I’ve been interested in this lesbian for some time now. I’ve had two college classes with her in the past and that’s when she crossed my radar. The very first class we had together I wasn’t interested because I had a boyfriend ( I’m bi ) but I was walking into class one day up to my seat and caught her staring at me with her mouth slightly open and it looked like she wanted to say something but I looked away. We never did anything and the next semester we had another class. I caught her sneak a few glances at me throughout the semester and on the first day we did an ice breaker in class where we went around the class to say our names and she waited until after I introduced myself to the class to leave the class early which was weird because there were still more people that needed to go. She literally left right after I went. Another class she shaved her hair off and when she took off her hat to show everyone she glanced at me first. That’s when I became interested in her. One class she sat next to me because her seat got taken and she seemed nervous and was fiddling with the bottom of her shoe and her keys but she also looked bored so I don't know lol. She didn’t talk to me. On one of the last days of classes our professor called my essay out and asked me to explain it. When I did the lesbian girl did a loud “mmm” because she was agreeing with me and I’ve never seen her do that with anyone before. Also once I got nervous when the professor called on me and started stuttering and the lesbian girl started giggling with her friend but it didn’t seem like it was in a rude way. We had to schedule appointments with the Professor and I made mine for a certain time and she scheduled her appointment for the time slot directly after mine.
It’s been about a year since then and I just graduated lol but I’ve been meeting people in her circle and someone asked if knew her the other day at a party. I wanna just add her on Snapchat. Is that a good idea?
It’s been about a year since then and I just graduated lol but I’ve been meeting people in her circle and someone asked if knew her the other day at a party. I wanna just add her on Snapchat. Is that a good idea?
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Hmmm just talk to her one day or something. Doesn't have to be anything to crazy, can just be small talk. Adding her on snapchat can cause some awkwardness when y'all go to class cause like do you pretend you guys never talked or start talking all of a sudden. That's why I recommend talking in person first. It does seem like she could like you, so you don't HAVE to take the passive route if you don't want to but it seems like that's what you would prefer.
Anyway just talk to her first. Can be small talk, then just continue that. See if she'll be willing to go up to you too to converse. Of that works then if you want you can ask her for her snap. Just randomly adding without knowing how you got hers can be kinda odd. But if she likes you then it's not a big deal just trying to prepare you for all situations.
But ask for her snap then talk more and more and then start complimenting her outfit or hair or say she looks pretty give her signs you into girls too slowly so she isn't confused and then get more touchy playfully. Then start flirting. Then ask her ass out
Or. Just go up to her and ask her out
You choose. But I just gave you the whole formula on how to pull this girl. It's so much easier knowing if the girl likes you. It helps you be more confident. This is so easy even a caveman can do it.
Well see I’m actually not in college anymore, I just recently graduated so I wouldn’t have to face the awkwardness of seeing her in class. If I had a class with her currently then things would’ve been way easier for me.
But this was helpful anyways, so thanks! I kind of want her to ask me out it’s just a matter of me breaking the ice first.
Hmmm, fuck it then add her. You might not have another option
And how can she ask you out if she doesn't even know that you into girls
Anyway, it's time for this poor Mexican to go to sleep. See yah
Hmm, I don't think adding her outta the blue is a good move sis. But this could potentially be your chance! Some thoughts:
- Ask friends of friends for her number instead of social media. More personable.
- Text saying you ran into so&so, hope she's been well since class. Mention a fun memory to jog her memory.
- Suggest getting coffee sometime to catch up now that school's done. Lowkey, no pressure.
- Let the convo flow naturally at first. See how she reacts before deciding if she seems interested too.
- Watch for signs like engaged eye contact, laughing at your jokes - those are good signs!
I'd say feel it out - don't expect anything but be open. If vibes seem good, you could ask more directly later on how she felt in class. Might surprise ya!
Just play it chill sis. You never know what could happen! Keep me posted though, I'm invested now 😉 You got this girl!