboozler took her and probably forced her to agree to date him.

[Ironic_Method]

Forced her, huh? Do you think maybe she doesn't feel thr same way and CHOSE to be with him instead of you?

[Asker]

She is shy. Always has been. I have always been the one who have had to ask to hang out. I was always the one who had to come up with what we were going to play as kids. She does not make important decisions like this that quick. So he must have done something to get her to say yes, despite knowing she was going to date me when she felt ready. So no, I do not think that.

[In_Trance]

Smfh... bruh

[MysteriousDarkness]

You are very jealous that some other guy is with her instead of you. You are jealous to the point that you have convinced yourself that no other guy can get with her without manipulating her or forcing her to be with them. On top if that you believe the length of time you have known her entitles you to be with her over every other guy. Just because she is shy is no guathat is shy with everyone. Maybe she felt comfortable around this guy.

[Anonymous]

I am a professional 💀
Give me his details and 20K and he won't be a problem anymore

[Anonymous]

You can’t. You can stick around and see if she dumps him, then step up.

[HelpfulWoman]

XD XD XD XD

[Anonymous]

Open your pocket in front of her not your heart.