So I said to a girl I need time to date and she says I have a lot of boys falling for my so this is your chance, should I just dump her?

[Anonymous]

[Lliam]

How can you dump her if you never even dated or had any relationship?

Why would you need "time" just to go on a date, have fun doing something together, and get to know each other?

It sounds like she likes you and is giving you a chance to get off the dime. If you aren't ready, she's not going to wait around. That's a normal and healthy attitude on her part.

You're the one who is dissing her. You're saying that she isn't worth the effort of holding onto.

I guess you're young and have to grow up some more. It sounds like she is already grown up. Girls mature sooner than boys.

So either pull up your socks and show an interest in her or let her move on with life.

[bededazzle]

if you need time, then sounds like it

[ZamerZ]

If she treats you like an option among many, forget about her. She's not a keeper.

[Malwi93]

yeah she's a bitch

[dean53AU]

I wouldn't bother with her

[Anonymous]

Yeah she doesn't really like you